Women (men for that matter too) can be very variable about what they will and won't do.

Case in point:  One provider I have known for ages is repulsed by the sight or touch of cum.  She would not even allow COB.  On the other hand, she is very piss friendly.  Go figure.

Myself, Alyson Parker, Elle Solo (and Betsy), Robin Ardeur, Eva Godiva, Mistress Patricia, and a few other ladies that hang around on this board cater to all sorts of fetish/bdsm/kink play.  We all have different limits, but I'd bet there's a lot of cross-over as to what we will do.

thinks it means.

Considering sex acts like DATY and Greek are considered "fetishes", it is a hint that maybe something other than the regular blow-jobs and full service might be on the menu. Girls who are OK with foot worship, or maybe getting their butts smacked during sex might also consider themselves "fetish friendly".

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Fetish Friendly

"Fetish friendly" providers are open-minded enough to consider indulging your fetish.  It's a way of communicating that you do not need to be ashamed to ask about your desires.  She may or may not be interested in indulging your specific fetish depending on her personal boundaries, but you needn't worry that you'll offend her simply by expressing your kinky interests.  

(Unless your "fetish" is BBFS.  Then you're SOL, because that request offends almost everyone.  Sorry.

Everyone has their limits.

You should always ask the provider in ? 1st, so never assume.  Not all will accommodate everything on your list, but if you look at my site I have a longer list on my adult fun page & it is a brief list on my personal fetish fun interests.  Some are here 4 only $, so they will fake it until they make it by posting fetish friendly, but have no clue, so your paying them for practice.  lol

Smile 4 me!

I've become much more open minded, willing to try new things, so when I say I'm fetish friendly it means:  hey, share your fetish or fantasy with me...let's see how we can make it work out...it's so exhilarating when I can share a new experience with someone.  

I used to be so vanilla..!

I know the definitions.  It involves an abnormal fixation but usually on a not normal object or activity. But who decideS?
Who decided that being enraptured of DATY ior DATO s less normal or healthy than wanting to climax while having penis to vaginal intercourse?
Who gets to say that loving being tied helplessly or having the object of your desire tied helplessly while your penis or her vagina is stimulated to the edge of climax over and over again before you or she finally climaxes is not as normal or as good or as healthy as having your partner lie on her back while you lie on top and move your penis in and out of her  vagina?
I really don't like the term "fetish" for activities that some, but not most, people find exciting.  It is so Psychiatric.  
We can all agree that in sex, as in all human activity, the consent of all involved is needed for the activity not to be evil.  But after that, I don't accept judgmental terms like "fetish" and "perversion"
Just saying.

Hello...

Great Topic.  

How may girls on this entire site REALLY know how to do an ADULT BABY SCENE? LOL

I'm been Fetish Friendly for years which is why I have a separate site just for BDSM/fetish sessions but even I get hit my a new request here and there (example, someone did just request a infantilism scene and it was all about my prep so it could be game on)

I think a lot of novice men "freak out" when you list a bunch of fetishes because then they feel grouped in with a "bunch of perverts"....Its better to just say fetish friendly and have them tell you what their interests are. A good pro-domme is going to ask questions and probe so she can mind fuck you better...

Some of us, take the time or have taken the time to be trained in a variety of fetishes...I just did a workshop this weekend where I happened to learned more about "smoking fetish" then I had previously known.  

A foot fetish is more than just showing a bare foot and allowing someone to lick...A domination scene is more than looking pretty in latex and posing....

Thanks to all you responded.  I understand the provider side of this much better now.
Regards, Myskyns (MISHKINS)

It kind of means something, but it's also going to vary a little from person to person. When I see it, I just figure it's a lady who doesn't mind being asked about something less than vanilla.  

For me *personally*, it means that I'm open to ideas, and while I may not be a pro dom or sub, and while I may not have a ton of experience in your particular fetish, I will probably at least try and do a decent job (just being realistic, lol). I like things that most of the clients out there aren't into, and I'm interested in meeting people who can expand my own repertoire, and without putting up the gigantic list of things That intrigue me, "fetish friendly" seems to be a nice catch all.

Fetish friendly~

Hello Mishkins~

I've been into the fetish and BDSM world for nearly 15yrs now. If I had to name a common trait of those that ARE dabbling in it or hoping to, is a bit of shame that they desire the fetishes they do.  

Its unfortunate because we are NOT wrong for what we desire. If both parties are safe, sane and consensual, then rock ON with your bad selves.  

I find a fair amount of men who enjoy sissification, for example, feel uncomfortable expressing such cravings. Then there is the group that wishes to be spanked, explore humiliation, and pegging. They too, struggle to find a woman who WILL not only happily take them by the hand down the kinky lane, but do it with equal enthusiasm.  

Hence; the watered down verbiage of, "Fetish friendly" is used, to lure these reluctant men out of hiding and into the arms of the accepting provider. Its critical that the fetishist is accepted and given the opportunity to explore what spins their wheels joyfully.  

Warmly,  

Scarlet Blu

When I read the tag line "Fetish Friendly" the lady should be open to anal and CIM as a minimum. I have a slut fetish. Much like GFE, the term Fetish Friendly does not actually mean anything of substance when read in a add.

In my experience, a fetish is anything a client is uncomfortable asking for at home. Even something as simple as oral sex. Then there's the usual stuff like SMBD, as well as oddities like wrestling, tickling, gagging, queening, mommy role play, putting a toe in one's ass, spitting into a plastic bag.