Posted By: 6-pack_abs
Hopefully, this will illicit a few responses from our lovely ladies...
Even though I am whitelisted on TER by several ladies, I still run into problems occasionally passing screening. Here are a few problems I run into.
1. Must provide more than 2 references.
2. Reference must have seen you recently (within 6 months)
3. Reference must be from a well-established lady. (What defines a well-established lady?)
4. Being Whitelisted isn't sufficient.
5. Must provide social media profile (OK. This is a deal-breaker for me, but some ladies require it).
6. Reference did not respond back in timely manner.
I'm sure there are more, but these are the most common hurdles that tend to break a date for me. I know it's frustrating for everyone. I make a mental note of ladies that have provided a reference for me. Some do..A lot don't.
The ladies with several alternative means of screening along with a fast approval process are gems in my book.
Sir you pose quite the dilemma for Newbie Hobbyists and Providers,
as well as for some well-established.
I have equally encountered this numerous times as I'm sure others
have at some point.
However, unfortunately I decline more Hobbyists, than I
companion with. I choose and adore being a Companion!
With that being said, I am truly "low-volume", because
fortunately I value my safety over everything!
One can't pay one's bills from "six feet under"!
Unfortunately, lower-volume is due to several of the reasons
you listed: "a lack of the number of required recent references whom
actually respond to referral requests in a timely manner."
But I digress.....
In order to expedite this for yourself "6-pack_abs", I suggest you
politely email or pm said referral Provider, and indicate that
"so & so" will be contacting for a reference, and "would you mind
responding to them asap?"
Even though I am "referral friendly", this is a gesture I always appreciate,
especially when the Provider is from out of the San Diego area.
A "Whitelist" is a beautiful thing, if it actually effectively gleans the
necessary information to approve a Hobbyist.
{However, again, me being ultra-cautious, I even double-check with
the Whitelisted referrals, if they are not someone known to myself}.
With regards to the "Whitelisting", perhaps it is the level of
my non-vip membership TER status?
However, when searching by your handle under "Reviewer's Whitelistings",
it displays only one whitelisted Provider for you.
Perhaps you should check with TER, to authenticate this finding, or the lack
thereof with regards to your comment "I am whitelisted on TER by several ladies".
Herein lies the ultimate response from most Hobbyists and from your final comment;
"The ladies with several alternative means of screening along with a fast approval process are gems in my book."
I will second that, gems indeed! 
So perhaps I'm again asking for your advice in return Sir, aka "6-pack_abs",
Are you listed on P411 or other verification sites?
For myself, why I've not used P411, or other referral sites?
When initially checking into them, I was highly put off by
the very thing you indicated in your OP, 6-pack_abs,
regarding "real information requested by the Provider" i.e.:
Facebook, Linked-In, Twitter, "Your first born" and a fingerprint {pun intended}.
Even though my secondary livelihood depends on my ability to verify
references, I would never compromise myself with revealing my true identity
to ANY agency, or verification site ever!
If one does a little research in other forums
on some of the many sites, one will discover that this necessity to become a "member"
requires too much personal information in order to authenticate.
Several even require a picture of your driver license.
I for one, sense that this is just another "Ashley Madison" scandal waiting to happen!
{no disrespect to "Ashley Madison, P411, or anyone whom avidly uses them}
Forgive me for such a winded response, however, I hope some of this assists
you in your verification process, which shall lead to "happy hobbying"!
Warmest, XO
Angelina Jones
-- Modified on 4/18/2016 7:12:25 PM
Ask one of the ladies you seen who's a member, have them send you a Date-Check or P411 invite... Easily to verify you, simple to keep up, and the provider won't have your personal social media info unless you wish it to be so.
Several ladies that I know, will not use Whitelist as you said, however that is a matter of their personal choice. They still use RS2K, Date-Check and P411. Even if it does limit themselves, which it is to easy to contact a lady from the Whitelist and Verify info. Still, those other screening sites are pretty easy to use.
www.RoomService2000.com
www.Date-Check.com
www.Preferred411.com
I was just suggesting that to someone the other day who got all offended about it, which is has nothing to do with being offended, some ladies just prefer different resources to use, and why not use as many as possible and expand the range for yourself. To me it makes perfect sense.
Happy Hobby Time, Play Safe!
Besos,
L
