I feel naive...but what is BP? I have never heard of it. I use Eros and TER. I saw this link and was intrigued by the question. Can someone tell me what BP stands for? Thank you. 
Tatum Taylor.
I'm just a little curious because some many bash BP and other sites but I've only met (2) people that have found me on here.
I do know its sometimes hard for certain schedules to match up especially for some like me that does this only part time because I have a day job, kids, and other responsibilities.
There is a lot of BP bashing here. To be honest, that is where I have found most, but then I do a lot of cross checking for reviews, etc.
That being said, I more often go for the FBSM (or is it FSBM?) than the whole enchilada.
The only time I use BP is when I travel to a part of the country where there is hardly any representation on TER and others. I had to do this in Idaho and WV, for instance. Otherwise, I feel better using this site.
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I use TER because it's the best well-organized board for good providers.
I've been stung on BP twice, and it has cost me a bunch of bucks. TER is the most reliable review site for me. But, I do check the reviews and the hobbyists
strippers that provide. They appear to be LOW VOLUME ........lol. Have only had one bad experience, but that was when Aunt Flo was visiting and she did not bother to say anything about it. What a fucking mess that was.
Not sure why so many bash BP. Some girls that advertise on BP are well reviewed on TER. Noticed this week that a VERY well reviewed TER provider is actually advertising on BP as she is visiting out of her usual area.
I primarily use TER/P4 and certainly TER for review checking.
If I'm in an area that doesn't have a strong TER presence, certainly P4 can give me a good idea of ladies in the area. Way out on the left coast, I've met some lovely ladies via P4 and TER. There's also a the presence of a different board that is heavily used for advertising. I may go there to find a listing, then cross reference with TER/P4 for any additional information I require.
While I may peruse BP once in a while and see a lovely advertising there, I will always follow up with TER/P4 to do the appropriate research. If I don't find them there, sorry but I'm not ready to TOFTT at this point. Thus far I haven't been burned, though it will happen some day I'm sure, by this approach.
My .0
BP is where I found two of my ATFs. Both ladies had websites and reviews on here. I have seen a couple of BP ladies in my town but only after I get a verification from a friend who is a lot bolder than I am and is willing to TOFTT. I check out BP just about daily to see who is in my area but if I can't get a review and a website, I don't care what she looks like or what her rates are I pass. I am seeing more and more ads with the words "well reviewed" but when I look for those reviews they are nonexistent. Just cause they say they have them don't make it true.
... what matters is you. I suggest you advertise across several places. Maximum effort, maximum potential, you get what you put in and all that. Some sites can't be named publicly but ...... here on TER, P411, Date-Check, Eros even should serve you well.
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I feel naive...but what is BP? I have never heard of it. I use Eros and TER. I saw this link and was intrigued by the question. Can someone tell me what BP stands for? Thank you. Tatum Taylor.
BP stands for back page
I use TER. Usually searching reviews. Sometimes I look at the TER ads also but I will admit to looking thru BP searching for the gems. Bashing BP or anyother advertising route seems a little shallow to me. Its not where you advertise, it is how you present yourself in the ad
Some from BP, but always cross-checked against TER. No reviews, no go.
From TER, I primarily see the girls who either have outstanding reviews or who participate in the discussion groups and seem interesting.
When posting on TER, and inquiring about the best place to advertise, please keep in mind that you're indeed posting in an advertising venue. Most women on TER are not here for our health/social interaction. We allow our ourselves to be reviewed here, we post here etc, specifically for the purpose of “marketing”. Do we like the social interaction? Sure. Are we aware of what we are doing? Yes.
Anyway, I bet a large percentage of men that frequent Backpage (if there was a way to ask them) would say that Backpage was the site Du Jour.
IMO, the success you receive on any given site is dependent upon the manner in which you choose to market yourself, and the type of men you are attempting to attract. You say you have a limited schedule due to “kids” etc, so it may not really matter WHERE you advertise, but rather HOW you advertise.
Perhaps you should create a website, and put your availability dates/times up on a calendar? That may help filter out the men that you would be unable to entertain? I would do the same in regards to your adverts.
PS. Post this on the PO board also, a lot of ladies will not post in public (for various reasons), you may get more candid/useful advice on the PO board.
Good luck!
xo
I typically start here on TER or P411 but I generally only see reviewed ladies. I will actually TOFTT if the girl is with an agency but I would only see a BP provider if she had reviews. When I play in the hobby I must do some planning ahead so I personally am not able to take advantage of the average BP provider because IMO it seems that most are just placing the ad for that day. So for the clients like myself who must pre-schedule dates BP is just a place to find potential providers and then use the other sites to cross-check them for the future. So I use a combination of sites to find a provider, an informed decision usually leads to a better experience.