Just have to vent a little. While I am always prompt for an incall appt, it seems to be a trend lately that ladies are not so to an outcall. My latest experience (yesterday), I made a same day appt for late afternoon. I get a text 30min prior stating she is on her way but is driving from an hour away, so that's 30 min. I text back an hour later (she is 30min late at this time) asking where she is and she responds she got pulled (which is reasonable-the surrounding area is known as a speed trap). 30 min later still not here and no contact so I text again...no response. I wait 15 min longer (she is now an hour plus late) and just text and cancel as I had a dinner engagement a little over an hour later. She said she understood and apologized.
grrrrrrrrrUnfortunately it's the nature of the beast
I've found that when a provider doesn't value my time she's off my list and I'll find someone who does.
The intimacy and desire drive us all in this game.
But I've found I want to genuinely like the provider, and that demands mutual respect.
That sort of behavior is unacceptable in ANY type of business. For me, it is a show of complete disrespect to be late, especially to that degree.
Yes, there are extremely rare situation, especially living in a large metro area, with hideous traffic, that can not be planned for. In this situation though, she left too late, to possibly get there on time. Also, when running late, the burden is on the latecomer to communicate the situation. You should have never had to contact her first for information.
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if she had declined your same day appt request if travel time was going to be an issue.
Maybe she didn't want to tell you she had other things going on but the first message you received saying she is on the way but has an hour drive.At that point it says she was doing something else and got on the road already making her late if 30min before appt she texts and has an hour drive.
Speed traps do happen but it just seems time management was not on her side.
If you know you have somewhere to be and it's an hour drive away getting on the road 30min prior is not going to work.Unless you call the gent or the lady that something came up and they are accommodating of a later appt start time.
Bummer when a gent or a lady's time is wasted.