I actually have a Glock 17 and Bushmaster AR 15. Thankfully it didn't come to that. The girl herself wasn't reviewed but was highly recommended by one that was as a replacement. But even if she was reviewed, can you really trust the reviewers enough these days to let her in your home? Also, if she knows your address then her driver, boyfriend, manager, booker, husband, agency and maybe even probation officer knows it too. It's just not worth it. So whenever I decide to host I just get a room for about 60 a night at a place like Mission Valley Resort, for example, and don't have to worry about anything. Hotels also seem to provide extra stimulation for the date. Lol
In an earlier thread, Thewholetruth told a compelling story of a friend whose life was ruined due to being too free with personal information. If you haven't read the story, you should. It illustrates some points we should all keep in mind.
So my question is, what are the pro's and cons of having a provider to your home? I'm sure the con's far outnumber the pros.
In my case, the only providers I have had to my home have been well reviewed, been local, had reputations for being professional and, in my opinion, had a lot to lose by outing me. Why did I have them to my place? Convenience and cost savings. I knew a lot of the risks involved.
So, guys - What other reasons might you have a provider to your home? What are some other advantages of doing so? What are some of the less obvious risks of having them over?
After an outcall to my house, the girl showed up 3 days later with her pimp/boyfriend at my door trying to rob me! In my opinion, it's definitely not worth it to have them at your home. Much better for the piece of mind to get a hotel room for the occasion
In my case my funds are limited and have a hard time competing with my desires and needs.
Regarding your story, I can't help but think the provider was not well reviewed. Right or wrong? What were the circumstances?
try #2 - A nice well-reviewed provider at your house - NO PROBLEM - Right? WRONG! Here's why...
Scenario -
1. Well reviewed, nice provider comes to your home. She DOESN'T come to your home without references - RIGHT?
2. A lady you reviewed (and REFERENCED) a couple providers ago asked for where you werked - GET IT?
3. Provider now has WERK info and where you live - see how FUCKING simple this is?
4. You don't like services provided - now what? They got you by the balls and you don't even get it - SAD!!!
ARE you guys that FUCKING blind and stupid? Seriously?
Good luck gents because it is truly only a matter of time unless you allow US to take back the leverage. I could care less about the money. They got you by the BALLS. Communicate via alias or suffer the WRATH!
No, I'm not blind. Stupid? Yeah, probably. I know most of the risks as you obviously do. But I am also getting something in return that maybe you are not. For me, it is not all about the sex. Mostly but not all. Thanks for the input.
That said, there are some that I know very well and trust. Those under the right circumstances those I definitely would. But I also know them well enough to know what all they have to lose.
As for the story of the one with her pimp coming back to try and rob him, the solution is found with a piece of equipment called a Saiga 12 or a 357 magnum if you don't want such a big mess. Two corpses with criminal records inside the doorway of your home with the lock on your door broken. End of story.
I actually have a Glock 17 and Bushmaster AR 15. Thankfully it didn't come to that. The girl herself wasn't reviewed but was highly recommended by one that was as a replacement. But even if she was reviewed, can you really trust the reviewers enough these days to let her in your home? Also, if she knows your address then her driver, boyfriend, manager, booker, husband, agency and maybe even probation officer knows it too. It's just not worth it. So whenever I decide to host I just get a room for about 60 a night at a place like Mission Valley Resort, for example, and don't have to worry about anything. Hotels also seem to provide extra stimulation for the date. Lol
I have really slowed my hobby activities. But a lot of my decisions have been based more on who the reviewer is. When I see a review of someone I have seen and his review/experience is similar, then I may put more trust in that guys other reviews. I know its not perfect but, what is?
As hobbyists, we live in a world in between "all things are possible" and "nothing lasts forever." We sometimes make decisions in the beginning thinking about the first one, what might be possible, and those decisions become bad when we are near the second one, because sooner or later, it ends for whatever reason. Knowing that "nothing lasts forever" is going to come down the pike someday, I would never, ever, ever have a provider come to my home.
Seems extremely high risk. She better have as much to lose as you do.
When I lived in Phoenix I had a very nice home that was made for entertaining in mind. Probably a lot more 'vanilla' than what I used it for but I was the one paying the bills. LOL I would often invite a lady over to have fun. I never had any issues but I always do a lot of homework about whom I am seeing so know what to expect.
But now I live up in the High Desert and for most ladies it's too far away. I get it and have no problems with that so I plan trips into civilization just to have fun. However I'm getting ready to switch locations and move closer to San Diego. Unfortunately I'll be living at the same place that I work and can't have visitors without a big security risk. So I'll have to look for someone who offers incall or rent a nice hotel somewhere for the night. Oh well, from what I hear there's quite a few in the SD area to choose from!
Do your homework and decide if it's something you feel comfortable with.
We don't know what you gentlemen are capable of, I personally cut off the weird vibes from some guys. And I stop seeing them if I get a glimpse of psycho. Lol
This hobby is scary on both ends.
I agree completely. Ladies would be well advised to never use their homes as incall locations. Even for regulars.
This hobby is scary on both ends.