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all you want is a hand job and bj

 
once in a while i get clients who do not like to kiss i guess for same reasons some providers do not kiss...they won't do any penetration or DATY because they are paranoid....

session is awkward and not passionate for me at least...

why book gfe provider and drop so much $$ if you can get similar service for much less at AMP for example.

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hour in a comfortable setting even if all I want is a blow job. I still want the talk time, the hugs etc. I do kiss and want that too. Just because I'm not going for FS doesn't mean I don't want the rest of the GFE.  

I haven't actually gone in to a session knowing I only want hj and/or bbbj but I have done that a time or two after getting there. It's a go with the flow kind of thing

boy octavia i usually am with you 100% but you kind of sound like you're complaining that you are getting over paid in some instances.

maybe they think your pictures are incredibly hot.  i know i do.  even if they don't want a kiss or gfe, maybe they just want a hand job by an incredibly beautiful woman.  

i wouldn't mind that.  of course i'd want more with you, (way more) but i can see why someone would want someone gorgeous at the end of the arm stroking their member.

remember guys are very visual creatures.  we likes the looks.  you are incredibly hot.  i'd love a hj from you, so i can totally see why some guy who doesn't want all the gfe would want a beautiful woman like you to do him.

and if he wants to pay your rate, why complain?  take the money, jerk him off and run!  lol!

i guess it makes sense;))
thank you for compliments and reasoning

I think you're all missing something here ....  especially after reading some of the subsequent posts ... Lady O is a pleaser and you'll leave her company more that satisfied. She's a giver, take her comments from that perspective.

I've been lucky enough to be on the receiving end on more than two ocassions, as well as the giving end. She's an All Pro WIDE receiver ... 😉 and a sweetheart as well.  

Right now, there's only one woman I desire more than her ... and she is unavailable .... and I've yet to touch her skin. Or speak her name.  

 

Posted By: BigPeterJohnson
boy octavia i usually am with you 100% but you kind of sound like you're complaining that you are getting over paid in some instances.  
   
 maybe they think your pictures are incredibly hot.  i know i do.  even if they don't want a kiss or gfe, maybe they just want a hand job by an incredibly beautiful woman.    
   
 i wouldn't mind that.  of course i'd want more with you, (way more) but i can see why someone would want someone gorgeous at the end of the arm stroking their member.  
   
 remember guys are very visual creatures.  we likes the looks.  you are incredibly hot.  i'd love a hj from you, so i can totally see why some guy who doesn't want all the gfe would want a beautiful woman like you to do him.  
   
 and if he wants to pay your rate, why complain?  take the money, jerk him off and run!  lol!

sure, it must suck in a lady's mind to not be desired completely, esp. 3 times in a row.  but the unfortunate reality of p4p is that the customer comes first (no pun intended).  if a guy wants a hj from a gorgeous girl and nothing more, well, then, sorry, but that's her job.  

you can rest assured that i've pm'd miss o privately to let her know i find her immensely attractive and if she's ever on the west coast i would treat her right.  her gorgeous pictures aside, her postings here on the board make her even more desirable.

and now with your high accolades she is nothing less than the holy grail of providers imo lol.

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Posted By: octavia.lexa
all you want is a hand job and bj  
   
   
 once in a while i get clients who do not like to kiss i guess for same reasons some providers do not kiss...they won't do any penetration or DATY because they are paranoid....  
   
 session is awkward and not passionate for me at least...  
   
 why book gfe provider and drop so much $$ if you can get similar service for much less at AMP for example.  
   
 comment away

Posted By: octavia.lexa
all you want is a hand job and bj  
   
   
 once in a while i get clients who do not like to kiss i guess for same reasons some providers do not kiss...they won't do any penetration or DATY because they are paranoid....  
   
 session is awkward and not passionate for me at least...  
   
 why book gfe provider and drop so much $$ if you can get similar service for much less at AMP for example.  
   
 comment away

Sometimes I want full blown gfe. Sometimes I simply want all of the attention on me, and get a nice massage with a happy ending with an fbsm lady. Sometime I simply want a massage without the happy ending.  

First of all, amp action isn't legal, and one never knows when there's going to be a raid. Although I used to do it in the past, that first raid scared the hell out of me, so I stopped. With the advent of reviewed escort/fbsm sites with private encounters, raids were a thing of the past.  

Sometimes my reviewed fbsm/massage ladies are unavailable. When I need, or want a massage only, and they're busy, I'll upgrade to one of my gfe ladies who dabble in both. It is more expensive, but when I need a massage, I need a massage. But you're right. The gfe ladies I see always want a lot of action, and are none too happy when it's massage only. But they're professional, and I always promise them a gfe visit in the near future.

I agree with you Octavia.

A QV for a HJ or BJ is just too clinical for me.  

I want the passion (or illusion of it, anyway) and some time to enjoy everything.

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I remember hanging around my GF's incall all day once with several of her friends, her roommate had a couple of appointments that day, but the apartment was set up so her room was blocked off and as long as we kept the noise down, the clients could never tell there was anyone else in the apt.

That day was just a fluke for her roommate, but she had three appointments back to back to back where none of the guys actually fucked her. She felt the exact way and after the third client in a row wouldn't fuck her she came out of her room, said "what's wrong with these fucking guys?, I want to FUCK" and then proceeded to call her BF and told him to "get your ass over here, I want to fuck!!!" when he showed up she dragged him into her room and that's the last we saw of them for hours. lol

I guess that blows a hole into the theory that all hookers are MHB's trying to do as little work for as much money as possible and who hate the sex. Believe it or not boys and girls, some hookers really enjoy the sex.

and yes, I am with you MZ. I have zero desire for QVs that consist of a simple HJ or BJ, but I do understand there are those that want exactly that and have no desire to fuck, go figure.

had a string of B'n'Gs and were glad to have a client show up who wanted a little extra time and cared a bit to please in return.

I met one young lady working with a group of friends who "helped" her by throwing up a shitty pic on BP and booking her QV's for a week straight. She was at the end of her rope. When I asked for two hours, she was stunned and didn't know what to think.

We wound up at dinner with me showing her some ways to make things work more to her advantage as an Indy... and she does well as an indy to this day

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Just speaking from personal experience.
Some providers are just better at blowjobs or handjobs than other providers.
Also the same holds true as far as sex with certain providers too.
I don't see anything wrong with just wanting a sloppy blowjob or massage for a hour to relax either.

Posted By: octavia.lexa
all you want is a hand job and bj  
   
   
 once in a while i get clients who do not like to kiss i guess for same reasons some providers do not kiss...they won't do any penetration or DATY because they are paranoid....  
   
 session is awkward and not passionate for me at least...  
   
 why book gfe provider and drop so much $$ if you can get similar service for much less at AMP for example.  
   
 comment away
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To name a few:

Many massage gals don't do BJs, even covered.  They are strictly rub and tug.

Many guys are justifiably leery of MPs.  They do get busted a lot.

The guy may really enjoy the company of the particular GFE gal.  I see some gals whose physical prowess is just OK and/or limited, but I love them as people and want to be with them.

He may want to warm up to the gal before exploring more intimate activities.

He likes the way she looks.

I'm sure there are more, but you get the idea

...why someone would not want to kiss you in a session.  (And if he couldn't do it, I ain't gonna try!)

I mean, obviously BPJ and I think you're the bees knees. :-)  

But some guys just might not be feeling the chemistry. It happens. We all have "types," and maybe you're just not his?

To me that's wasting what the hobby can really be, he'll I can handjob myself

I must say that I like your giving attitude!  It's a shame that you don't seem to do outcalls. An overnight in your apartment complete with cats is a deal breaker.

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