When you're young, its all about the physics. When you get older, its all about the chemistry. Don't know why that is, but I went through it, too. Like you, I ONLY book with GFE providers.
I'm an occasional hobbyist and I've noticed as I've gotten older that I enjoy the providers who can excite my mind as much as stimulate my body. I still get turned on when I'm looking at a beautiful woman, but I find that that my brain needs to be stroked as much as more obvious targets. I'm not sure if this is an age thing or not. I'm in my mid 50s now and only the GFE encounters work for me where 10 years ago it was all about the physical presence. Now, someone who is more verbal and into foreplay is much more attractive to me. I'm curious how this is for others.
Your demographic and mine are similar and so is what we seek. Sex is great but it has to stimulate me between the ears before the area between my legs responds. Then again, sometimes the area between my legs is slow regardless. And, you know what, that seems to matter less and less as long as I can make the lady happy.
I agree with your last sentence. I prefer a provider who enjoys DATY as it brings me please to give her pleasure. I love to see her cum before me. Not sure why but I've become aware of that over the years.
well bushexplorer...I'm 63 now, My Rabbi told me 50 years ago...it's written(I guess in the Torah) , a man should pleasure his wife before his pleasure. And I have followed this ever since. Everyone of my bedmates have always commented on my skills. Not sure my tongue is any different then yours. I believe, it was I always made sure that they got their orgasm FIRST! They always appreciated that! SO DID I.....lol
Old Guys Rule!! I love this hobby. I love the ladies more...you know who I am speaking of, Love You.
Teddy.bare
Are you sure that Rabbi's advice for your wife can be applied to providers?? I am sure it's ok if they are Kosher, of course. Otherwise I don't know. I will have to check with my Torah again!
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When you're young, its all about the physics. When you get older, its all about the chemistry. Don't know why that is, but I went through it, too. Like you, I ONLY book with GFE providers.