Especially the stars/flagship girls of the agency. And I wont be surprised that the girl can just ask the booker about who and who and get info. Sort of like a star employee of the office, its natural they get very tight with the boss. These girls won't do much with it though, very mature and professional.
If you have an ATF but you want to see another girl thru the same booker as your ATF,will the booker tell your ATF about it?
The lady he is talking about is undoubtedly the one woman he has reviewed who is an agency K girl.
Yes, the booker may very well share the fact that he is seeing other women, but the chances of her caring are almost nil. First off I can understand why the OP is enamored with her, she is a cutie, but what he fails to realize is that she is most likely seeing 20-30 different guys or more in between his less than weekly visits. If he were so special to her, he would have her private number and wouldn't have to go through the booker, but that hardly seems to be the case here.
If the guy really wants to hold onto his fantasy that she would give two shits about him "cheating" on her there are loads of K girls working in the LA area, he can simply go to a different agency, but then he will most likely just fall in love with the next really good actress he meets.
In short, you just can't fix stupid.
and I doubt seriously that you are important enough for the booker or the hooker to even care.
That said, the booking agent is not going to hide the fact that you have booked with other women if asked, but just what makes you think you are important enough to your ATF for her to be asking about you in the first place?
I really think you should take these questions to the Newbie Board, you are very lucky it's an extremely slow day or your ass would be getting flamed for these dumb assed questions.
So far people have been tolerant with you, but wait until the drunk crowd comes rolling in, they will light your ass up if you keep these dumb questions coming.
I can see it coming, he's going to get roasted.
It is not a dumb question,if your like your ATF,you do not want her to know that you see another girl because you can piss her off and there goes you ATF.As the time goes by while your are seen another girl and not your ATF,she will notice that and she could ask her booker if in fact you are seen another girl and is possible that the booker could tell her,think about that!!!
She's your ATF you are not her ATF.
That happens... doesn't it?
They do not want you falling for them. They need you to keep this in prospective. This isn't an SO arrangement. They don't care if you see other sex workers as a rule and if she does RUN. Nothing good will come of it. So I ask again who cares if a favorite sex workers finds out that your doing others? They assume that you are seeing others, trust me, and many are hoping you are seeing others as fixated clients are not good.
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when somebody i really liked and connected with on emotional level asks me for references to see another providers or reviewed somebody else since he saw me....i do give out references since it is to make the hobby safer for everybody, but i cannot help the way i feel...i am still human and have emotions...i am not a just a plastic doll with holes, sometimes i wish i could completely isolate emotions and work, makes life much easier
#justbeinghonest
Honest answer. For mongers who start to get attached, the common advice is, to see other providers because no good will come out of falling for your provider.
But in the end you do realize it is best he sees others right? Of course you ladies aren't sex bots and emotions happen. I am not a robot ether and I care about some of the ladies I have seen but I realize it is in both my and their best interest that we both see others. And tell me do you want guys to become romantically and emotionally attached? And in the cases you do feel a bit jealous doesn't his seeing others help keep the lines in place for you? And you admit you even help them see others by giving references even with feelings. I didn't mean to imply that the ladies don't have feelings about things just that the vast majority get it and even with feelings know it is for the best. Do you agree with that?
i do not agree 100%...i dated a client before and even though we did not last in a long run, we both have learnt a lot from that relationship and experienced a lot of real emotions and feelings, and that was priceless...not having feelings or attachments makes things easier, but often it is hard to put clear-cut labels on relationships...
But when they do they aren't a client/provider relationship anymore. I am very close friends with a few ladies I met this way. But the relationship is a friendship with paid benefits more than client/provider one. Another has turn platonic real friends and boss/personal assistant type and the client/provider relationship is dead. I was speaking of strictly client/provider relationships.
And I know a real relationship is possible with a sex worker, after all I am married to one and I am close friends to a sex worker and her SO of 16 years. He met her this way, but it is clear or needs to be clear when this evolve. And when it does it isn't a client/provider relationship and client/provider rules don't apply.
yes, when i started dating my client , it was not client/provider relationship any more even though we both got benefits, and it can never go back to the way it was...so ladies who are only interested in getting paid per hour, it is a not a chance they would want to take....if i did not date him , he would probably still see me every other week till now and i would have safe stream of income, but i have no regrets...it was real relationship and it was beautiful... we are amazing friends now , that is priceless and something money cannot always buy...
And I know a real relationship is possible with a sex worker, after all I am married to one and I am close friends to a sex worker and her SO of 16 years. He met her this way, but it is clear or needs to be clear when this evolve. And when it does it isn't a client/provider relationship and client/provider rules don't apply.
bookers just fucking love drama..so do you..
They don't usually do that, at least I don't think they do.
Why would the othet girl care, I'm someone will come along to fill your time slot.
They will keep your secret!
Just ask them please not to say anything.
That has always worked for me and my ATF think she's the only one I see.
Thank Goodness.
Do yourself a favor and stop seeing your ATF. You are clearly fixated on her and it won't end well. Dude she fucks you because you pay her NOT because she likes you.
I was fixated with my most recent ATF, fixated to a point I never aked her to run away with, or even asked her out on a date, as I assumed she wouldn't be interest in dating a client. I think I saw her all of about ten times in a four month span. Any way, she sure performed with enthusiasm.
Clearly not the same thing
Also he only has one review. How many do you have even with all your other handles?
why money and liking somebody have to be mutually exclusive? providers are human too and have feelings as well...while the chances are for her it is a just business transaction, does not mean she cannot develop emotional attachment to somebody...
while you had my back in a lot of recent discussions, i cannot back you up on this one 100%....sorry
The chances of her having any actual feelings for him are almost nil. Just read her reviews, she is just very good at what she does, and the OP is new and dumb. This woman is so popular she has a waiting list to go see her, she doesn't have the time or the inclination to even miss him if he doesn't show up for a couple of weeks, much less ask her booking agent if he's been seeing other girls.
Don't get me wrong, even high volume K girls can get attached or even fall in love with a client. I've had a couple as real GF's so I know from first hand experience, but I can tell you with absolute certainty this is not the case here. This is simply a case of a newbie being enamored by a hot woman with great acting skills, who knows how to make every man feel special.
Rule of thumb about Asian agency girls, if they really do like you, your first hint will be when they give your their private number, until then you are nothing more than a client.
i did not know the details of this particular case...but from what you describe, it all makes sense...now i do agree with you
Depends on the booker.
I personally never reveal that info, it only causes problems, stirs the pot and the bottom line is that information is confidential and private. I place a high value on privacy and discretion. Customer satisfaction is number one.
Bombshell
Especially the stars/flagship girls of the agency. And I wont be surprised that the girl can just ask the booker about who and who and get info. Sort of like a star employee of the office, its natural they get very tight with the boss. These girls won't do much with it though, very mature and professional.
When you want to see a new provider, who are you going to ask to be a reference? For me, I know that an ATF will give me an excellent reference. And she has been especially glad to give a reference for me to her friends or doubles partners.
Your ATF in is this business precisely because this is a business, not because she wants to meet nice guys who are prospective boyfriends. And just as she is seeing other clients, she will assume that you are seeing other providers.
If you have trouble accepting this, then you are playing the wrong game.
In fact, giving a reference for a great client is gold. He is safe, the hooker he is seeing will be safe and the guy appreciates the thumbs up. I love giving references.
Probably not, but it depends on the relationship your ATF has with her booker.
Women in the industry do gossip about clients. What else do they have to do all day?
But, if you ATF does find out, why should she care? Clients come and go...that applies even to the most infatuated regular. Actually...it applies ESPECIALLY to the most infatuated regular. It's just a fact of the business that guys either 1) Are like kids in a candy shop...they will eventually want to try a new flavor, or 2) Will realize that his fantasy of happily ever after, or even massive OTC and free sex, will never come true, and thus lose his bounding enthusiasm. Such is the hobby.
If she's any good, the gap made by your absence will hardly matter. She'll have other clients to fill it in.
Even if she really likes you, she probably won't grieve for you beyond, 'Gee, I haven't seen what's-his-name for ages...I wonder if he got married/found a new provider/died? Oh, well.'
And, as other posters have said...good providers WANT their clients to have a realistic attitude about the hobbying experience. They do not want their clients to fall in love. That is an invitation for trouble down the road. In addition, it can be stressful for her to deal with as, she simultaneously has to keep you interested and remain on guard (if you take it to the point of no return, she loses your money).
attached easier than men.
The issue of emotional attachment by hobbyists comes up all too often on these boards.
Women in the industry do gossip about clients. What else do they have to do all day?
But, if you ATF does find out, why should she care? Clients come and go...that applies even to the most infatuated regular. Actually...it applies ESPECIALLY to the most infatuated regular. It's just a fact of the business that guys either 1) Are like kids in a candy shop...they will eventually want to try a new flavor, or 2) Will realize that his fantasy of happily ever after, or even massive OTC and free sex, will never come true, and thus lose his bounding enthusiasm. Such is the hobby.
If she's any good, the gap made by your absence will hardly matter. She'll have other clients to fill it in.
Even if she really likes you, she probably won't grieve for you beyond, 'Gee, I haven't seen what's-his-name for ages...I wonder if he got married/found a new provider/died? Oh, well.'
And, as other posters have said...good providers WANT their clients to have a realistic attitude about the hobbying experience. They do not want their clients to fall in love. That is an invitation for trouble down the road. In addition, it can be stressful for her to deal with as, she simultaneously has to keep you interested and remain on guard (if you take it to the point of no return, she loses your money).
... she would have already made recommendations, in case of scheduling conflicts or if she is otherwise indisposed.