I haven't been in this hobby for very long but about half of my lady friends have shared this information in great detail. They also know my activities as do the important people in my family.
If you have an S.O. in your life?
Many ask me my "Status" so I return the question....
probably shouldn't but ....
I would prefer not to know you have a Civie Boyfriend or Husband.
Not sure why but even though performance remains the same, kind of takes away from the GFE.
Do you care?
Your thoughts if any?
Us escorts can have civilian girlfriends/wives, too, y'know 
I'm single and plan on staying that way for a long time, but the vast majority of other sex workers I know have partners. I do think it's something that should be kept on the DL unless specifically asked, because part of our service is providing a "fantasy," which often includes the notion of exclusivity, but I also see the provider perspective that we're fighting for our voices to be heard, our stories to be accurately told amid the vast misrepresentation of us in the media, and part of that is asserting that we're real people with real lives, who *gasp!* are capable of being in healthy, loving relationships while working.
Like everything else in life, and especially in this industry, there are no hard and fast rules for disclosing one's relationship status - or not.
It is interesting that when asked I would expect that most tell the truth about their status-especially as you see a provider or client more frequently. Just like any other supplier/buyer relationship.
...tell me about their wives /or gf's. I don't know if any of them are fibbing to try to appease me, but psychologically it can make for a more intimate encounter for me.
I do not want to know too many details about civie b/f's or husbands.. Bad enough I had one lady openly tell me about the 17 men in a day she screwed.. That was a date killer...
Speaking from an unfortunate past experience with a former 'client; i no longer divulge my personal status, or other intricate details.
The time spent together with is just about US during our encounter.
I welcome whatever my friend wants to share with me; but I do not ask-
Hope that helps a little
If I have seen a provider more than once or twice...forget it! I'm an open book! If the trust and connection is there I'll answer practically any question..
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that's fine with me. It doesn't take away from the "GFE" for me as I know that's something that exists only for the time I'm paying her to spend time with me. I actually prefer that providers I see have loving SOs. I think that helps keep her relationship with me completely professional.
I also don't mind if they talk about their SOs occasionally, as long as it's not something like, "You know, my SO is a LOT better with DATY than you are." My ATF for example has explained to me, and other clients, how her relationship with her SO has shaped her approach to her work as a provider.
If I do become aware that she has a SO, then I will move on. While I realize she is able to keep her private and professional lives separate, I personally find it awkward and uncomfortable to share private moments with a lady whose involved.
Guess you could say it's a Karma thing.
I just naturally converse about personal things with people I meet. I certainly don't mean anything by it in terms of interference, I am just always curious about the person I am with.
I find that providers I have met usually share....whether the information I am getting is accurate or not does not really matter.
I know a provider's entire life story (and she, mine) within an hour of our first meeting, and that includes getting the first pop over with.
I'm not saying that I'm necessarily glad this often happens, but I am flattered that the provider feels comfortable enough to share with me.
This circumstance has often brought about unforeseen results, both good and bad.
I patronize college girls and I just assume they all have bfs. At their age being attractive its almost impossible to not have one. A bf is like a free bodyguard, well you gotta pay him with the bangadaboom bangadapow every once in a while and keep him fed. When they tell me about their exes or current bfs i just think they are comfortable with me. If they are more experienced provider they will talk about exes if they are not they talk about current S.O.
I haven't been in this hobby for very long but about half of my lady friends have shared this information in great detail. They also know my activities as do the important people in my family.
ut sometimes it makes for interesting conversation.
It tends to be awfully predictable though. "I don't care what you do baby. I love you."
Fast forward a few months later and its "But I love you baby and can't stand the thought of you with other men."
I get a kick out if hearing about it all, but after a while it's just the same old soap opera. Certainly does'bt bother me though. I mean, obviously her personal life is her thing and I rather like the challenge of being more satisfying than the poor sucker who happens to be dating her that month. Gives me something to strive for.
Many ask me my "Status" so I return the question....
probably shouldn't but ....
I would prefer not to know you have a Civie Boyfriend or Husband.
Not sure why but even though performance remains the same, kind of takes away from the GFE.
Do you care?
Your thoughts if any?
I dont care to hear about your wifey or hot ex or other providers. Ive had men seriously get off on the talking of cheating. SO is hot but hasnt sucked him in 5 years. TMI. Happens