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Re: Should I not curse infront of an older gentleman?
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As long as you don't scream "Fudge me!" :D



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I'm a native New Yorker with a huge potty mouth...I admit it! during my dates I obviously curb my need to cuss like a sailor and I present myself as a "lady"..well depending on the guy that is.  

I was recently entertaing an older gentleman who refered to making out as "necking"...I took this as a sign that maybe he doesn't come from an era where profanity was largely accepted.  

Problem is....when I'm getting rammed it's really hard to control what comes out of my mouth.. In an attempt to hold back a forceful "fuck!!!", I panicked and screamed out "fudge!!" instead... I wanted to die of embarrassment!  
Do older men care if a girl yells profanity during sex?

As long as you don't scream "Fudge me!" :D



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I might as well have! He actually stopped, looked at me in the eyes and said, "what?"

I'm offended by anything worse than "nutty-fudgkins"

8o)

I'm practically the exact opposite, I very rarely use "foul language" even when I'm just hanging with friends. I'm a southern belle through and through lol. But a soft, breathy "fuck... that feels so good" isn't uncommon in the heat of the moment for me. I don't think it's ever been an issue for my companion, no matter the age, or gender.

Matter of fact, a good tirade of "fuck me harder" during a session gets me going.  I'm guessing the clients who take issue with it, are the same guys who don't like ink.

You just need to learn a few curses from ye Olde days.  ;-)

1. Beardsplitter
A Victorian word for “penis.”

2. Bedswerver
A British slang word for “cheater,” invented by William Shakespeare himself.

3. Gadzooks!
A variant of “God’s hooks,” this old curse dates back as far as the 17th century, even though it sounds like it was invented for a 1940’s Batman comic.

4. Gadsbudlikins!
Meaning: “God’s body.” Another way of saying it is “Odd’s Bodikins!”

5. Arfarfan’arf
A Victorian term for a drunkard.

6. Rantallion
A weirdly specific Victorian word meaning “one whose scrotum is longer than his penis.”

7. Zooterkins!
A 17th century variant of “zounds!”, which was an expression of surprise or indignation.

8. Zounderkite
A Victorian word for “idiot.”

9. Bescumber
A word from the early 20th century meaning “to spray poo upon.”

10. Gamahuche
A Victorian word for oral sex.

I love potty mouths!

Posted By: SavannahStJames
I'm a native New Yorker with a huge potty mouth...I admit it! during my dates I obviously curb my need to cuss like a sailor and I present myself as a "lady"..well depending on the guy that is.  
   
 I was recently entertaing an older gentleman who refered to making out as "necking"...I took this as a sign that maybe he doesn't come from an era where profanity was largely accepted.  
   
 Problem is....when I'm getting rammed it's really hard to control what comes out of my mouth.. In an attempt to hold back a forceful "fuck!!!", I panicked and screamed out "fudge!!" instead... I wanted to die of embarrassment!  
 Do older men care if a girl yells profanity during sex?

My opinion is that regardless of the age of the gentleman, the answer has more to do with context thank anything else.  

If your peppering just the mundane pillow talk with expletives, then you're more likely to be looked down upon, again regardless of the age of the man. Casual swearing just sounds worse coming from women. Sorry, it's true.  

If however you are using them in the heat of the moment, or instructing him to "fuck me harder" or saying "that feels so fucking good! Fuck yes!!!", then very few men will have a problem with that. In fact, it's a big turn on and passionate swearing sounds better coming from a woman than a man. Or it's at least sexier

Alan_Nimm373 reads

I'm an "older gentleman", and when a woman screams "FUCK!!!" In the moment, I take it as a sign she's enjoying herself.  

That being said, I'd rather that ladies not talk as if they were re-enacting a scene from "Scarface", that is, "fuck" every other word.

Gents in my age bracket generally do not care for folks who use curse words to express themselves.
-a sign of poor self-control
-poor upbringing
-bad vocabulary
-rude and insulting to your client
etc, etc

However, it's a sign of the times we live in.
-manners are all but vanished
-TV and cable use cursing all the time
-over the last several decades we have been dragged down to the lowest common
denominator of the English language

So, go ahead-swear away-it's "your time" after all and you are just
a sign of the times. Too bad.

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Feeling sorry for me because I'm such a derelict?

Tell me..is being an ambassador for the old, tiring?  
Because, if it is...I can name a few other things that girls from "my time" are good at, that would be sure to put a pep in your step!

No, I do not feel sorry for you; nor do I consider you a derelict.
You might be surprised at all the "things"  we ancient fellows have learned over the decades.
Some might put a pep in your step!
Thanks for adding a new word to my vocabulary-never heard "zonderkite" before-are you of German descent by chance?

Posted By: SavannahStJames
Feeling sorry for me because I'm such a derelict?  
   
 Tell me..is being an ambassador for the old, tiring?  
 Because, if it is...I can name a few other things that girls from "my time" are good at, that would be sure to put a pep in your step!!  
   
   
   
 

I'm 50...for me the dirtier the talk the better...it goes both ways...

7th decade-country today bears no resemblance to that I grew up in.

Posted By: jelloman42
I'm 50...for me the dirtier the talk the better...it goes both ways...

But I'd say 60s to 80? Anything above 80 and I'm assuming ya'll are just happy to hear anything 👴

You  assume wrong. I don't care at what comes out or her mouth if my dick goes into it her mouth and she allows CIM. I'm 83.

Posted By: SavannahStJames
But I'd say 60s to 80? Anything above 80 and I'm assuming ya'll are just happy to hear anything 👴

What's the point of a BBBJ without CIM??? Although I have developed a strange fetish of kneeling down on the floor and catching it in my mouth rather than sucking it out... Been watching a lot of porn lately.  

83? Maybe I spoke too soon; sounds like you're still in your prime!! 😝

*blink*blink*blink*

Posted By: SavannahStJames
What's the point of a BBBJ without CIM??? Although I have developed a strange fetish of kneeling down on the floor and catching it in my mouth rather than sucking it out... Been watching a lot of porn lately.

You know what else is cool? Letting the cum flow out of your mouth as you continue to suck well after he's done.

Also, facials, and asking him to cum on your face right before he cums. Oh hell, now I'm going to have to rub one out.

FatVern363 reads

What could a 80yr old man do to cause you to curse?

That's not nice! And plenty! But this did make me laugh, thank you.

I don't really know about older men, but I love verbal stimulation.  (It is like the old French joke about the two upper class Brits making love. He asks: "Did I just hurt you darling?"; She answers "No why dear" and he says, "Because I thought you moved a bit back there and even made a sound")  
I think the only kind of "older" men who would not be excited by what you call your  "potty mouth" are those who have lost their hearing.

I'm over sixty and enjoy the verbal part as long as it's not overdone ;-)

No Problem, let her fly !

"lady like" for any generation BUT there are always exceptions.

A potty mouth during sex is fucking hot!

Posted By: SavannahStJames
I'm a native New Yorker with a huge potty mouth...I admit it! during my dates I obviously curb my need to cuss like a sailor and I present myself as a "lady"..well depending on the guy that is.  
   
 I was recently entertaing an older gentleman who refered to making out as "necking"...I took this as a sign that maybe he doesn't come from an era where profanity was largely accepted.  
   
 Problem is....when I'm getting rammed it's really hard to control what comes out of my mouth.. In an attempt to hold back a forceful "fuck!!!", I panicked and screamed out "fudge!!" instead... I wanted to die of embarrassment!  
 Do older men care if a girl yells profanity during sex?

when I'm by myself. Around other people, I'm careful not to swear. I don't like it when men or women swear, as I just think it's a sign of a limited vocabulary and disrespect for others.

Having said that, all thatl changes during sex. I like dirty talk.

GaGambler357 reads

Until I became active on these boards, I never realized what a bunch of uptight, old fashioned, narrow minded, fuddy duddies frequented hookers. I really expected a group of freewheeling, party animals, but what I found was anything but, with a handful of exceptions of course.

It doesn't surprise me a bit that some of the mainly old guys, but young guys as well, would look down on a hooker for having a potty mouth.  

Of course if a woman constantly swears like a drunken sailor she will come across as rather low class and I doubt she will be invited on many "outside" dates.

FatVern382 reads

I don't think people especially ladies  need to curse during every conversation, cursing during sex is fine, as long as it's more of a natural reaction versus a line that you've rehearsed.

Having a potty mouth is fine, as long as you don't take offense when I ask if I can piss in your potty mouth.

we prefer our women to be ladies in the parlor and tramps in the bedroom....so during sex, let it fly!

and BTW u r fucking HOT!!!

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go overboard with trying to use every naughty word in their vocabulary. I agree with others in that verbal stimulation can add to the experience.

...language matches with what comes out of your mouth, I'm all good! lol

An awful faker can be a boner killer. Don't be like one of those. :-)

When she is shouting "Fuck my pussy!!!" and yelling stuff like that so the neighbors can hear it, there will be no arguments about that from me.

Of course, all of this will be going in my report.

YES because OH GOD, FORNICATE ME!! Just doesn't sound right LOL

Posted By: SavannahStJames
I'm a native New Yorker with a huge potty mouth...I admit it! during my dates I obviously curb my need to cuss like a sailor and I present myself as a "lady"..well depending on the guy that is.  
   
 I was recently entertaing an older gentleman who refered to making out as "necking"...I took this as a sign that maybe he doesn't come from an era where profanity was largely accepted.  
   
 Problem is....when I'm getting rammed it's really hard to control what comes out of my mouth.. In an attempt to hold back a forceful "fuck!!!", I panicked and screamed out "fudge!!" instead... I wanted to die of embarrassment!  
 Do older men care if a girl yells profanity during sex?

I love a challenge, so I'll try it out and see if I can pull it off.. I love seeing what this smile can get away with 😇😇 Hey!! It's a sport for us too!

Penis

Vagina

Suck my Penis, or fuck my Vagina, hell no, sounds way too clinical.

Suck my cock, bitch. Or fuck my pussy, motherfucker. That works, for me anyway. Damn good thing we are all different.

Ha! You think you get away with shit!?♿️
Go for it!

Posted By: SavannahStJames
I love a challenge, so I'll try it out and see if I can pull it off.. I love seeing what this smile can get away with 😇😇 Hey!! It's a sport for us too!

Are you calling me handicapped with that emoji? Saying that the only sports I play are the special Ed kind?!  
Ha!! Please stop being so jaded and allow someone to charm you.. Who knows..you might even blush

Posted By: DURHAMDREW63
Ha! You think you get away with shit!?♿️  
 Go for it!  
   
Posted By: SavannahStJames
I love a challenge, so I'll try it out and see if I can pull it off.. I love seeing what this smile can get away with 😇😇 Hey!! It's a sport for us too!

I always ask a lady if she's cool with me dirty talking, and that it's just fantasy and nothing is meant, and then I suggest to her that she should feel free to dirty talk as well, the dirtier, nastier the better.  

One lady I was with, was especially good at it, she called me all kinds of things such as "you sick fuck", stuff like that. It was much fun, and it provides for a little something to laugh about during the down time. And oh by the way, yes I am a sick fuck, you know what they say "if the shoe fits, wear it".

Bottom line is, I don't take myself all that seriously to be offended by such things.

I think that age is less of a factor here than how conservative, traditional, or old-school the guy seems - although many older guys may of course have more traditional views when it comes to things like a woman's use of four-letter words. For example, I am in my mid-30s and slightly more old-school than most in my generation. My personal view is that four-letter words are hot in the midst of or when discussing a sex act (especially in Spanish) and OK if a lady uses them in moderation and in a relevant context during other conversation, but a pervasive potty mouth on a woman could be a turn-off.  

My suggestion would be to assess the individual guy based on a variety of factors, including what he seems to want from you, and try to adapt to what he wants, within reasonable limits. Is the 60 year-old client looking for an almost PSE-like experience from you? He might actually want a potty mouth. Is the guy in his 30s looking for GFE? A potty mouth might be a turn-off for him.  

Also - how do you want to present and market yourself? Do you want to be known as a nice GFE girl, a naughty PSE girl, or something in between?

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