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yup, it's very required to have a brief convo before a date. I'm traditionalregular_smile
BeautifulLover 327 reads
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Do you like to have a phone conversation before your date or
Text when you arrive for room #?  

Your thoughts if any?

on the phone for 15 - 30 minutes before a date was set.

I think many gals see this as part of their screening system

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That has changed in recent years and presently I rarely have so much as a thirty second phone call with a lady before knocking at her door. I seem to make all my appointments through the P 411 PM system and then texts from there.  

and yes, I know that the PM system is not supposed to be used for actually booking appointments, but that's how I like to do it and it's rare that a woman directs me to the appointment request tab.

Whatever talking is to be done, will be behind closed doors.  Sometimes I find that phone convos are a bit forced and semi-awkward.

...is when I call her from the hotel lobby to get the room number.
Sometimes we speak for the first time when I am entering the room.



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I'd probably scare you off before you get to my door step.

I rarely talk by phone to providers these days as most communication is by text before date. However, I will usually spend first 10 min during date just talking and building a rapport and I find this connection building leads to a much better experience for me and makes the provider more comfortable with me.

It's really up to the lady. Some prefer to visit on the phone a little before meeting a gent. And I probably  like that as well.
But not a biggie.  
Some like a text , others don't  
Some are strictly email

I'm OK with whatever makes her most comfortable

You can tell a lot about somebody by the way they present themselves on the phone!! and every time I have gotten a bad feeling after taking to a client I have always been right... I will cancel outright if they sound sketchy even after screening.....

often conversation becomes sexual very quick  
i just prefer text

Posted By: escalade1964
Do you like to have a phone conversation before your date or  
 Text when you arrive for room #?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

I like to talk to the gal when I arrive. It's always fun to prolong the inevitable, and I'm more comfortable when I've conversed for a little bit first.

I don't even like to talk to my friends and family on the phone.  Only text and email.  If somebody made me talk on the phone before a date I would cancel.   I am busy and I do all my dates in the day time.  It would be hard to receive a call from a Provider while I am at work.

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For sure...Common conversation incl. $, time, start time, address..;-)

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