If a lady flakes out on me I put her on my "Must miss list" That's my policy.
Now life does happen and if she lets me know something has come up, no harm no foul and we simply make it another time and I certainly don't expect to exact any retribution from her for having something come up. NCNS, or leaving me hanging in the parking lot is a different matter and she has to make a REALLY good case for herself for me to give her another opportunity. As for me cancelling, I know damn well that if I made appointments well in advance I would most likely become a "serial canceller" so I simply don't make appointments more than a day in advance, problem solved.Are you asked to agree to the "Cancellation Policy" on websites before
proceeding with the date? Do they work?
IE
Do hobbyist actually meet up with you to pay or see you later at a higher donation?
I have never pre-paid, nor have I cancelled but have been cancelled on many times.
Should hobbyists have a cancellation policy also?
Your thoughts if any?
If a lady flakes out on me I put her on my "Must miss list" That's my policy.
Now life does happen and if she lets me know something has come up, no harm no foul and we simply make it another time and I certainly don't expect to exact any retribution from her for having something come up. NCNS, or leaving me hanging in the parking lot is a different matter and she has to make a REALLY good case for herself for me to give her another opportunity.
As for me cancelling, I know damn well that if I made appointments well in advance I would most likely become a "serial canceller" so I simply don't make appointments more than a day in advance, problem solved.
That reminds me of a lady I recently saw!
I get cancelled on, so I go on-line from my car and book with a lady
2 hours later that day.
I apologized profusely for the last minute booking when she told me:
You are the best dates, as you never cancel! LOL
I just see too many ads from ladies about "Must pre-book" and their screening rules.
I really almost totally on P 411 and my approach to the women that have those "must pre-book" ads, but are so hot I still want to see them is to drop them a PM, invite them to check out my "okays" of which I have quite a few and then ask them if they would consider a short notice date if our schedules ever mesh. Sometimes it works, other times it doesn't. I don't lose a lot of sleep over it, there are simply may more women who will do it "My way" than I could ever fuck in ten lifetimes, so why stress over those that won't?
When canceled on, I'm not going to reschedule. The chance that my schedule will be free the next time the lady is available are slim to none. I simply move on at that point.
Some girls make the NCNS worse by never reaching out to the guy which is is just so unprofessional. Also true vice versa.
Things do come up, people are human. But what sets people apart from each other is the ability to reach out and make amends or at least try to. It's what professionals do and it's what people who give a fk about others do as well.
I had two excellent sessions with gals after they NCNS me. I stayed in touch and saw one for years later.
Me and my close friends have a saying..."clean up your own mess."
That goes with the gals we are friendly with or the mongers.
People do flake at times and life interferes with our plans for whatever reason. But don't let the guy or girl wonder forever what the fk happened that night. Reach out, apologize, make it right.
Is it really that hard?
Have to have a cancellation policy. That would make sense as those prostitutes can't afford to lose their real jobs.
If the prostitute is an attorney, she can garnish your wages too.
proceeding with the date? Do they work?
IE
Do hobbyist actually meet up with you to pay or see you later at a higher donation?
I have never pre-paid, nor have I cancelled but have been cancelled on many times.
Should hobbyists have a cancellation policy also?
Your thoughts if any?
ill even let u do my taxes so u can blackmail me lol
Shit happens on both sides and I am more than happy to re-book without penalty. Just as I will take an appointment request if I have to cancel and not feel obligated in any way to add more time or knock off money.
1) I don't book with a girl on a particular date unless I know that I will be available.
2) If a girl cancels on me without suggesting an alternate time, then I come on TER and make a super whiny post about how "not fun" she is. Making sure that my whining is at a maximum so as to kill any possible chance I may have of a future session with her.
..you're a pissed off little jerk who is so butt hurt over a cancellation that you want to kill any possible chance of the provider getting any other business. You have so little will power that you have to whine on a fuckboard to convince yourself to avoid booking with her again? Is that what you really want us to believe? If so, you are a pathetic person. But it really is transparent as to what your true motive is - you want to hurt her business because she "hurt" you.
ou give my whining way more importance than it deserves.
Have a look at my reviews? By and large pretty fucking positive across the board I'd say
I have been moved/rescheduled or cancelled about 10 times in a 6 month period. I am calm and have no problem with it. Things happen and I am laid back by nature. Move me no problem.
Below is a true story.
I had a bad week in late November with 3 deaths in a 12 day period. I cancelled on three providers appointments I had scheduled. I gave two girl 48 hrs notice who were regulars. No problems. The other one wasn't so nice to me.
The girl's who I hadn't seen website said if cancelled within 48 hours that I would have to pay a fee to see her at a later time. This was the girl I gave 30 hours notice to. When I called back a week after the dust settled she was adamant about the extra fee. I thought she was going to waive it. It wasn't like I made up a story just to cancel. I called her back five days later looking to re book. Do you want to see the obituary?
I choose not to see her and I knew she bad mouthed me on a different board because someone else at a later time while screening me said what happened with your date with Bianca (named changed) I told her my side of the story and she told me I had a black mark on a women's boards. Last time I heard of it. Cancelling an appointment and not paying to see again at a later time I think the women giving you a mark on a women's board is the worst they can do. I didn't lose sleep over it.
I would have paid under certain conditions airplane ticket was purchased someone coming from out of town but I didn't think it was warranted under the conditions of what happened.
These are my thoughts.
proceeding with the date? Do they work?
IE
Do hobbyist actually meet up with you to pay or see you later at a higher donation?
I have never pre-paid, nor have I cancelled but have been cancelled on many times.
Should hobbyists have a cancellation policy also?
Your thoughts if any?
I probably wont reschedule.
First, there is the possibility that we might not be available at the same time.
Second, the provider will probably be disgruntled by the fact that I already canceled on her, and the session could be effected by this.
first and foremost, if a lady has a cancellation policy, i have a "move on to the next provider" policy. shit happens on both sides of the bed, and folks have to cancel. if done with enough notice (24 imo), there's no need to incur costs, unless a lady has booked a hotel room specifically for that session with you. in which case she's not that good of a business woman. if she has to book a room she should try to get some more business.
i had a lady recently offer me $100 discount off of an already special rate if i could see her 3 days earlier than we had planned, because a guy flaked on her and she had already booked a room. delightful time with a delightful girl and i will totally see her again.
second and fivemost, i had an atf cancel on me literally 15 minutes before our date which had been scheduled for over 2 weeks. she had been out of communication (out of the country w/no access to internet) for the week before, and i handled everything with her booker. i was texting her all morning of the date asking for a phone confirmation and getting no response. stupid me goes ahead and takes the blue pill, orders an uber, and finally gets a call in the uber from her when i was a mile away from her incall. she said she mixed up the time and can't make our appt, thinking it was 2 hours later in the day.
a smarter man would have never seen her again, but she was incredible in bed and i was horny, so i made a date for later that night (original date early afternoon). took an uber there and had an incredible time, she gave me a nice chunk of otc and even gave me a ride home so i didn't need another uber. but it turns out that, as i suspected, she had dumped my first afternoon date for another client who went long (i found out from a new review of her and subsequent pm's to the reveiwer). as i said, a smarter man than me would have dumped this girl, but i still see her; she has since given me literally hours otc and a price break. don't know what the moral of this story is; play it by ear? the dick wants what the dick wants? be nice to your regular customers? not sure.
third and sixmost, another woman (who had gotten stellar reviews) cancelled on me to my face in the garage of her apt. building. saw me in person and said "no, it's not going to work." this was totally unacceptable. i described the event on the local board and pm'd her name to anybody who asked.
the first girl who flaked on me but made up for it over and over afterwards did not deserve bad press imo; the girl that cancelled on me at literally the last second in her garage, did. just my opinion.
and fourth and seventhmost, things happen on both sides of the bed as i said above. when it happens, i say try to keep your hormones out of of your thinking and look at it like any other service vender. if your gardener cancelled at the last minute, after years of good service, would you dump him/her? if your auto mechanic made an appt for your car and then called and said sorry can't take your car today, can we reschedule, would you find a new one?
i'm betting that if it was the first time you used this gardener/mechanic, yes, you'd get a new one. if it's someone you have a long business relationship with, you might consider cutting them some slack.
these are just my thoughts.
ps how do you make a hormone?
give her less than a 10/10 in a review.
I would never let a provider play me like that. Some behavior just shouldn't be put up with. I would have dumped her three times. Lots of providers would love to have you as a client.
Call me a dick if you have a booking agent and I don't have your number after the first date you will never see me again and I repeat with everyone. Booking agents should only be used to clear first time clients. That's all. I am not dealing with a booking agent after i know the girl. I'm booking dates 2 -4 -7 with the provider. Bye Bye Booking Agent
I like access to the person not dealing with a 3rd party who doesn't know the answers.
I'm sure I have been moved for someone with a provider I don't have a relationship with someone you know and see often shouldn't think that low of you to move you at the dime of a hat.
In my world I own the cards and no one is going push me around like that.
Of course this is what I think and these are my thoughts.
second and fivemost, i had an atf cancel on me literally 15 minutes before our date which had been scheduled for over 2 weeks. she had been out of communication (out of the country w/no access to internet) for the week before, and i handled everything with her booker. i was texting her all morning of the date asking for a phone confirmation and getting no response. stupid me goes ahead and takes the blue pill, orders an uber, and finally gets a call in the uber from her when i was a mile away from her incall. she said she mixed up the time and can't make our appt, thinking it was 2 hours later in the day.
a smarter man would have never seen her again, but she was incredible in bed and i was horny, so i made a date for later that night (original date early afternoon). took an uber there and had an incredible time, she gave me a nice chunk of otc and even gave me a ride home so i didn't need another uber. but it turns out that, as i suspected, she had dumped my first afternoon date for another client who went long (i found out from a new review of her and subsequent pm's to the reveiwer). as i said, a smarter man than me would have dumped this girl, but i still see her; she has since given me literally hours otc and a price break. don't know what the moral of this story is; play it by ear? the dick wants what the dick wants? be nice to your regular customers? not sure.
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and if my big head was in charge i would have.
however this girl is out of this world sexually and also gives great gfe, and she has since screwing me over that one time, she has gone way out of her way for me in terms of otc time. if she were any less of a great performer i certainly would have dumped her, and i did confront her booker with the reality of the situation to get prime time with another provider the booker handled.
and she's not the only girl i see on a regular basis, she's not even the only girl that gives me otc time on a regular basis. stuff happens on both sides of the bed.
as soon as i find someone as wild as she is, who also gives me rate breaks and otc time, i'll dump her. in the meantime, she did make up for it with a bbbjcim in a parking garage at a beverly hills restaurant, and then splitting the check with me after dinner, plus letting me finger her as i drove to and from the restaurant
proceeding with the date? Do they work?
IE
Do hobbyist actually meet up with you to pay or see you later at a higher donation?
I have never pre-paid, nor have I cancelled but have been cancelled on many times.
Should hobbyists have a cancellation policy also?
Your thoughts if any?
I have one. Cancellation policies are pretty common in civilian life- doctors appointments, personal trainer appointments, hotel reseevations, etc. Obviously things come up sometimes but as a low volume provider, it can mean you are stuck with the cost of a hotel.
I have offered a discount to gentleman if I have had to cancel (only in the case of personal illness or family emergency). I think it is the professional thing to do.
The last tour I had planned failed miserably for that reason. Yes things come up but when I tour I invest money on the plane ticket and the best hotel I can afford at a decent price range preferably 4 (you don't want to get it on in a dump its not sexy) transportation, food outside of my home in restaurants... so yeah it's a business trip. When I chose to tour now I have a cancellation policy and fee just so I don't lose money because things came up... you do have the option of dating a non touring girl. Plus when all your appointments cancel you feel really annoyed when your phone is ringing off the hook in your base town.