...You won't stumble all over yourself to pay prostitutes but you will stumble all over yourself to pay sex workers? Wow, what a genius you are!
I recently declined a date with a prospective client after looking through his review history. He'd reviewed quite a few ladies.. upwards of 30+ plus.. with the reviews spanning about a year and a half. The majority were 'quick visits' or 30 minute meetings and he seemed to have a hobby budget of 150$ or less. I don't offer dates like that, and I didn't think he'd be able to afford my 400/hr. His reviews were also really crass.. which I suppose is to be expected when you have to literally get in and get out lol. My reviews, imo, read like yummy, sensual stories and I didn't want then tainted by a guy who regularly used phrases like 'get a quick nut' and 'balls deep in that pussy'. Just no thanks..
After letting him know that I wouldn't be able to see him because of his review history, he told me that he loved my reviews and he didn't think he should be judged poorly because of his... yada yada. I blocked him and moved on.
I'm sure my reviews have caused me to be 'screened out' by plenty of guys, particularly ones that are looking for something PSE-ish. I'm curious to know if any of you guys have experienced that?
Obviously your body your choice.
Maybe he was ready to step up the real deal and you where the one he selected.
One review, for most ladies, isn't going make any difference. The semi-literate guys here know to look at the guys review history when judging his scoring.
Because of this type of situation, I hesitate to write some reviews because I don't want to deal with any backlash. I had one stretch where I gave out a bunch of 7's and 8's to ladies that deserved those scores and when I asked for a date with a much higher rated lady I got rejected. Not 100% sure that was the reason, but as I have tons of references I can't imagine what else would have caused it.
So when a lady has a lot of high scores that I don't agree with I just skip the review. I like helping my fellow hobbyists out, but this is. after all, a selfish pursuit.
Yeah, I've also declined dates with guys who are low scorers (low being completely subjective). It's not worth the risk to my reputation.. and most importantly my income.. to visit with guys like that. I get wanting to experience the finer things lol, but I'd rather not be the one he experiments with. And I'm sure he'd try to get the most 'bang for his buck' after practically tripling his budget to see me.
Certain language is a turn off and might be indicative of how I might be treated so instead of putting myself in a situation I would rather avoid and waste their time, I declined.
The truth is, judging is a two way street.
There are certain words and phrases that immediately but prospective clients on to my 'hell no, not ever' list. If his reviews read like someone who wants to hurt the woman he's sleeping with.. I know we're not gonna be compatible. 'Beat that pussy up until she screamed', 'shoved my cock into her (mouth, pussy, ass)' , 'really made her work for it', 'left her sore, tired, etc'. If I read anything like that, he just gets blocked.
I have to admit, not only do reviews work both ways where both the reviewed and the reviewer are out there for all to see, but after reading some of the reviews that you just mentioned, I am rather loathe to even see the woman who was reviewed as I am afraid she'll justifiably have an attitude worse than H+T because of the abusive way the last guy treated her.
I honestly can't imagine why a woman would agree to a session with a guy who bragged about how abusive he was/is.
When your rent is due you'll see whoever calls or emails.
$400 isn't much anymore either. Unless you are a prostitute in Des Moines?
If people talk like one other infamous poster on this board and sound like they don't look at us like human beings, or they sound genuinely abusive, why would I want to risk that? While I don't expect every guy to be a romance novelist and understand not everyone had a strict grammar teacher, a few write things in a very degrading and dehumanizing way. I also look at board posts, too.
Unlike what some think, I would guess many of us CAN afford not to see everyone.
Sometimes posts and reviews make us want to see you more - because of how you think of women, perhaps your tastes, etc. - so it can be a positive, too.
So I still have a shot!!
I don't link the review sites to my "ask" sites...
The truth is, judging is a two way street.
Considering you are A #1 on my bucket list?
I was told by two separate providers, years apart from one another, that they found my "reviews" in one case "too critical" and by the other "too descriptive" of activities that I enjoy.
I was bummed because in both cases I had wanted to see both of them for some time.
In reading later reviews and back channeling I realized that in one case the years had not been as kind as the photo lens indicated and in the other the ability to preform a certain magical act was not as advertised.
So as in most things, they typically happen the way they are suppose to. I did not get disappointed again by fluffed up reviews and they were able to live off of old press info packets.
Win-Win
They can benefit both sides of the party, but also penalize both sides of the party.
I too have done the same. It is funny to me when it is clearly obvious a gent has 'realized' this very notion and his numbers diminish in posting them...because of it lol.
Reviews can work wonders or do they?
After letting him know that I wouldn't be able to see him because of his review history, he told me that he loved my reviews and he didn't think he should be judged poorly because of his... yada yada. I blocked him and moved on.
I'm sure my reviews have caused me to be 'screened out' by plenty of guys, particularly ones that are looking for something PSE-ish. I'm curious to know if any of you guys have experienced that?
I'll decide who I want to see. I can see a prostitutes website or her P411 ad. Easy enough to scan a review as well if I cared to read the Penthouse crap the guys write.
No one has or ever will screen me out.
The entitlement from the prostitutes is unbelievable.
I too have done the same. It is funny to me when it is clearly obvious a gent has 'realized' this very notion and his numbers diminish in posting them...because of it lol.
Reviews can work wonders or do they?
After letting him know that I wouldn't be able to see him because of his review history, he told me that he loved my reviews and he didn't think he should be judged poorly because of his... yada yada. I blocked him and moved on.
I'm sure my reviews have caused me to be 'screened out' by plenty of guys, particularly ones that are looking for something PSE-ish. I'm curious to know if any of you guys have experienced that?
tax season is a bitch, innit it? lol
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Just keep reading, they will be easy to see. You already have one slithering in to comment.
Correction make that 4 others.
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Too funny. This world is taken WAY TOO SERIOUSLY in that regard. Jesus H. Christ.
A review is just a freakin' review.
Who is slithering in btw? My buddy? I'm ready to play haha. Bring it. I'm a tad feisty today
I ask the provider if she wants a review. If she does I let her read it before I post it. I do not want to offend her and it is her business that she is trying to grow.
I thought you weren't going to post on the boards anymore?
How you been sweetie?
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Do I know you? And why are you keeping tabs on me?
I can post when I want Dad, but thanks 
I never will either.
I am not shocked at your OP either. The number of johns that stumble all over themselves to pay prostitutes has created a nightmare for those of us who just see prostitutes as sex workers
...You won't stumble all over yourself to pay prostitutes but you will stumble all over yourself to pay sex workers? Wow, what a genius you are!
Prostitutes are 'elite'. Sex workers are just 'classy'. lol
he sticks his elbow in the toilet bowl to poop and wonders why nothing happens.
who in the hell are ya anyway hahahahahha...I have absolutely NO CLUE!!!!! lol
seem to 'know' you. And I don't lol. Doesn't matter to me, feel free to remain anonymous lady, works for me
Half the big mouths on here bend to the rules in order to get laid, but act like they don't. Hell I am sweet as sugar in order to get paid. Do you really think a trick would book me on my board posts?
So really, who knows the "real" who?
I wasn't saying the "real" us but our personas here lol. I don't know who many are here (personas that is). I really don't care in all honesty either with all the alias' that fly thru here. I just like playin here when I'm feelin feisty lol. I absolutely get a kick out of those who say this is part of our 'marketing' plan or not hahahahaha. I get the biggest chuckle out of that one.
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Well, I'll be damned... Tricked again!
You know what I love on either sex? Those lines that are at an angle either side that point down to heaven. Low slung anything and you can see them. I get the extreme urge to trace those depressions allllll the way down .....
I think you know better
I deff think you and HT need to book somethin' lol. Clearly there's an "understanding" there. Go get her tiger....rerrrrrrr lo
...but it's very difficult to maintain a false persona over time. Someone may fool us for a short time, but just like liars they soon get caught and their true self comes out. If you are as fit as you say, I would book you based on your posts without a review.
Yes, reviews are a double edged sword, and we do take a risk by writing them, but one that I think is acceptable to attempt to make this playground better.
Solo mis dos centavos...
And you would?...lolol, I am not I even sure I would, but then again you are the Senator. And I am at the mercy of your images.
I am pretty vanilla. I have mentioned before that the types of guys I see are not counting positions or sex acts but need and desire more affection and intimacy than raw sex. I am very successful with that genre.
i am not a sex machine, i actually prefer foreplay to the actual screwing but i do like a good cg session.
though i'm pretty good with my fingers, a few ladies have helped me figure out how to find the clit and what to do with it once i got it. apparently good lube helps.
you have done nothing but make me more interested h+t.
Then I'd say compatibility is a go!
I play in the game just a few times a year, so I really try to do my homework before asking to see someone. Doesn't mean I would rule out asking to see someone who appeared classy on her board posts. It just makes it improbable to see someone solely on the basis of what she has posted.
On the other hand, I think it is an intelligent strategy for a provider to use a guy's reviews to help determine whether she thinks they might be compatible.
The wrong john and I am out, and I mean I will end the session and refund. And when I have mentioned compatibility or rather the incompatibility, I have been chastised greatly. And I have said to a john, "you would rather see me knowing I don't want to see you and that the session will not be to your liking".
Makes me think there are those types that enjoy placing a woman in a fearful or uncomfortable position.
I do not give a reason, I will let them know we are not a good match and then block.
You whined about not ever doing OTC a few months ago, then you claim now that you will do OTC, and have. You whine about how horrible the review system is, not just here but on your Twitter account. And then when you've been outed you whine and say it isn't really you HAHAHAHAHAHA
Stick to your truck stops you lot lizard. But even then some of the johns write reviews on you. You're just another of the angry old BSC prostitutes who have to suck cock because you have nothing else in your life.
Makes me think there are those types that enjoy placing a woman in a fearful or uncomfortable position.
I do not give a reason, I will let them know we are not a good match and then block.
She's been around here as long as you have. 3600+ posts under that same handle over the last 2 1/2 years. People "seem to know her" because of her board history, just like you know her becsuse of her board history.
Must I spell everything out to you in black and white lol. That water in Hawaii must be getting to you. Btw I'll wave as I'm flying over you soon lol. Or maybe not
First, I stick my arm into the hole. Then, if I can then walk away, it know it's the former and not the latter! LULZ!
I mean it - If you screen me out because of my reviews, you have saved me many hundreds of dollars and a few hours of my time. This is a good thing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Though admittedly, I would appreciate a short note to the effect that you don't think we would be compatible.... and I promise I'll leave you alone
You have a thing for inexpensive, slightly overweight, middle aged women.. you wouldn't be interested in me lol. And I would gladly screen you out, and let you know, I'd have no issue with that all .
She said based on my reviews we wouldn't be a good fit because I like MSOG during 90 minute sessions...and she would rather have some wine, a good chat, and see where it goes from there... Seriously?!? Oh and she charges $600/hr. LOL.
In the end she admitted that "wouldn't be a good fit" really meant she was afraid of a bad review. Fair I suppose. Reviews can make or break someone.
Though in the end it was a huge blessing is disguise because it saved me a lot of money...and the next guy who reviewed her gave her a 2 for performance. Karma is a bitch
It's interesting. Some ladies get mad when you write a well crafted, lengthy, detailed review. Just give them a quick overview, and some good numbers, and they're happy. On the other hand, some ladies, like you, absolutely love the sensual short stories, and are going to block anything but. That can be very confusing to a reviewer. Back in the day, I wrote hundreds of reviews, all short story oriented, just like you like. I included those anecdotal humorous moments that always occur during a session. You would have loved getting one from me. In fact, many ladies told me that their business increased after one of my reviews. But because of several different issues with reviews over the years, this being one of them, when I came on board TER, I decided no more reviews.
And yes, some ladies refused to see me because of how detailed my reviews were. In fact, one lady said she would only see me if I promised not to write one. Since she had six pending, I thought that extremely unfair. She was a drop dead gorgeous, big boobed blonde. She was none too happy when I told her that I insisted on writing one, so no thank you to the session
"time to break out the allias reviews". NOT!
Guess I'll take my chances.... I haven't heard that I was ruled out for my reviews, but I did get a solid "NO" simply because I posted semi-regularly on the boards.
And to think I believed it was my Shrek-like appearance (less his charm and wit) that would be my downfall
Games. Games. Games.
How would you possibly screen me? LOL
I wouldn't screen you. End of story Jack.
There never was a story. LOL
So don't ask. End of story again.
HT, you're getting close, but of course the smart money is always on "Gia."
I love seeing you two buddy up together. LOL
It reminds me so much Cuba and Venezuela's relationship. 
After letting him know that I wouldn't be able to see him because of his review history, he told me that he loved my reviews and he didn't think he should be judged poorly because of his... yada yada. I blocked him and moved on.
I'm sure my reviews have caused me to be 'screened out' by plenty of guys, particularly ones that are looking for something PSE-ish. I'm curious to know if any of you guys have experienced that?