I don't mind replying to them, (Publicly or pm) if I am able to be of some assistance to the poster or if the poster is looking directly in my area for some company. I will always suggest to the poster if he is interested in meeting, to please let me know, if not, then I would wish him well in finding someone to fit his needs. I don't know any of the ladies here personally, so for me to add a specific name is very subjective without some sort of permission from the provider. There are many ISO posts that I have no choice but to ignore, they simply do not pertain to me or what/where the poster is seeking.
If are comfortable recommending ladies to the ISO posters and the ladies feel the same, then by all means do so!It seems that as the summer warms up there are two or three times a week that someone ask about availability in some place or other. Since I do not know many of you my first reaction is to ignore it and second is to tell them to do there own research. Should I recommend someone check you out even though I have not met either person?
I don't mind replying to them, (Publicly or pm) if I am able to be of some assistance to the poster or if the poster is looking directly in my area for some company. I will always suggest to the poster if he is interested in meeting, to please let me know, if not, then I would wish him well in finding someone to fit his needs. I don't know any of the ladies here personally, so for me to add a specific name is very subjective without some sort of permission from the provider. There are many ISO posts that I have no choice but to ignore, they simply do not pertain to me or what/where the poster is seeking.
If are comfortable recommending ladies to the ISO posters and the ladies feel the same, then by all means do so!
I have seen a few ISO post lately in your area. I made no response because I have not met you. My refined question is would you (and other ladies) be comfortable with me saying (look up Mona, or ______ {your name here)?
Be my guest!!
I am sure most ladies here welcome the recommendation as well,
but it is always nice to be asked
I think it is just part of showing respect to the ladies as to whether they are comfortable with their names being listed out on a public board
I've been posting a few ISO's because I'msometimes going into a new area and want opinions from the board. Often can't find reviews or there may be some UTR's worth a call. "I've heard...." works for me.
There are ads all over TER. There are also reviews and then there are other site that ladies place ads on. I think they all say, I am available.
Now sometimes a guy may want something off the wall or in a desert area or even something that isnt usually advertised. Like the fella one day asking about a mature duo in an area and that is a little harder to find sometimes. But just looking for a date on friday night in Charlotte??? Come on, he is looking for desperation and a discount
I understand lazy and usually just let that slide. The desert thing is more what I am wanting some guidance on. The small towns out of the way. If I see that the poster has reviews and is going to be somewhere small, do I recommend some one that in the past has expressed availability in some way. I want to help without increasing risk or offending the ladies. With only one ad a week here and both TER and Eros being regional maybe I can point both in the right direction. And these Carolina town names. Even I got bit by Mt. Pleasant in my first years. Lexington, Greenville, Rockingham, County or city? Thanks for your answer, very helpful, we are on the same page about lazy people though.
I dont know for sure. I usually go by what I am thinking in my world. Lets say there is a lady I see on the boards here. She has a great personality and a great website and great reviews. I put her on my must see list. Why not tell you that I think she would be worth a email?
I have learnt one thing here in Hobbywood. We hobbiest are as varied as the ladies. I like mature ladies and really like GFE. Others her like spinners and lets get wild. And there are all the fun guys that like a lil fetish somewhere along the line. We are all diff so reccomendations are not alway on point if the ISO are general
I have a couple on the see again list and several on the must see list. As funds allow I will be working on the list.
I think that for the next few weeks when I see a thought out ISO from a hobbyist with several reviews I will send him and the lady a heads up. That is until I get bit.
OTOH I think I totally misread your note to Case321. Sorry for any aggravation.
All the public and private info has helped me. I made a check her out recommendation last night to a specific ISO. I decided that I wont help lazy people and only send pointers like Check out this one in that area. If I have specific permission I might go further.