Pretty common for clients to want to give their provider a massage (and for them to believe they are exceptional at it... Hell I know I am). Also is just another way of giving pleasure which many find pleasurable themselves. Expecting a new lady to give free time for the massage probably not reasonable unless you are a regular and even then it's probably coming from your overall "bank" of gifts.
Maybe if you really were a CMT for work and negotiated a trade of sorts but we both know this is just another way you get off. She will understand this too. Good luck regardless.
I enjoy giving a sensual massage to an appreciative woman. I have this gift of touch but rarely get a chance to use it. I have had a chance to massage a few select providers and they said I could be a very profitable professional masseuse. I don't care to trade talents, but would a real massage for free and would pay depending on the nature of the appointment. I know this is a strange question because everyone loves a massage but it takes trust that I am only interested in giving an incredible massage. My question is, are proders interested in just receiving a massage? PM me if interested and I am sure I can provide a reference.
you can play jacks with them if you wanted to..
Yeah I must of been tired when I put that question out there. I tried to delete it but couldn't. It is a dumb question. Of course they are like massages.
Actually it's a great question that provides an excellent opportunity for providers to chime in that might really enjoy that type of mutual interaction. However, the responses on this board become more and more confrontational as time goes on. The person that responded to your question is a good example. It was a useless response that brought no value to your question, called into question your intelligence on why you would ask such a stupid question, and virtually sabotaged any provider who wants to respond since it will come across simply as an "it's all about the money" response.
Sure the ladies are here to make money and for many this is their livelihood but just like any job, some are fulfilling and some are shitty. I think many of the woman we review on TER sincerely enjoy their work, not all, but many.
It's too bad this board trends to go in such an uncivil route now. It was not always like this. I'm using an Alias now but I've been using TER since 2000.
I guess my response is technically a self-fulfilling prophecy because not only have I hijacked this thread but I'm calling into question someone's response on this board. I think as the internet has evolved the way we communicate on it has devolved and it seems like culturally it's ok to act a way online that we would never act in person.
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Thank you for the response. I can say from the experiences and the woman I have seen there are some who are all about the money, and thanks to TER I don't have to come in contact with them any more 
Then there are those who are really into the sessions and are doing this as their "Hobby" as well, and probably many up and down that spectrum.
I would say that my question was not thought out very well and did not lend itself to get a reaction from some of the providers who would otherwise respond. It was a thought that I had after seeing one of the wonderful woman from TER.
She really enjoyed the massage I gave, not necessarily in a sexual way but in a "wow you have great hands way". I love doing it and even love giving a no kidding professional massage. So what I was trying to say was, Do the providers feel a little strange to have someone take over the session with a massage? I guess in a sensual dominate way. I provide them pleasure but don't expect it in return.
It is a struggle for me though to... Would I actually pay the escort fee of the type of woman that I like to see mid to higher end, to give them a massage? I think I would but would also ask if they would want a professional (no extra) massage at no cost. I am sure it would take someone to really like my massage and have some trust over time.
Again, thanks for the comment. I was not bugged by the other reply, except the assumption that is all about money. I disagree with his statement on that one.
I have one of my clients who provides Tantric massage when I travel to Hawaii. He books 3 to 4 hours, and the whole time he works on me. It's "his thing"..... I never do anything for him- not even kiss. It's just what he likes to do. And the way he likes to do it. Do I love it? OF COURSE! His wife died a few years ago, and he just loves to touch a woman and give her pleasure
Thank you for the response. Yeah it is kinda my thing too. It may sound strange but I actually get more out of giving a massage than I would out out of sex. It is mental for me. Makes me believe that I am not just some guy, that they will actually remember me
The Chihuahua acts real brave when it can hide behind its owner or sit in the owners lap. But usually that's the only time.
Some people are owned by their computer screens perhaps.
North Korea is another good example of the Chihuahua syndrome.
and I thought those buggie eyes and long ears were a scary combo.
lighten up!!!
Do you realize this IS a discussion board where topics range from the utterly ridiculous to the very thought provoking? Admittedly, I am a bit disgusted by the Neanderthals that regularly prowl on the General Board. The cursing, name-calling, and trolls that live on that board are too much. A selected few of them even seem to have the mindset of prison inmates. ( In college, I tutored inmates housed at CYA).
Now, I wasn't intentionally trying to hurt anyone's feelings or upset the natural Karma of this board. You, on the other hand, are trying to be highbrowed and ultra-sensitive by calling into question my intent. Touche! How can I question anyone's intelligence? For all we know, he may hold Doctorate degrees in a wide variety of subjects.
I'm big enough to apologize if someone was hurt, but, I really don't think he was!
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No worries here. I did not take it as a dig. I just thought you were just being funny yet giving your opinion. All good. I am sure you have found woman who were not just about the money too.
Hey at least you got some movement on my post ;-
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Excellent point, but I have had some CMT that really jacked me up and not in a good way. I do have some background in the correct way to give a massage and have given many. I was an athlete in college and still do joint manipulation sports, which you can imagine require some time getting the muscles flushed of built up tension. Yes, if you are just pushing the lactic acid up and around without a clue as to what you are doing, you can cause bruising, build up toxins, and causing tension of muscles that may pull joints and ligaments out of alignment, or just simple inflammation that could cause some nerve pain.
The biggest cause of post massage problems is not due to CMT or non CMT, it is that the one being massaged does not drink fluids after to help move the lactic acid out of the body.
Thanks for the comment Naomi! I am sure there are many who would agree with you. Would you let someone you are in a personal relationship give you a massage even if they were not CMT? Just wondering if it is more of a trust thing or literally a feeling that if you are not CMT you may hurt me.
Thanks again.
I have my own, personal, reasons but I highly recommend them! You don't need to be a CMT to give a good massage. If you just want to learn some basic Circulatory Massage maneuvers, you can find it on YouTube. If you want to take it to another level, there are several schools in the San Diego area that teach massage therapy. Many have 1 or 2 day workshops open to the public (though you will need to pay).
Risk of injury should be very low. I've seen my fair share of FBSM providers and would not trust 99% of them to do serious therapeutic work, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy receiving a relaxing rub-down.
Giving or receiving a nice light massage, whether it's shoulders, neck, legs, or feet can be a great form of intimacy.
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Pretty common for clients to want to give their provider a massage (and for them to believe they are exceptional at it... Hell I know I am). Also is just another way of giving pleasure which many find pleasurable themselves. Expecting a new lady to give free time for the massage probably not reasonable unless you are a regular and even then it's probably coming from your overall "bank" of gifts.
Maybe if you really were a CMT for work and negotiated a trade of sorts but we both know this is just another way you get off. She will understand this too. Good luck regardless.
As a Certified Masseuse, as well as a Courtesan, my joy is in the intimacy of
experiencing one's energy through gentle touch or more intense muscle manipulation.
Although, when the occasion arises to be on the receiving end during a session
it is always very welcomed