Absolutely Bofia. It just sounded to me like this is a bit of an unclear situation here.
Hobbyists and Providers need your assistance please. A provider that I saw frequently only does outcalls now due to a negative experience. I cannot host due to my personal situation at home and due to my work schedule thete are time constraints. I really want to see this provider again. I looked to see if there are websites that specialize in booking room for a short period in the SD area but was not successful. Also do not want to call area motels or hotels so I do not tip my hand and do not want to waste money. What options are there, if any? Thoughts? Thank you.
Also, don't know why you can't call local hotels/motels or check their rates/availability online. How is this tipping your hand? Just don't be a moron and ask for an hourly rate. If you really want to see the girl, cough up the extra $120-$150 but let her know you made the reservation so she needs to be firm in her commitment to the date.
If that doesn't work, find another favorite that meets your incall needs.
Sadly The Tubs is no longer in operation. That was always a great neutral location for an outcall. There's a place in Point Loma that is fairly well known for offering hourly rooms. PM me if you're interested in knowing more.
My situation recently changed, and incalls no longer work for me as they used to. So, I have had to change my method of "doing business" by coughing up and renting a place whenever I want to see clients. It's not as easy as it once was. It's not as economical as it once was. But, it is what it is.
Why is finding a place your responsibility? The young lady is the one making the money. She's a bit girl. Why doesn't she find, and rent the place? She can surely stack her schedule to make it work for you, and her.
Just sayin' My opinion......
your place / your arrangement = incall
my place / my arrangement = outcall.
Both valid business models.
Absolutely Bofia. It just sounded to me like this is a bit of an unclear situation here.
bad luck with providers I was seeing for the first time keeping their appointments when I have reserved the room myself. Even if they cancel the night before, it is often too late to cancel with the hotel and they will charge your credit card anyway. On the other hand, when I have had the opportunity to see a provider I know on an outcall to my own hotel room, they have almost a perfect record of showing up. I usually will only book a hotel that also offers room service, but there are many in the SD area that are in the $150-$200 range that are clean and safe. Check some of the online booking engines.
Since she knows you, just have a straightforward conversation that it is important that once she commits, only an emergency of some consequence would cause her to cancel. However, keep in mind that if she should cancel and you are stuck with the room, you get to pick someone new which often turns out to be a pleasant surprise. Lemons into lemonade, the rule for a happy life.
I saw this question raised at another site. A member there replied that some of the larger hotels will do several hour bookings rather than full night for airline crews who need somewhere to rest or crash between spaced out flights. So, maybe just call a few and see if they are offer this service for business travelers, or whatever you want to claim you are. Worst they can do is say no.
You could also put her in touch with ladies who already have a location
If she would only need incall on occasion she could team up with a low volume person with their own spot.