I certainly appreciate a considerate host - pay no attention to those who lack manners.
I am going to try to keep my posts as gender neutral as I can. In my last thread I only mentioned male hobbyists and female providers, but I got an email from a female hobbyist asking me to use more gender neutral language when posting in general section since there are female hobbyists out there. I would like to apologize for mishap and will try to do better in the future. If I f.. up again, it is not intentional. My respect to all female hobbyists out there.
In any case, there is something I want to talk about. Every now and then I get a client who puts a cologne on private parts. But the problem is during BBBJ action all I get to taste is bitter taste of cologne. I want to taste the person not the cologne. I do not want to swallow chemicals, so I have to spit out a few times during the action and it ruins the experiences for both. Why some do it? ( in my experience it is often guys of Italian heritage lol #sorryaboutit) Do providers out there put perfume or lotions on their privates right before the session?How would hobbyists feel about taste perfume and lotion instead of natural tastes when doing daty
I hate scented anything on a lady I am with. I want to smell and taste her odors beginning with the personal scent of her skin, which is always unique, through to her full arousal in daty. I love the scent of a woman.
Not the post, but the act of someone spraying their balls and penis with cologne before seeing a provider. I guess stupid is and stupid does. Cologne is not intended for that area lol, simple soap and water while showering for hygiene purposes. I used to use baby powder in that area, when I was 10 years old but now I just stick to bathing and or showering daily or twice daily depending on my workout schedule.
...it's because (I've read about this on another board a while ago) some guys may masturbate before a session so that they can prolong that session. I'm wondering if they use lotion and don't clean it off before the session. And I'm not speaking for myself! (lol)
But on a side note, your post reminds me of when I was in Jr. High, I didn't have time to take a shower before meeting up with some friends so I sprayed Right Guard deodorant on my armpits. Then a light bulb turned on above my head. I thought WHY NOT? Yes, you've guessed it - I brought the can down near my lower region and pressed...I sprayed the whole area sort of like crop dusting a field including the underside.
One-one thousand, two.... OH! MY! GOD!! My eyes started to bulge and I became teary-eyed. I let off the loudest scream in my head. I might as well lit my nuts on fire because that's what it felt like. Ever since that day, no fragrances, perfumes, or sprays go near my nether regions - just soap and water
As I've said before... if you're considering putting anything scented on your crotch, put it in your mouth first. If it tastes bad, don't put it on your crotch
Some guys are just clueless where it comes to women in general and sex in specific. They simply don't have a sex live outside of the hobby and all the other women in their life never got close enough to their junk even to smell, much less taste the cologne on it.
I will lightly lotion my dick and balls before an appointment after showering. They dry out a bit from being washed. The lotion I use is scent free. Would that cause a problem?
scent free does not mean taste free
no lotion please
I know I don't want to taste lotion, perfume, cream or anything else but 100% woman when I go down on a lady, the least I can do if I want my dick sucked and my balls licked is to offer the same consideration.
Soap and water is all you need. If you just have to do anything more than that, put just a touch of cologne behind your ear. After all these years I am still amazed how uncommon common sense really is.
First lotion tastes bad and has chemicals that could be harmful if swallowed.
Second the oils and chemicals in lotions can degrade condoms making them more likely to break. Not cool.
love the post...made me lmao
I do like to wear John Varvatos cologne. Very subtle and probably could be unisex.
I'd say something ... I could almost understand lotion as it's an after shower routine for many, but still I'd ask them to go wash it off Please... Speaking of that. I bought some "Feminine wipes" as suggested on this board previously. How many do I put out? I had the open box placed on my bathroom counter with mouthwash and small paper cups, but I was told that it looked like I had a drugstore in my bathroom. Try to be a good host and look what it gets .. LOL
I certainly appreciate a considerate host - pay no attention to those who lack manners.
I run into a lot of people putting powder on. I understand there are times it's beneficial, but not during play time! It soaks up the moisture for the first bit of a bbbj, my mouth gets all pastey and its hard to get things slippery and sliding.
I have run into people dousing their neck and chest w cologne and that's just as bad. There has been times I've had to stop and get a drink or mouthwash because the bitter taste is so overwhelming.
Just put a little thought into what your putting where when your getting ready to play. I also make sure all my lubes, oils and lotions don't have a bad taste
..us lady hobbyists thank whoever that was who emailed you. I honestly always think that I am the only lady monger out here. And kudos to you octavia for taking it to heart.
Now that cologne/perfume thing- yikes! Knowing that a lovely lady will soon have her face buried in my coochie, the last thing that I would subject her to was a blast of some overpowering lotion or cologne. The first thing I do upon arrival to an incall is shower so that all of me is fresh and clean.
Pouring on some strong scent screams to me of trying to cover up something nasty down there.
If you need cologne to cover up a smell, there is probably a bigger issue that needs taken care of!
you are very welcome. hugs 
Now that cologne/perfume thing- yikes! Knowing that a lovely lady will soon have her face buried in my coochie, the last thing that I would subject her to was a blast of some overpowering lotion or cologne. The first thing I do upon arrival to an incall is shower so that all of me is fresh and clean.
Pouring on some strong scent screams to me of trying to cover up something nasty down there.
creamy cum with a dash of saliva is all the lotion i need..
that sounds kinky...love it
Its rare but a few ladies i booked had far to much perfume/lotion.
Whatever it was, i did not rebook.
As far as colonges on guys. For some as i guess ladies like it,
I havent wore cologne since prom in 1982, i think it was polo! Lo
on the surfaces that I shave just prior to a date. It prevents any razor burn and has a decidedly neutral taste to it, being mostly organic.
Only once do I recall doing DATY on a gal and getting a mouthful of her deodorant down there. It was not pleasant
It doesn't have a bad taste, and smells like coconuts.
Youch!
Not quite the same thing, but I visited a hostess who had a tricky BBBJ technique.
Now, some ladies like the ice in the mouth - cold BJ technique. Some ladies like the hot tea rinse, spit, then give a "hot" BJ technique. This hostess slipped something into her mouth (I thought it was hot tea) but it turned out to be peppermint oil. YEEOOOOOW that burned and I had to go take a shower right away. I saw her several more times, but NO MORE peppermint oil!
Good sense, innocence, cripplin' mankind
Dead kings, many things I can't define
Occasions, persuasions clutter your mind
Incense and peppermints, the color of time
I remember getting out of the bath, my heart racing, rested on the toilet while rinsing "down there" , and lo and behold, there was steam coming off my body. Not regular steam. A LOT of steam.
Gah!
CLEAN not perfume or cologne. A pussy is supposed to smell like PUSSY MMMMM YUMMMM!!!
It DOES NOT TASTE GOOD AT ALL. 
They are a dead giveaway.
and I really hate when ppl put anything "down there"
Or a sloppy wet DATY! Dries your mouth out with the antiperspirant. Yuck.
on my recent overnight gig, the guy told me i have a scent of a woman...
to me it was a huge compliment and i was not wearing any perfume just regular shower before the date...
thus one does not need to drench in artificial scents to turn on a partn
Dry/rough skin is not good either. So i lotion up everywhere except my junk. I didn't need anyone (a provider) to tell me, it was just common sense.
Also, I do not us cologne because a scent from a cologne is very particular. There may be a scent that one lady may like a lot but another lady may hate it and it may be a turn off or a distraction. It varies too much to take the chance, so I just go with no cologne (in real life too).
I don't even buy cologne on my own. Cologne is one of those things you let a gf/SO pick out for you because she likes that particular scent. So you wear it for her. Once again it just varies too much, so you let the gf or a provider choose a scent.
But you definitely don't put it on your junk, lol.
same scent as my body wash but I do NOT put any lotion on sensitive areas; arms & legs only.