Thanks. I didn't know you cannot review a provider who confirms an appointment but doesn't follow through.
Of course, I'm not going to do anything and just forget about the whole thing.I scheduled a session with an independent provider in SD yesterday and while I was driving to their location, they cancelled. I was respectful and okay with that and just came back home. Later last night, the provider confirmed an appointment for today evening.
I sent the provider a text to confirm our appointment today afternoon and another one a couple of hours before the session. No response. So I just texted and said I won't be driving since I haven't gotten a confirmation. I do not have any responses so far.
FYI, this provider has a few good reviews here and has recent postings in the SD Ad board. I'm disappointed and wanted to ask, is a negative review for this provider justified in this case?
Your reviews have to be for sessions that actually happened, LOL.
Did she try to make it sound like she had the wrong date? Is that what you were saying? And you are pretty sure that she wasn't confused about the date?
I know that's really disappointing for you, but things do happen. You guys cancel on us last minute quite often even reputable guys who have a long history of showing up for their appointments. Personally I don't think that you should trash her if she has a good reputation Just because she canceled this one appointment last minute. You might want to see her again in the future, and other providers might hesitate to see you if you trash providers for canceling appointments.
It won't change what happened but it could make things worse possibly.
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..but I said I was disappointed because it happened two days in a row. I hope nothing is wrong and the provider is okay though!
You should hear my latest two stories, although there have been others, these were really disgusting
and disappointing. Kind of makes me wonder if some of these girls who think their shit doesn't stink
are high on heroin or something.
Rocky
Wanted to add that there is absolutely no chance that she had the wrong date or was confused about the date. It was very clear from our communication.
Even if she was confused, I haven't received a response to my texts yet. I do understand that everyone has a social life and I don't expect instant responses. Also, I don't mind if a provider doesn't agree to see me or doesn't respond to my initial introductory email/text. I just feel that what happened in this case was odd.
Freya, I agree with your post. I only wish that more providers were considerate enough to respond to say what happened on the cancellation. I am a caring person and if a provider cancels on me I always inquire on their well being. If I cancel on a provider - the next time I see her a generous gratuity amount or a Visa gift card is given.
I can't believe the lack of communication that happens with providers sometimes. As another provider, I have experienced it firsthand many times, even when I'm trying to book a double's appointment. It amazes me again and again.
But I think there could be some fallout for this OP if he announces her identity.
Of course we all want to know who it is!
But this kind of thing happens all the time and guys are not running to the boards to out the providers because they probably know it might not be good for their own reputation to damage another's.
Thanks for being a good client, subrob27. We appreciate you.
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It is best just to let it be. I have been "stood up" by providers on many occasions unfortunately. Some have texted back apologizing and some as in your case have been mute which is unprofessional in my opinion. Unless you feel you need to pursue this provider I would shake it off and find a provider who values your time.
mistaken on your view. This review board is to inform both hobbyist and providers of those who are NCNS. If he does not mention who it as, then another guy will get NCNS and waste his time and money. Yes, our time is worth something also.
If she posts on the board then she should respond, if not then he should out her.
This is a people business and just like any business, some of them are better than others. The people part of the business tend to take things personal in this business so you need to be smart.
YMMV is used all over this site but we don't always remember it. Go find another lady who you can have fun with and forgot about this one. Remember, how they treat you in the appointment process is probably how they will treat you in your appointment. While you may have wasted some time, you probably saved yourself from a average experience that would have cost you money.
Just my two cents.
slam her with little or no chance of retaliation.
Just kidding, sort of...If you take my tongue-in-cheek advice, be sure to wait a month or so to make it even more anonymous because she will probably have stood up a few other clients in that time.
Really, just cross her off your list and move on. She's low class if she cancelled once and then went dark after rescheduling. OR, rebook, write a great review, and THEN slam her here using the alias.
You shouldn't ding her for one misstep if she is otherwise reputable.
Also, if you do, you risk others on this board ganging up on you and that could negatively affect your TER reputation.
So, might be best to let it pass.
I've been in your shoes.
You really do need to preserve your TER reputation.
Myself and my GF have had booking challenges with users who think they can message saying "OK tomorrow at 4pm" then get no response before 4pm the following day then they get bent out of shape because the message wasn't seen till two days after the "booking". I use quotes around booking because there was no confirmation on the provider side. If there is confirmation and no meeting happens then try to work it out with her. If she chooses not to reply but has new posts and such then OUT HER NOW! Don't pussyfoot around.