at least that's what a friend told me.
Some guys as they get older can get it up that second time, but releasing the load is another story. I suggest finding your "mental" trigger, something that intrinsically turns you on and steering the rest of the session in that direction. It could be a certain position, it could be a BBBJ, it could be 69, it could be watching her pleasure herself for a while, it could be more DFK, it could be prostate play and a hand job
Hello Ladies.
As some of you know, he he, sometimes I have a little difficulty getting off after playing a long time. I am never able to cum more than once despite my willingness to do so and a cock still standing at attention. No, I'm not embarrassed guys. I'm not the only one here afflicted by this. I'm just willing to admit it.
So, ladies, have you any tricks in your repertoire to help older gents like me experience the joy of a second pop? Anything you are willing to share? If not here, maybe in a PM? But, I'll bet there are a lot of guys here who would love to read what you have to offer.
I find when that happens, the only way I get past it is when my provider turns up the heat by talking dirty or moving to role play. We've discussed this before. At my age my big head requires as much stimulation as the small one. I always make sure to take care of the provider first (I must be a throwback to an earlier time) and sometimes find that I've been hard for so long I just can't go any further. It's all in the provider's hands (no pun intended) and when she steps it up, I can make it to the goal line.
start a topic like this, you are supposed to begin, "I have a friend. . . . .
Yeah, I know CDL. Not my speed. Too much like using an alias only everyone would still know it's me anyway. So I just put myself out there because it works for me. Most of the time. Ha ha ha.
If one hour has proven to not be long enough for you to get 2 pops maybe book longer dates?
I know some ladies would happily get you going rite in the door to maximize your recovery time so maybe try that if you don't want to book longer dates?
Unfortunately the mind may be able but the body isn't willing.
Another tip is to not self pleasure for a few days before your date.
Thank you GK. Points well made. 
at least that's what a friend told me.
Some guys as they get older can get it up that second time, but releasing the load is another story. I suggest finding your "mental" trigger, something that intrinsically turns you on and steering the rest of the session in that direction. It could be a certain position, it could be a BBBJ, it could be 69, it could be watching her pleasure herself for a while, it could be more DFK, it could be prostate play and a hand job
I would feel guilty like I was cheating on my providers.