I know a couple of more mature providers who are into the Big M and sometimes need extra lubrication. Why would anyone take offense about that?
I love using lube during sex. Condoms are just so freaking uncomfortable. I was with a client and we were at it for awhile so I had to reapply the lubricant.. I am hoping that he didn't take offense to that. Would you? And better yet..if you had finished going down on her and she still had to apply lube before fucking...is that a turn off?
And the whole time you're eating her out she's loving it and even cums! To then say lets fuck and she grabs the lube?! Still ok with that?
I would love it.
I am really ok with that. Makes no difference to me. I think lube feels wonderful anyway.
Besides, there is that old joke where if she starts smoking during sex, that means you need to use more lube. Sorry I couldn't resist.
Although necessary I find condoms to be a bigger turn off, mentally of course because I can usually maintain an erection once the condom does go on, so no lube is not a turn off.
One of my girls showed me the trick of putting a drop on the tip of my penis before putting the condom on...definitely heightens the sensation...of course she lubed herself up as well...really makes fucking with a condom a bit more enjoyable...
Edit: And that was after a triple orgasm during DATY...Yes, it was a really good night!
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And I often take a while to finish so extra lube is always fine. For me it is also a turn-on to be overt and direct when applying it.
I know a couple of more mature providers who are into the Big M and sometimes need extra lubrication. Why would anyone take offense about that?
i thought, you must not be turned on AT ALL!
I never found a woman who is bone dry during sex. enough to need lube. haha
Now i just know it's a necessary part of the job -most of the time- for her.
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Don't be discouraged by the Costco vat of lube on my bedstand..instead let it be a foretelling of an amazing time to come 💦💦💦💦
BJ's brand!
If I ever see you and happen to see your 55 gallon drum of lube that you bought from Costco (the smallest quantity they offer), I will now know that I should not take it as an insult. Thanks for the tip!
...make sure you keep more than one Costco vat of lube by your bed-stand. We will really need it once I get there!
Again...goofy smile on my face lol!
There are some edible / consumable Lube??? (I know for sure it exisits)
which brand is that...?
some providers use it liberally , it is very thin
I get a bubblegum flavored lube from Walgreens online and it's the shit for both BBBJ for me or DATY for her. I love using it and any provider who likes bubblegum, loves using it on me. 
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Of lube at all, to me it makes a difference friction, grip wise if that makes any sense. Also to elude to what someone posted earlier about a guy going down on a female for some time and her moaning and oohing and ahhing, it just seems kinda fake after all that to apply lube before intercourse. Kind of an ego buster.
I agree with davincib1's point that lube can often reduce the friction and the grip, and it can also shorten the experience if the girl has really good moves. Applying the lube can also disrupt the flow and the mood.
Oh boy! speaking from experience? 😳
A fair amount yes (experience).
Geez, and you begrudge her the comfort of some lube because she is not all wet over fucking some old fat guy? There is illusion and there is common sense.
Given that we use protection in the Hobby, no issues for me. In fact, more lube the better for me with regard to sensation.
If I was with a civilian (a young one) and lube was needed, maybe. I guess fucking a civilian partner in her mid 40's who requires lube, one gets over the issue very quickly. Just becomes a part of the encounter.
Now a CBJ, forget it....run.....hide......no way baby.
First of all, I don't have one of those that you ladies have and I have no idea what it feels like to have something rubbing back and forth in there. (I do know that I hate the annual prostate exam.) So if you need lube to avoid discomfort, do what you must.
When it comes to lube and more lube, I've been in different situations. There's the polite, sexy, "I need more lube" kind of talk which makes me feel fine or even good. But I've been in situations where my hostess, clearly wanting to rush me out and get me to leave might say something in a tone of voice that makes it seem like it's my fault. "Harumph!! This is terrible for me (and it's your fault). I need more lube (and hurry up and finish for crying out loud)."
Clearly, it's not the lube, it's the attitude.
(Too much lube can make it harder to cum, but I am rarely able to finish in the bag anyway. It's usually HJ or BBBJCIM.)
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would figure out how to make it seem sexy. Maybe you rub some on yourself & then him... by the time you are done slippery stroking him, he'll have forgotten you used it first!
If the guy has a massive c*ck, I am using lube. Sorry - I don't care if he makes my soul leave my body with a DATY O. After about 15 minutes of excessive penetration by a large cock, my vagina is like "Whaaaaat is this?" So it's focusing on "hosting" it's new "guest" by stretching and contracting, and sometimes it forgets to juice up. (Or they drove out all of my juice already.)
If you continue to pretend all is good and you're in need of lubricant, but your vagina is burning from the friction of the condom, get some lube or the condom will break.
If the guy is insulted and hurt because you used some lube so you could continue to enjoy yourself, while keeping yourself safe, the guy doesn't have a true understanding of sexual encounters or the human body. He has other problems, and there is no way you can fix that. Just send him to google and let him fend for himself lol.
I feel she is/was not into the session.
or
I did not perform to her liking.....
It's a let down and I would not repeat.
Remember, a great deal of "this" is in our mind and "fantasy"
Never mind Escalade, Savannah...he's a whiny little bitch and a troll all rolled into one. As for me, bring on the lube. I like it when my lady and I slip and slide all over each other.
Troll? Hahaha I love that word..and good to know 😉
You don't want the condom breaking. I like those second lubes. It makes more intense as the climax happens. You flex your pussy much easier and it cause the guy to have a very intense orgasm.
I've been with some women who even put it on before DATY. That is surprising and a turn-off. I prefer the natural taste.
I prefer it when a woman is naturally lubricated. It is a turn-on to know that she is wet.
I understand that friction can cause discomfort, and I wouldn't want a woman to be uncomfortable. I prefer a lubricated condom to lube. Some women slather it on, which is not sexy at all. Heavy use of lube suggests that a woman is high volume, which is not what I want to think about when I'm engaged. It also causes a loss of feeling.
In short, I think it's ok if used judiciously when needed. Heavy use of it is a major turn-off for me.
So if you are not doing it for her that is on you. She did not choose you, she has no choice to what shows up at her door and if you are old and out of shape and possibly over weight and you are are choosing young hookers, the chances they are all hot and bothered over you might be pretty slim...again, on you.
I'm old, but not overweight or out of shape. I've had some hot SBs who got very wet.
My "complaint" is that some women slather on lots of lube, whether they need it or not. I didn't say that providers didn't get wet--they pretty much always do.
To the women--I don't mean to cause anyone discomfort. If there is tenderness, by all means protect yourself from pain. If the tenderness is from high volume, maybe I should see you on a different day.
but I will also admit that there is a certain satisfaction to finding a gal whose juices are already abundant when the time comes. It's nice to think she is turned on to me, although I never know for sure if she lubed up beforehand come to think of it
You could go with NO lube and just enter dry; that would probably make the encounter exponentially more a turn-off. -do what ya gotta do. (0.02c)
But I also need it. I have a condition effecting my moisture producing glands that makes it sometimes impossible to get wet no matter how horny I am. And the Dryness created by the condom mixed with that can sometimes be VERY uncomfortable. I would hope a guy wouldn't be offended at the fact that I'm trying to make this a slippery, enjoyable experience for everyone!! lol
Nowhere does it say I have to put up vaginal irritation and possible tissue damage to assuage the ego of a john.
Natural lube is the result of arousal. They pick us, we don't pick them and I am afraid there is a direct effect of that scenario.
Some ladies are lucky to have guys that they are attracted to, and that rocks for both. Some are not and to prevent that and of course condom irritation which can happen with attraction or not. So guys, please leave your ego at the door and realize that the illusion is one thing and safety is another, the health and safety of a woman's body. If she needs lube just roll with it and tell yourself it is the condoms and not you f that makes you feel better.