Providers and hobbyists, soliciting your guidance. I suspect this question has been asked before. Does a provider have an obligation to state that they are on their menstrual cycle before a session begins? I saw a provider (seen multiple times) recently for a sensual massage. In each session, she allowed me to take her panties off and things always got better. The most recent experience was dull as she was on her menstrual cycle and thus did not allow the panties to come off. She mentioned it as I was about to pull down her panties. Needless to say I was perturbed but did not show it and completed the session. Afterwards, I wondered why she did not tell me before the appointment. Yes, I would have waited to see her after the cycle. I am understanding and reasonable gentleman. Has someone encountered this before? Should this be a question that we as hobbyists should contemplate asking? Or is this much ado about nothing? Providers, what are your thoughts? Thank you.
massage setting, it would depend on whether her normal menu includes "extras' beyond the massage, or not, for the stated rate. Many massage providers will let their regulars get away with a little extra, as a thank you for their continued patronage, for no extra fee. In that case, I don't think you can complain about this one instance. She has no obligation beyond what is normally on the menu for the fee you paid, even though you have regularly received extras in the past.
The flip side is that if she is a massage provider that also offers FS to her regulars, and you pay a commensurate rate to include the full service, and have enjoyed FS with her as part of your normal sessions, then I think she definitely would be obligated to disclose anything that might impede the normal activities that you engage in with her for the rate you have paid.