I have never been stood up by an agency lady, there have only been a few times that an agency lady has been late, and never more than 15 minutes. I cannot say the same for Indy's (in my experience).
I nearly always request a date a week or more in advance, and I've never cancelled within 48 hours. I always suggest a time, but I let the lady know that the time is a suggestion and if another time works better for her then she should let me know and we'll schedule for that time. Most of the time the lady will say "X:00 works better for me". OK, well then be on time, you've been given the opportunity to schedule your business within a time frame that agrees with the rest of your day, plan your day accordingly. My customers (internal and external) don't give me that same flexibility, they dictate what time I'll be there, and I'm on time because I respect their time. I'm very respectful of a lady's time, the only time (count it one) that I've been late I paid for 2 hours and only spent 1:45 because "I" was 15 minutes late. I don't book based upon whether a lady is Indy or Agency, I book based upon her and her reviews. However, my experience within the past few years has been that Agency ladies are more reliable and timely.Don't get me wrong, we're blessed(?) here with fantastic agencies. Love 'em, but what I enjoy most with an indy is the opportunity to establish a steamy level of interest in each othe before we meet. When there's some hot flirting leading up to a first meet, It's a great ice breaker. Actually, it's more of a "I sooo want to meet you" theme
Example
just one)
There's a steamy milf whose looks and blog make we want to walk to NC in a blizzard to see her. We texted, talked on the phone, and agreed to meet here on tour. I then sent her a seductive email describing how I'd like to start our date. She likes to be in control from the onset, but I wanted her naked on the bed with something loose over her eyes so I could seduce HER before I let her ravish me.
Sooo hottt. And I like the heat. Can't do that with a agency girl.
Comments and examples welcome ...
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You have a much better chance of establishing a rapport with an indie over a gal who uses an agency.
Also I feel more secure dealing with an indie as agencies tend to be targets for LE
It seems since coming back after a couple of years there are substantially more
agencies.
I do see girls, both indy and with an agency and they seemed to be fed up with
the hobbyist BS. Vulgar messages, Calls and texts all hours of the day and night.
LET ALONE, THE pimps TRYING TO SCOOP THEM UP!
This is not a dating site and I would imagine most prefer a:
Time and Date message and end with a confirmation and room # but
WTF do I know, I'm not a provider.
If I were, i would have at least an assistant if not an agency.
The idea of going to a hotel, having never had a personal messaging beforehand, or doing my own research is EXTREMELY off putting. I prefer to at least have a little back and forth with the man or couple in question. I think that this puts most people, especially myself at greater ease. This is why I don't even use a personal assistant type of service. For me this is a *personal* business, and I like the intimacy of all the details.
Your the best.
Man I wish you were in NY.
Z
no way zak, if elaine is moving, she's coming out to los angeles to be closer to me!!!
But he has a point....
If I move, it is going to be for palm trees!!! I am a sunshine sort of gal!! xoxoxo
It's 60 degrees and beautiful in NY today.
Peter I have been asking Elaina for weeks maybe a month now to make a trip to NYC.
I can take a picture of a palm tree would that work
maybe why not try it!
and i thought elania would be moving to be close to me. but i'll take palm trees as an excuse! lol!
eom! i said eom! can't you read???
I'm not asking to move I'm just asking for a visit. P L E A S E 
60 is NOT warm. It's just not freezing. I need 80 and above on a regular basis to be really happy. xoxo
Do I need to spray you all down with a garden hose?
I hate to break this to you, but Ms Amhurst is firmly planted in the Midwest, and she is not going anywhere. You CANNOT HAVE HER.
You're just going to have to visit Chicago. End of story. This is not open for discussion.
You may carry on now.
for the first time, i do agree with you
agencies.
I do see girls, both indy and with an agency and they seemed to be fed up with
the hobbyist BS. Vulgar messages, Calls and texts all hours of the day and night.
LET ALONE, THE pimps TRYING TO SCOOP THEM UP!
This is not a dating site and I would imagine most prefer a:
Time and Date message and end with a confirmation and room # but
WTF do I know, I'm not a provider.
If I were, i would have at least an assistant if not an agency.
Get a girlfriend.
Reading this I threw up in mouth a bit.
Example
just one) There's a steamy milf whose looks and blog make we want to walk to NC in a blizzard to see her. We texted, talked on the phone, and agreed to meet here on tour. I then sent her a seductive email describing how I'd like to start our date. She likes to be in control from the onset, but I wanted her naked on the bed with something loose over her eyes so I could seduce HER before I let her ravish me.
Sooo hottt. And I like the heat. Can't do that with a agency girl.
Comments and examples welcome ...
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throwing up in each other's mouths, such and insightful and serious pair. Maybe you two can be co-dependent SOs in other ways too?
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For me the lead up is essential for a truly great date!
Cheers to you, for taking the time to cultivate some intimacy *before* things get physical.
Don't get me wrong, I have most definitely met (a handful) of providers who
tend to want to communicate a bit prior to the date(s); Especially the first one.
That is fine to a degree.
Indeed when I was new at this, it even added to the excitement.
Know that many of us are/were married, with families, with jobs and the more communication,
the more risk.
If a lady wants to communicate with me a bit to make her feel more safe, I agree
it can make the date better.
If you want me to call you while masturbating weekly and explain to you what to wear, be sure your hair is curled like the pics and
how I am going to grab your ass, plowing my face between your legs while you hum "I'm a Yankee doodle dandy"
Well, good luck with that
That will not be necessary. I don't need you to write sonnets to me, just a couple of thoughtful replies is quite sufficient, and only necessary before the first date. If someone wants to message between dates that is fine too, but I do not initiate those conversations.
I rarely use the phone for communication period, because that seems easier for the SO to see.
If you want me to call you while masturbating weekly and explain to you what to wear, be sure your hair is curled like the pics and
how I am going to grab your ass, plowing my face between your legs while you hum "I'm a Yankee doodle dandy"
as long as conversation beforehand is tasteful and classy then it helps to break the ice and leads to a great date.
if it is just pure sex chat, it is turn off to be honest
i.e. "can't wait to be inside of you" vs "can't wait to experience you'
Cheers to you, for taking the time to cultivate some intimacy *before* things get physical.
there's a better chance the meeting won't occur. If you not tasteful before a date, I would expect the date wouldn't be much different.
" sooo looking forward to meeting you" theme on my OP.
if it is just pure sex chat, it is turn off to be honest
i.e. "can't wait to be inside of you" vs "can't wait to experience you'
Cheers to you, for taking the time to cultivate some intimacy *before* things get physical.
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i.e. your pictures? Paid companion is a bit different. Of course, if she wants, she can flirt with you by e-mail or some sort of messaging, but 1) There are people who want to flirt with no intend of meeting. 2) Paid call can prevent your communications 3) This is an escort job to be a good enternainer as well, so your *flirt* can be a bit mechanical. I encountered some gents who also wanted me to be fluent erotic writer, which is a bit difficult for me since English is not my native language. So, if I have time and inspiration and if I see that I can learn from a gent thing or two, I'll try to be a good corresponder. However, I suspect I am paid not for writing. And also, it's a bit a lottery - you can be dissappointed with actual meeting with a person who is great conversionalist and be blown away with a girl who you didn't talk before at all. Xo
i can totally understand how anger-making it can be to spend time flirting by email/text only to have the guy never book. guys are pigs.
i don't flirt or even send a second email if i'm not in a position to book (unless it's an email to say, "i was just reaching out to see if we are compatible, glad to see we are, but i am sorry right now i can't book because yada yada yada.")
then i will file that correspondence on my "to do" list, and more than once i have gotten back to a lady and followed through.
i prefer personal contact but i can totally understand the need to budget time
Not all guys are pigs. There are wolves, dogs, alpha -pheasants, and lots of monkeys. Such lifestyles assume that escort's fauna is variety rich. Xo
for an hour and a half...let me know when you are in los angeles!
so we could make our schedules match?
and I totally agree with the time waster part. My time is valuable too, so I NEVER engage with flirting unless I'm 100% intent on meeting that person, which might include a road trip on my part.
Do you fly, railroad ot by car? I hope that is combination of all..lol
You may have something there. It could be the name of a movie. Just a little cowboy in me tho ... very little, but exceptions will be made 
My assiciation with all of these was the child playing with toy railroads, cars, etc.. and how in the future all those things intersects or grows in life.
I have never been stood up by an agency lady, there have only been a few times that an agency lady has been late, and never more than 15 minutes. I cannot say the same for Indy's (in my experience).
I nearly always request a date a week or more in advance, and I've never cancelled within 48 hours.
I always suggest a time, but I let the lady know that the time is a suggestion and if another time works better for her then she should let me know and we'll schedule for that time. Most of the time the lady will say "X:00 works better for me". OK, well then be on time, you've been given the opportunity to schedule your business within a time frame that agrees with the rest of your day, plan your day accordingly. My customers (internal and external) don't give me that same flexibility, they dictate what time I'll be there, and I'm on time because I respect their time.
I'm very respectful of a lady's time, the only time (count it one) that I've been late I paid for 2 hours and only spent 1:45 because "I" was 15 minutes late.
I don't book based upon whether a lady is Indy or Agency, I book based upon her and her reviews. However, my experience within the past few years has been that Agency ladies are more reliable and timely.
It is exactly how it has been for you and I am not going to disagree because agency ladies have someone to answer to and possibly would get fined of late.
I don't book based upon whether a lady is Indy or Agency, I book based upon her and her reviews. However, my experience within the past few years has been that Agency ladies are more reliable and timely.
Not all agencies are good...in fact, some are technically nothing but pimps with a legal business card.