i think the above conveys my thoughts on this particular manner. Its unfair for anything other than complete and total disclosure on this issue.
Should a post op TS be obligated to be open and public with "her" customers about her gender origin? I have seen some prior TER discussion about whether a provider is or is not a post op TS. It sounds like modern medicine has made it difficult to tell the difference. I would think the ethics of the hobby should dictate that a provider be open and honest about this. Thoughts??
Should she be obligated?
That is debatable for her. But I feel she should tell yes, mainly for her own safety. I have heard horror stories about one girl impaticular that did not disclose her history, and after a few reviews the truth came out. Some past clients wanted to do horrible things to her.
Yes modern medicine does some really great stuff, and no sometimes you can NEVER tell.
The problem for some girls that are Post-Op, is that it puts them in a very small working percentage. In that I mean most guys that would want to see a TS in the first place want that (extra somethin somethin) that a post-op does not have. And so many alpha males will never see a post-op TS even if she is all female. So I know some girls never tell about them selves.
I personaly am very truthful about everything up front, and I am very happy about the way I handle my business. Always remember though.......Postop/or not that person still has feelings and she has probably been through alot in her life. So never judge a book by it's cover, read it and you might just learn something new?
Cheers!!
Kylie
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Since you are from another city, we don't know much about you, and probably most of us don't know much about post-op TS girls in general.
If you don't mind telling us, when you did you realize you felt like a woman although you were physically a man--as a teenager or adult? When did you decide to have your surgery? Was it as successful as you hoped?
And please post your web site. Thank you! (sorry if the above questions are too personal.)
HI! for those who don't know me here.
I am actually from Arizona (born at good sam), grew up in SD and Scottsdale, attended AZ state GO SUN DEVILS! And most of the time wished I still lived in AZ based on all the awsome people there.
You can do a search on me for Sandy Eggo, under my name """KYLIE"""
and you can learn alot about me there?
As far as some of the other questions asked.......I would rather answer them in a more private forum (I.E. TER PMs) or email me.
I really do miss all of you in AZ so much. The last time I was there in Oct. I had a chance to meet a few providers, and some hobbyst, and all I can say is WOW! The nicest most awsome providers are in AZ.You guys rock!
Cheers!
Kylie
i think the above conveys my thoughts on this particular manner. Its unfair for anything other than complete and total disclosure on this issue.