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I had a provider tell me she thought I was her father's friend....
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So, when I heard that, I HAD to see her. I asked about her father and I know nobody like she described. When I insisted she said she didn't want to. Keep in mind, I had already made an appointment to see this local provider that fell through due to scheduling conflicts.  

So, when she insisted no, I sent her an email telling her about how her website needed some fixing and how she should be more professional, etc., and when she realized I cared about her, she finally agreed to see me. Bottom line, she was mistaken and we have since seen each other many times.

I did once see a provider that looked just like a family friend's daughter. Needless to say, I saw her once and that was it. Too creepy

There is a provider visiting my area that drew my eye. Dove into her website and, after a few photos, I realized that she bears great resemblance to the daughter of a good friend.

Not only that, her "home city" is the same. Too weird for me, I am going to pass.

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

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Edit - maybe my deep subconscious is in play here? Yuk!

-- Modified on 2/8/2016 10:42:26 AM

If any chance its the same, why chance the possible embarrassment for either you or her.  On the other hand if shes really hot and you dont really like him, go for it, LO

FatVern246 reads

I guess you can't control the other person's reaction.

If he knows the chick's dad, maybe he can find a way to play with out having to pay.

I would book her. It can turn into a dream session. Worst thing she can do is pass on you when you knock on the door. I vote be adventurous. See what happens.  

Posted By: doncord
If any chance its the same, why chance the possible embarrassment for either you or her.  On the other hand if shes really hot and you dont really like him, go for it, LOL  
   
 
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Canitbe178 reads

Who is she going to tell lo

in spending money if you're only going to be concerned about this anyways?

Might as well see someone else

odds are you are absolutely wrong. Then again, there has been a mom or to that didn't like me dating their daughter. Didn't stop us. (Not P4P).

Don't let your imagination ruin your fun. Use it for the exact opposite.

So, when I heard that, I HAD to see her. I asked about her father and I know nobody like she described. When I insisted she said she didn't want to. Keep in mind, I had already made an appointment to see this local provider that fell through due to scheduling conflicts.  

So, when she insisted no, I sent her an email telling her about how her website needed some fixing and how she should be more professional, etc., and when she realized I cared about her, she finally agreed to see me. Bottom line, she was mistaken and we have since seen each other many times.

I did once see a provider that looked just like a family friend's daughter. Needless to say, I saw her once and that was it. Too creepy

toozman116 reads

How long has daughter's friend been in the business? A lady who has been engaged in the practice for sometime, and who plans to remain active, will understand the absolute necessity for discretion. However, if she sees it as more of an adventure that she'll soon move on from, she may be more inclined to share information about her experiences. I have no idea how you would assess her plans.

Not to mention that he is your "good friend" and 99+% would consider it a betrayal (rightly or wrongly). Of course you did the right thing.

Good call in passing, If its her, no way will she be happy to see you at her door. If its not, you'll still be worried and nervous and it may ruin the date anyways. Why risk it?

...all the agravation that can come from a situation like this.

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