Women would rather be manually stimulated by the toy rather than a mans hand.
What brought this to my mind was a craving for a mutual masturbation session; but for it to be mutually pleasurable, I was thinking it would be better to use a vibrator on the lady while she is using her hand on me. Just thinking ahead.Ask her to show you how she likes to use it. (love this part)
Give it a try when you think you have it down.(take direction)
Enjoy
Every client tries to ram his fingers into the girls thinking the Porn, jack-hammer, technique is what girls like or those 'How to make every woman squirt' videos, which tell the guys to insert 3 fingers and tap upward hard until she gushes like a open fire hydrant, (or slaps the shit outta you for being a dumbass.) The point is the girls get tired of being man handled by clients.
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The only time I'm certain that I got a girl off with my hand was by accident. I was more interested in the movie and fell into a repetitive, soft, thing. Surprised me, but I acted like I knew it all along.
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What guy does not enjoy a lady stroking his member. Sometimes it's as good as a BJ or intercourse. But through my years of hobbying I get the sense that manual stimulation by her partner is not near the top of a woma's enjoyment list. Even though a man maybe well groomed I sense the woman would rather be stimulated orally or by a toy being used by her partner. I have never felt that a woman enjoys a finger fuck unless it is slow and in conjunction with her clit being orally stimulated.
Am I wrong on this? It's just my experience and wanted to confirm with the ladies.
when a lady doesn't enjoy it, it may because the gentleman:
- is forcing a dry finger in (ouch)
- has rough calluses or nails that can cut her delicate inner tissues (double ouch)
- is thrusting it in using too much force
- is attempting to reach her g-spot, and pressing against her bladder instead
and so on, and so on...
then again, some ladies simply don't like a finger in them, no matter how well it behaves, LOL.
I'd say to always ask before attempting entry!
And thus ends Tabu's Tuesday Tutorial, LOL
Buy her a toy (ask her what she really likes)
Ask her to show you how she likes to use it. (love this part)
Give it a try when you think you have it down.(take direction)
Enjoy
Every client tries to ram his fingers into the girls thinking the Porn, jack-hammer, technique is what girls like or those 'How to make every woman squirt' videos, which tell the guys to insert 3 fingers and tap upward hard until she gushes like a open fire hydrant, (or slaps the shit outta you for being a dumbass.) The point is the girls get tired of being man handled by clients.
.
The only time I'm certain that I got a girl off with my hand was by accident. I was more interested in the movie and fell into a repetitive, soft, thing. Surprised me, but I acted like I knew it all along.
.
Women would rather be manually stimulated by the toy rather than a mans hand.
What brought this to my mind was a craving for a mutual masturbation session; but for it to be mutually pleasurable, I was thinking it would be better to use a vibrator on the lady while she is using her hand on me.
Just thinking ahead.
Ask her to show you how she likes to use it. (love this part)
Give it a try when you think you have it down.(take direction)
Enjoy
Every client tries to ram his fingers into the girls thinking the Porn, jack-hammer, technique is what girls like or those 'How to make every woman squirt' videos, which tell the guys to insert 3 fingers and tap upward hard until she gushes like a open fire hydrant, (or slaps the shit outta you for being a dumbass.) The point is the girls get tired of being man handled by clients.
.
The only time I'm certain that I got a girl off with my hand was by accident. I was more interested in the movie and fell into a repetitive, soft, thing. Surprised me, but I acted like I knew it all along.
.
My vote goes to the rabbit vibe. Awesome time
as said, ask a 1000 ladies get 1000 answers. for me, is always a second or third course, after lady is relaxed and wet. i always start with just the tip of one finger and see how she responds; for some that may be all they want, some end up wanting 4 fingers with vigor. as always, YMMV.
the old sailor