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Re: I've Been That Girl yes but why should HE pay
Jensen36363 58 Reviews 214 reads
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Being on the side of using an Agency -- clearly not the on in question -- me experience has been
1) Agency is very concerned about the client's experience and satisfaction (and the girls seem to as well*)
2) One time when it proved impossible for me to keep an appointment (absolutely no available parking in the condo lot and not street parking for miles) the Agency didn't complain but ensured I had an appointment first thin the next day and promised special treatment (Great time!)
3) Once, something just seemed off after getting to the appointment and the girl and I sort of danced around starting anything. She suggested I could leave, I started to leave the donation and was told it wasn't necessary. The Agency called me to find out what went wrong but did not say anything about not having paid.

Needless to say I'm still a patron of both agencies.  

What I don't get is that sans the trafficking problem why any providers would put up with abusive agency owners. Especially given forums like this where they probably have plenty of opportunity to network, get good info on going indy and even probably how to form a provider owned agency. That might be a good idea -- anyone up for a provider-hobbyist coop? ;-)

* I accidently left a pair of sunglasses after a session. The booker called me as I was getting in the car to tell me. I thanked them. They asked what I wanted to do and I confessed they were just cheap and probably from WalMart and if they liked them the pair was theirs. We both laughed. I saw the girl again recently and the second thing out of her mouth was about the sunglasses!

I had a night mare experience with an agency in Boston.  And now I swear never to repeat with an agency. My experience was the girl came in and I could tell she was nervous so we talked a while she had a glass of wine. I thought she relaxed a little so I laid down on the bed and she started giving a CBJ. And she also started to cry!  So I asked her what was wrong and she said this was her first time! She continued to sob, and would not stop I talked to her she had a lot of personal issues finally I asked her to leave but I also wanted some of my donation back. I paid $600 for an hour. She said the agency does not allow that. So instead of making a scene I let it go. Called the agency let them know what happened they could care less. For me no more agencies.      
What has your experience been with agencies?

LasVegan669 reads

make sense.  I too choose NOT to use an agency........for my own reasons..........but am sure others have an equal number of good reasons why they disagree.

BUT.........I would have chalked it up to experience........and would NEVER have called the agency back and put the girl in such a position.  It is what it is..........calling the agency will do nothing to get us our money back or improve the experience.  It will only put this poor woman under even more pressure.

Just my humble opinion..........

I am not saying that this girl did not have legit issues but it seems as though she was perfectly fine running out the clock while drinking your booze isn't that special!

Yeah I am not fond of agencies for lots of reasons.

For christ's sake- the girl was crying!! Unless it was an oscar winning performance, I doubt she was doing this to waste time.  

The OP makes me feel icky. And so does HH's response. Ick, eww. Thank goddess I don't have to see men like that.

GaGambler457 reads

I have had great, good, decent, fair, lousy and horrible experiences with both indies and agency girls alike.

I think your sample size is much too small from which to draw any conclusions? And I don't know if you have enough experience to be able to tell if you were indeed the first client of a very troubled young girl who should have never been in the same room with you, or if you got played. I certainly cant tell from the little bit of info you have shared with us.

In my opinion if you believed her, you were a dick for asking for your money back. and if you didn't believe her, you were a fool for buying into her story. Sorry, but I don't think your experience is going to have the least effect on who I choose to see.

I think you certainly have a basis for forming a negative opinion regarding this particular agency based on what happened as whether she was a mess who never should have been in that position with you or whether you were played, it does not reflect well on THAT agency.   But I wouldn't tar them all with one brush based on one incident.

for what appears to be the first time for a girl who obviously must have had no reviews. So what was her pics just that hot or was she just turning 18? If you choose with your little head instead of the big one then sometimes you have no one else to blame but yourself if things go poorly!

ah come on GaGa  no one has "but I don't think your experience is going to have the least effect on who I choose to see." LO

And offer a discount or replacement or to show some kind of business savvy to make it up to the guy then he might consider using an agency in the future. Too say to "possibly" swear off indies is a a stretch in this "what if" scenario is a bit.
But my feeling is that the guy got duped, it seems like a planned cash and dash...my 2 cents

Squeezetheorem271 reads

Thank you!! People are quick to villify all agencies in a mishap.

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ATLDAWG384 reads

The gal signed on to be a "Escort" which includes sex-$600-you got played-----if it was some pathetic looking gal with a black eye and bruises for $100-then I would believe her and let it ride-but you forked over $600 ??!!!  

Also-How did you pay the $600 ?  To the agency on a credit card or cash to the gal ?  If on a credit card-I would dispute the charge-bet you would get a credit without a hassle.  

If you paid cash direct to the gal-you really got played !  

One born every minute an in the hobby-everyone is a suspect !

....... and talk to a person in charge... see if they will refund you or credit you in one way or another. I would't let 1 crazy girl off her meds ruin the reputation of the agency

Squeezetheorem385 reads

That particular agency did not handle that well.  What would be very telling is if the girl remains available after that episode.

not trying to be snarky here, but what's the point of this whole store if you're not going to help the community out by naming the agency that treated you so non-professoinally?

too bad for the girl, but she should have offered half the envelope back.  if not her, then the agency.

let us know which agency so we can avoid this kind of situation.

and I've had a girl break down crying.  It was a long time Fav & took a call from her sister while i was there.  I got an earful of them fighting.   I excused myself the the bathroom so she could have some privacy.  We spent the hour I'd planned just getting her calmed down.  Now I had not put the donation down but I was ready to bail (had a long drive waiting).  She realized we had not had our session yet & chose to go ahead...  though her heart & head were not really in it.  
There were a couple more high drama instances in the 7 years I saw her...  before I broke it off for good.  
I think the agency should have made good on it & since they did not take care of you, you should not do business with them.

the first episode?

 
I would not tolerate anything like that from an escort. She has to take care of all personal issues before our date because I don't want to hear it.

when it's time to play it should be all business.

...with the providers and the service I've received from agencies. Some of those providers are still in the business and I still see them.

Agency or independent you have to research them to find the good ones. Based on what you said here the agency you used isn't a good one.

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ATLDAWG272 reads

In that you have brought this to the board for discussion-you need to identify the agency and provide the girls name.  

Posted By: Greenbacks2
I had a night mare experience with an agency in Boston.  And now I swear never to repeat with an agency. My experience was the girl came in and I could tell she was nervous so we talked a while she had a glass of wine. I thought she relaxed a little so I laid down on the bed and she started giving a CBJ. And she also started to cry!  So I asked her what was wrong and she said this was her first time! She continued to sob, and would not stop I talked to her she had a lot of personal issues finally I asked her to leave but I also wanted some of my donation back. I paid $600 for an hour. She said the agency does not allow that. So instead of making a scene I let it go. Called the agency let them know what happened they could care less. For me no more agencies.      
 What has your experience been with agencies?    

I think before you do that I would contact the agency and ask for a settlement. If not then the gloves come off and you can name them both.

I tried to post the service. But I think TER is blocking it. For what ever reason

TwoMints253 reads

Like mentioned I'd call back again. If you chose a long time agency they will make it right.  

You do realize that you also saw a lady without reviews which is a huge no no for most of us here.

I'd write a review, and I'd specifically call out the agency and if possible post it on the agency page as well. If you used P411 or something like that I'd report them to the site as well. Wreck um.

Posted By: Greenbacks2
I had a night mare experience with an agency in Boston.  And now I swear never to repeat with an agency. My experience was the girl came in and I could tell she was nervous so we talked a while she had a glass of wine. I thought she relaxed a little so I laid down on the bed and she started giving a CBJ. And she also started to cry!  So I asked her what was wrong and she said this was her first time! She continued to sob, and would not stop I talked to her she had a lot of personal issues finally I asked her to leave but I also wanted some of my donation back. I paid $600 for an hour. She said the agency does not allow that. So instead of making a scene I let it go. Called the agency let them know what happened they could care less. For me no more agencies.      
 What has your experience been with agencies?    

Good and bad depending on the agency ... I hope you are naming the agency in the review. That important info because it sounds like a scam. You did the right thing though. Just carry it to the end so the next guy knows what to expect ... And there will be a next guy.

Maybe?

you could have called agency while she was still there.

total bullshit on their part.

because you made a hormone.

 
(I'll show myself to the corner, thank you.)

... for new use of an old joke!

to see only well-reviewed providers with reviews from several (5-6) established reviewers.

If you TOFTT you may end up with a bad experience.

Plenty of good agencies in Boston for less than 600.  Why would you pay 600 for a girl with no reviews.

If there were a $600 agency in Boston they would not hire an inexperienced girl.

Name the agency and I'll eat my words.

Google that name and you find a rooming house.

I don't live in Boston or know the agency or Greenbacks2, but I know how to use Google.

Not one of those women is a legit provider in Boston.  Not one girl has even one review.

If you have time ClassicRock57, I bet you would find all those photos are stolen if you did a photo search.

"There is a sucker born every minute.  This would apply to any girl who goes to work for this agency or any guy who pays for them.

Link below to many real quotes from PT Barnum himself.  All quite applicable to hobbyland

When I first started I said I would not use an agency and only stick with independents.  However an ad by an agency caught my eye.  Very easy and smooth booking.

The session however did not go as planned.  It was not horrible but not really what we had discussed.  I was just going to just leave it.  However the agency contacted me to ask how everything went.  I told them that it had not met what we discussed nor expectations.  The agency agreed with me and offered a discount as way of apology.  The next session was great.  While I lean towards independents I would not hesitate to use or recommend this agency.

Agencies usually treat their girls like sex slaves. They blackmail you they threaten you there is no end to some of the madness because they know they need you. This usually happens once you start making money and they need to threaten you to make you feel like you need them. I started with an agency and let me tell you as a young girl that barely knew anything about sex and had some major issues about sex because of religion and social stigma and judgment if this was her first time well yeah its highly possible. The issue isn't I need my money back... lets have some compassion for human beings. Why was she at your place? She needed money maybe she was desperate or maybe the agency threatened her. You have the means to get another girl at 600 right? You didn't do your research and now you crying over a bad experience with a potentially trafficked or blackmailed terrified young girl?  This is what I would call a first world problem darling.

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YoMaMaDo279 reads

you will experience damn near everything. I applaud your letting it go and not cause a scene, as far as calling the agency that was at best a waste of time and at worst going to catch that young woman a beating or worse.

Remember we are involved in an illegal activity so just chalk these type of situations as part of the freight we all pay for playing in this park.

Remember it would have cost you way more than 600 greenbacks to get out of Jail. So thank your stars and look upon this as part of your M.I.M. degree.

any fucking transaction or getting your rocks off.  

If both aren't willing, you fucking END IT! Try to be a human being and offer comfort and help.  

I can't even imagine asking her to leave without trying to help her, or ever asking for money back or complaining to the agency. Be human first, then worry about the trivial shit like $$.

Who cares if perhaps, maybe, by  some stretch of the imagination you might possibly have some potential that you could possibly be played for a few bucks compared to the possible human and psychological aspects of her breakdown?

I'm sorry, but if your major concerns are getting rid of her quickly, getting your money back and learning to stay away from agencies - you are Waaaayy the fuck off base.

Being human, compassionate and knowing how to help another generously... you missed that

you dont know if she is or not.  That's why the agency has to fix it.

I don't need an agency or anyone else to tell me what to believe or do.

I'll stand by what I said, and I'll risk being conned for being a better person every time

what you have to do. i dont care what you do

I'm talking about  what the agency has to do.

It has only happened to me once where the girl started to cry. And it was pretty sobering.
First time with this small agency, first time with the girl. She was marketed as Japanese, had big boobs a nice face and when I walked into the incall, I was happy to see her. I paid the donation, then into the shower, then started with a massage, and I was making small talk with her and asked about her ancestry and she told me that her mother was Japanese, married a Chinese man and after a few years of living in Japan, they moved to China, where the father began to really mistreat the mom, and EVENTUALLY MURDERED HER MOTHER, and got away with it!! Of course, she then broke down crying for over 10 minutes, and there was no thought of anything happening, and we spent the time talking about what had happened, how she had grown up, and I did my best to help her through this patch and getting her thinking more positively. She got a call that time was up, tried to give me my money back, which I refused ($200) and she gave me her personal cell #.  I made another appointment 2 weeks later, not really sure what to expect, but she was upbeat, friendly and gave great service. I think we developed a special bond (not that were were very close) and I have seen her off and on for a good 3+ years now. I try to give her advice for her business, but I don't think she gets it, which is too bad because I think she could be much more successful if she was only more consistent with her service.  I didn't tell the agency what had happened- I didn't think that the girl needed that kind of added pressure.

I am sure this happens a lot. But you can't blame this on the agency. You can't really blame it on the girl. It's just one of those times when "shit happens". I mean you don't really think that every girl at the agency would do that, do you? Nor do you think that it couldn't happen with an independent girl?

And this makes me wonder- how many times has a customer broke down and started crying with a girl? And what does the girl do when this happens?

Not everyone is cut out for the business and not all agencies are created equal. Can't imagine being in that situation.. I work in Boston and love my job, so if you're ever on the prowl again, haha :p

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