At this so-called university...I'd like to be a guest speaker.
I think you need it and me.
Have you ever given your ATF a raise?
I am asking this because I did give my ATF a raise. I did this because I thought I was under paying her for what she does during the session. I figure why not pay her for what I thought she should be getting to be paid. Her rate for two hours is low compare to most providers in my area. Plus when we are together it is the best sex ever. I have been with thirty providers so far and none of them even comes close to level of fun we have.
BTW for all of you that thinks that I have fallen for her because I did give her a raise. You are dead wrong, I like just the way it is. She comes to see me once a month, we have some intense sex and a good time then she goes home. I don’t want to know anything more about her, I don’t want to date her or married her, I just want her to stop by and show me a good time then leave. I don’t have any problem paying her for her time as long as she keeps up with the level of the past session I will keep seeing her until she decide to move on, or until I feel she is no longer fun to be around.
Was it wrong of me to give her a raise
WTF is she making minimum wage?
Jesus Christ that's ridiculous. Just call it a damn tip will ya...sheesh lol 
I am asking this because I did give my ATF a raise. I did this because I thought I was under paying her for what she does during the session. I figure why not pay her for what I thought she should be getting to be paid. Her rate for two hours is low compare to most providers in my area. Plus when we are together it is the best sex ever. I have been with thirty providers so far and none of them even comes close to level of fun we have.
BTW for all of you that thinks that I have fallen for her because I did give her a raise. You are dead wrong, I like just the way it is. She comes to see me once a month, we have some intense sex and a good time then she goes home. I don’t want to know anything more about her, I don’t want to date her or married her, I just want her to stop by and show me a good time then leave. I don’t have any problem paying her for her time as long as she keeps up with the level of the past session I will keep seeing her until she decide to move on, or until I feel she is no longer fun to be around.
Was it wrong of me to give her a raise?
A tip is a one time thing you give somebody. I plan on giving her more for every visit we have so yes it is a raise for her to see me.
I think it is only fair for her. Yes the last two visit we had there was more money in the envelop for her. I have to say the last session was the best by far by her. I think she appreciated the extra cash because she show how much
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And I beg to differ (of course).
So you give her a "raise" every time you see her? No. You give her a "tip" every time you see her.
Now repeat after me: A tip is not a one time thing if you give one each time. A raise is not a one time anything in this world. End of discussion. Lol
Now say that 10 more times so you get it lol. No tip necessary. A simple thank you will do.
That I should just pay her what I was paying before I decided to give her extra. I feel that she deserve more then what I was paying her. That is total up to me if I want to up her rate to see me I will. If you want to call it a tip then so be it. I prefer to call it a raise due to the fact she is awesome girl.
Alright, I'll let this one go (biting lip)
Yes. Call it what you will sir. Treat her right now!!!
Treat her with respect. That is one of the reason she continues to see me.
but of course lol (ayayayay)
We all just ho's. Take a deep breath an chill.
I love horses. And technically...oh well I'll just keep that a secret for now lol
This is so confusing... And now again you took your website down and changed you city? Well enjoy Atlanta and check out Phipps Plaza and all of Buckhead.
Steph
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Generous and likely a good way to keep the sessions increasingly fun. No girl should expect a raise early on (unless there is a request for more time or menu), but if you are seeing someone for years, term renegotiation can be awkward. Money shows appreciation and works better for some of us than any lubricant.
I think it is only fair for her. Yes the last two visit we had there was more money in the envelop for her. I have to say the last session was the best by far by her. I think she appreciated the extra cash because she show how much
As for answering the question I'll just say I think it's a stupid question and so not incline to play along.
It is up to you to do whatever you like with you money and nobody in here should critize you for that but don't be surprise if some of these people who post in here will jump all over you and even disrespect you...
Technically, you gave her a tip. If you pay your lawyer more than what the they charge then it's not like you gave your lawyer a raise. Only she can decide if her rates will change as a result of your subtle advice for her to raise her rates.
This is not really a right or wrong kind of scenario. You decided to pay her more and you felt she deserved it. I'm sure she is happy to have received more moola. If she decides to raise her rates and her business continues to do well then good on her, but if her business suffers she will need to readjust her rates back down. Then again, maybe your "raise" will take care of all that.
What every one else thinks?
who cares what anyone thinks is right.
why even ask these yahoos what you and another consenting adult should do between the two of you?
that's what "consenting" means. neither one of you have to ask permission of anyone else in the world.
enjoy yourselves. tip, raise, whatever, you pay her what you think she's worth, she does you what she thinks you're worth, it works out.
have fun.
Crowing about it on the board makes him a douche bag.
So I guess we are left with a kind, generous douchebag who has to let the whole world know his ATF is worth an extra hundred bucks to him. He is the polar opposite of that other Douche bag who wanted all of us to boycott all hookers charging more than $300 hr, but every bit as douchey.
You make a good point. It's a little like a provider posting a thread asking "Is it wrong that I like to offer discounts? I just feel a guy should pay a little less because some have complained that my body is too perfect and my service too addictive." Lol
Thank you for calling me a douchebag and you are a clown who wear a suit to impress a hooker and they tell you how nice you look and take your money,what a clown!!!
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It's seem like I am the only one to decide that my ATF is worth more to me then her normal rate. The main question is, have anybody given a raise to there ATF because you thought that her time was worth more to you?
i've given my atf a tip. i've given my other atf a non-sexual christmas present for her enjoyment only (ie, not lingerie, etc).
it's what you want to do. do it.
I have often done this with really exceptional massage therapist, and a couple of times when buying art. I hate seeing people undervalue themselves, and their craft.
if the raise/tip...........is actually based upon the client feeling the provider is normally underpaid. I believe the additional stipend is an expression of appreciation for the rapport/connection that is established between two people.
Agree this can be based on amazingly good service............but am convinced a variety of other factors also come into play.
It's not something that can be put into an easy algorithm.
guys like you make the world a better place
Treat others how you would like to be treated in return. If you have been with 30+ other ladies you see value in the service she provides.
You give her a raise to let her know you appreciate her service. She may even return the favor...buy outfits you like, go out of her way to fit you into her schedule etc etc
By all means if she is worth the extra money and you can afford it... we should all think this way.
Guys - How many times do we see a woman and say, damn, I just blew $400++. She really wasn't worth it. You find someone you like take care of her.
Barry
A topic right up his wheel house. I expect him to jack this up like a pinata....Yo JD!!
I am using the term raise because I am thinking as a working relationship. I pay her to come to visit me once a month. So I employ her for her services as a provider. She goes over and beyond on what I expect from her. I decided that she needed a raise and gave her one.
Thank you and good night
is the best way of allowing your actions.........to reinforce your words (hopefully you have told her how much you appreciate your time together).
You do not have to fall in love with her..........to share chemistry, mutual respect, and appreciation. You can both do these things........and still keep the proper perspective (IMO). But the additional revenue.........must surely add to the sense of rapport you are establishing with her. While we are all different and enjoy different things about each encounter.........keeping it real while sharing an amazing connection.........only helps me enhance the entire experience.
Sounds like you may be doing that as well. Good for you!
every time they unzip my pants!
good night folks, try the veal!
when you do give her the raise, do you ask for permission first?
Does she get dental too?
BP, he tried to get in to JDU but he wasn't accepted.
At the free luncheon we had for visitors day, he demanded to pay $100
At this so-called university...I'd like to be a guest speaker.
I think you need it and me.
we only allow guest speakers who have made 6 or fewer handle changes in last 18 months
how in the hell can you run a university Jack? You've had quite a run yourself my dear sir.
But I may say, I may have had a few handle changes, but a great catch is still a great catch, now innit it
You went in to a pretty lengthy explanation there about how you're supposedly not falling for your provider?
Are you sure you're not falling for her JUST A LITTLE? Like maybe instead of falling, you just sort of slipped on a banana peel, but then regained your balance.
Perhaps "can't get up" is too strong of a term. Maybe you just HAVE A LITTLE DIFFICULTY getting back up?
She has earned it.
Time spent gives her to time to....
Count de Monet
If you feel like she deserves more and you're in the financial position to give it, why not? I don't think it's much more complicated than looking at it as a nice gesture. Fist bump to you.
