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Advice needed please..Respectfully from the ladies, but you gents do know alot!!.....red_smile
mona38 See my TER Reviews 823 reads
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I was contacted this afternoon from the male counterpart of a couple I used to visit with. They have moved out of state, and will not not be making a return visit to the Carolina's. They have sent me an open invitation to come visit them where they now reside for a weekend. I was overjoyed that they thought of me and want to continue our special encounters.  

The advice I am seeking is because. I have a child, and it is not easy for me to scoot away for more than a 24 hr period.  Ladies, when you are invited for a weekend getaway, and can do it, what tales are best to use so not to draw suspicion from family or friends as to why you are going to be absent for 2 days??

I'd appreciate any advice that you are willing to forward to me....Please!!! If possible PM'S are best!

Thank You,

Smiles Mona:-)

It appears as though you have accumulated enough reviews to have gained privy to the PO board. For future reference (although the men have proven to have useful advice in matters of this nature), I think it would be beneficial for you to post inquiries like this on the “girls only” board as well. :)  

Anyway, a question like that is hard to answer without background. With that said--- how close are they to you? I would cop to some sort of “business” associated travel excuse, but that (of course) is dependent upon the sort of work your friends/family know/think you are in.  

Also, if you are dead set on keeping “Mona” a secret, going with a non-work related excuse, perhaps a “new lover”/ new friend, should come into the picture? Traveling with a new boyfriend/ platonic girlfriend is always a good excuse to “get away”.  

I’m thinking we may need more details to give you proper advice. (Details concerning the amount of information your friends/family know about your life, and whereabouts etc.)  

Just my thoughts Mona,

Si

Thank You for taking time to pass along your suggestions,  

At this time, I do not have access to PO board.  I do like your suggestions and they do sound reasonable enough for a weekend away, without raising many eyebrows.  

Thanx again,

Mon

I am thinking if nothing came to mind easily it may not be possible.   The only thing that comes to my mind is something like an old friend from school contacted you and invited you to catch up at someplace special.  I know its weak but its a start.  

Wishing ya luc

Thank You Roadshow,  

It was thoughtful of you to reply and add your suggestion. It may come in handy who knows!!

Thnx again,

Smiles Mona:-

I also travel on a regular basis and have been doing so for many years. I am honest and upfront with my family. If you are making sure your child is in a safe environment, that you call them and check in, pay handsomely to whoever keeps your child and I dont think you will have any problems. Most people tend not to ask too many questions as long as they are taken care of.

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