There have been many threads and complaints about "lack of etiquette" (or lack of a simple Thankyou's) on parts of providers.
I am glad to see this posted. It shows great strength of personal character & the ability to be humble.
It is the little things, folks, that make the difference.
We may be "providers"- doesn't make us unfeeling cold people who aren't affected by such... nastiness. Example:
I see a nasty response up here... Like: seriously? If I dig through my emails, I am sure I have one I failed to reply to one particular one.... the name that looks vaguely familiar, maybe even from a guy who complained about not working and being on disability? (as an issue for screening...) I had thought about being super sweet & replying (albeit late) and offer a "disability discount" (with proof of said recipient status, of course, I didn't just fall off the apple cart...)
However, when I see responses to a simple THANKYOU post like this, really makes me hesitate to respond, let alone with the offer of a "discounted rate."
I am gonna say for the record, I already know I have one of the lower rates in the area (of reputable reviewed providers, trust this: I scope the competition. So what do I look like even being nice enough to offer a discount ON TOP of my low rate?)
One thing I am not... is heartless.
And these responses...
Hurt my heart. Tabu, I apologize for these fellow's lack of respect, and the gall to hide behind board aliases, and slick mouths/fingers.... I assure you not everyone is so uncouth. Realize now, Gentlemen, Us ladies, we DO pay attention.
Whether we retort smartly in turn, or remain silent... That rope that you're swinging from like Tarzan?
Make sure that it doesn't get looped around your necks while you're swinging so wildly...
Wouldn't want to accidentally hang yourself, now would we?
Just a thought.
to the fellows of RTP:
I want to thank you for the roses...
and the Amazon gift card, and the 9/9 review,
and all the other above-the-call-of-duty treats
I've been showered with on this trip to the Triangle...
I've met some of the sweetest and sexiest gentlemen ever.
I really appreciate all my new friends!
kisses,
Tabu
thank you tabu..my regular here in the city had a wonderful time and as shy as he is, that is a huge compliment..You made him feel so very comfortable with himself...a talent not many have..
I know for a fact he cant wait for you to come back to NYC.
Tabu, I for one appreciate you sharing your happiness. I also feel that Panthera12 Is one of the reason this board has become so dead. I mean, who wants to post anything of joy? Getting slapped in the face is not a fun thing. He must really be a very unhappy person. Please do not let one person take away your joy. Kelley White
Glad you said something. it allows me to respond without breaking my self imposed ban on responding to negative alias posts.
Thanks for posting Tabu, I am sure he likes seeing it.
As for the cowards that first responded, next time you are at the lake, drop in. Bless your little heart.
All of them either logical or quips. This board has been in demise for the last 3+ years.
Perhaps it has more to do with mindless banter and stupid posting, many from the over the hill desperate calvary. Do you know what day today is? Think hard. (hint….It's not Wednesday or Friday).
PS: Now 11 for those who can't count.
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You are a day short, you obviously did not read the deleted threads from the two cowards who self deleted their post. Do not who you are. However when I replied to Tabu thread, I had no idea that every one was going to say such nice things, and they were not to me. They were supporting Tabu. I have no idea about your logic, my name was never mentioned. And it was never intended to me.
There have been many threads and complaints about "lack of etiquette" (or lack of a simple Thankyou's) on parts of providers.
I am glad to see this posted. It shows great strength of personal character & the ability to be humble.
This week, I received a bottle of perfume from a semi-regular... and I was blown away, a bit speechless, and maybe even misty eyed... It was super nice to be thought of and "instead of a small tip" that he went above & beyond to track down my profiles for an idea, forgotten I had listed it on my p411 profile, because I certainly never expected it, and have not even mentioned "gifts" (other than donation) on my webpage....
It is the little things, folks, that make the difference.
We may be "providers"- doesn't make us unfeeling cold people who aren't affected by such... nastiness.
Example:
I see a nasty response up here... Like: seriously?
If I dig through my emails, I am sure I have one I failed to reply to one particular one.... the name that looks vaguely familiar, maybe even from a guy who complained about not working and being on disability? (as an issue for screening...) I had thought about being super sweet & replying (albeit late) and offer a "disability discount" (with proof of said recipient status, of course, I didn't just fall off the apple cart...)
However, when I see responses to a simple THANKYOU post like this, really makes me hesitate to respond, let alone with the offer of a "discounted rate."
I am gonna say for the record, I already know I have one of the lower rates in the area (of reputable reviewed providers, trust this: I scope the competition. So what do I look like even being nice enough to offer a discount ON TOP of my low rate?)
One thing I am not... is heartless.
And these responses...
Hurt my heart.
Tabu, I apologize for these fellow's lack of respect, and the gall to hide behind board aliases, and slick mouths/fingers.... I assure you not everyone is so uncouth.
Realize now, Gentlemen, Us ladies, we DO pay attention.
Whether we retort smartly in turn, or remain silent...
That rope that you're swinging from like Tarzan?
Make sure that it doesn't get looped around your necks while you're swinging so wildly...
Wouldn't want to accidentally hang yourself, now would we?
Just a thought.
Tabu has made NC her home base now, and I'm so happy the fine gentlemen here are showing her such admiration with lovely gifts when they arrive at her love nest!
xoxo,
Steph
Stop kissing her ass and stalking her, she knows you're BSC.
Which is why you were treated so nicely by your new friends in the area. Those lucky guys knew they were in the company of a very special lady, I'm sure.
I know first hand what a generous lady Tabu is, as I've recently been the recipient of her time and generosity. She truly is special : )
I want to thank you for the roses...
and the Amazon gift card, and the 9/9 review,
and all the other above-the-call-of-duty treats
I've been showered with on this trip to the Triangle...
I've met some of the sweetest and sexiest gentlemen ever.
I really appreciate all my new friends!
kisses,
Tabu
Makes some of us want to emulate him .