Jherimae, very well stated. Your post was well written, conveyed your message and your feelings very well and you did it all in a way most readers would not find rude or insulting, etc. I applaud your standing up. If more people could express disagreement the way you did, there would be more people writing posts that are interesting and informative.

Also, and this is for all you ladies out there, most of the posters here are men. Sad, but true. Maybe that will change soon. When a guy crosses a line the best way to point out the error of his ways is for a woman to do the pointing. Seriously! Us guys are wired to please women so when a woman shows us where we are wrong we hear it a little louder. Some guys here will think me a wimp for writing that but, I don't care. The guys here who truly feel that way don't care what a woman thinks or feels. They are in it solely for the sex and nothing more. I'll bet that when you see them professionally you are happy to see them leave.

I truly hope to see more of the ladies post on this site. Not everyone has the time or interest to read the general board or boards from other cities. This is San Diego and I want to know more about the local scene.