Yes, there is a big difference between being alone and being lonely. I crave solitude at times.
Strange as I have always heard that it is better overall to be hitched up.
Now I'm feeling better about being alone.
Now I'm feeling better about being alone.
I do enjoy being single. I come and go at will, nobody to answer to. I get to meet whoever I choose to at a time that works for me.
With that said, their is a part of me that totally enjoys being in a relationship. Especially if we compliment each other. I don't need anyone to fill a void, make me feel whole, etc.
Just a friendly suggestion
You may NOT want to just put "I Can Go Either Way"
at the top of your post when the subject is
Being too BI in a threesome just sayin
Get it together man. Quit doing that shit, you'll go blind.
Dude! Look at the top right. Does it say "tree" or "flat"?
For instance, lower blood pressure because they don't have to account for $700 cash withdraw from bank account.
How about lower stress because they don't have to listen to the constant chatter. A friend of mine has a beautiful wife, even though she's had 2 kids she is still in great shape. She's a damn good cook. But, my goodness, this woman can't handle 10 seconds of silence. Each time I leave their house I think "hurray for the sound of silence, sure am glad I don't have to listen to that constant chatter every day". They say opposites attract, he speaks very little, probably because he can't get a word in edge wise with her.
No thank you.
How about lower stress because they don't have to listen to the constant chatter. A friend of mine has a beautiful wife, even though she's had 2 kids she is still in great shape. She's a damn good cook. But, my goodness, this woman can't handle 10 seconds of silence. Each time I leave their house I think "hurray for the sound of silence, sure am glad I don't have to listen to that constant chatter every day". They say opposites attract, he speaks very little, probably because he can't get a word in edge wise with her.
That's according to an article I read earlier this morning (sorry, I don't have the link). I found out the hard way that a good relationship doesn't necessarily stay good, and a bad relationship is worse than being alone. I'm now very content. I'm actually going to a dating workshop later today, but if I don't hook up with anyone, no biggie...I'll be seeing my ATF in another week. That's the beauty of the hobby, it takes some of the stress off of being single. And I can have a good time all by myself, like I did at the Black Sabbath concert last night.
cause that's a whole different story.
You can't just say "Single people are this way," and "Married people are that way."
To me, the the "having a fuck friend" needs to be part of the equation in order to be meaningful.
Examples:
Single people with fuck friends tend to have X incident of heart disease.
Versus Single people without fuck friends
Versus Married people
Versus Married people who have fuck buddies
Otherwise none of these studies mean anything
Love the part of the solitude.
I may be alone, but I sure am not lonely!
It is better to be unattached and content, than to be stuck in a unhappy relationship.
Yes, there is a big difference between being alone and being lonely. I crave solitude at times.