Up to 3 hours.
Over that, dates tend to be dinner dates, and so different rules apply. On an over night, 3 - 4 is a rule, but at my age, 2 - 3 is doing great. Running down the clock is declasseeHaving hobbied on and off for enough years now, you'd think I'd have a better sense of this...but then I'll have a meeting or two that makes me think, hmmmm...
Hobbyists and providers, do you feel there is an industry "standard" for number of pops or SOG during a meeting or appointment, like per hour or something like that? I know and appreciate that this is all about more than just numbers but it seems like there was an unspoken guideline previously of something like a minimum of one an hour...more if the man is up to it and the lady is willing.
I ask after having two 1.5 to 2 hr appointments in the past few months where the lady seemed intent on running the time out on either end with only one cup of coffee strategically placed squarely in the middle. I sort of thought it went without saying that if you wanted a quick one-and-done experience, you only book an hour, if you're looking for more all around (physical, social, interpersonal, etc.) then book more time.
I expect to receive some slings and arrows for reducing this just to a numbers game, which isn't my intent at all, but I think it's fair to say it's understanding there might be a little disappointment on the customer/client side of our world if one and done became the norm no matter how long you book.
Curious to hear/read what others have to say.
Up to 3 hours.
Over that, dates tend to be dinner dates, and so different rules apply.
On an over night, 3 - 4 is a rule, but at my age, 2 - 3 is doing great.
Running down the clock is declassee
thus they have no interest in keeping track of SOG. Makes things a lot simpler, and more fun. You can both feel free to cum as many (or as few) times as nature and the situation permits.
In my early hobby days 2 shots were regular. Now I'm lucky to finish once in the hour. But I enjoy every minute. It's the journey, not the destination that matters to me.
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The johns ability, how long he takes for the first one AND the hookers ability. Each hooker has her limits as well as the limits of the john. As far as I am concerned, each john is taken on a case by case basis to determine if he gets another attempt in the hour.
EXACTLY! Ability plays a key role here but also how " into eachother" both parties are. If the provider I'm with isn't too enthusiastic (hey, it's happened, for whatever reason) about things, then there's hardly a chance of two pops. I've been ion dates before where the 60 minutes is almost up and for whatever reason I haven't had my first pop yet. No big deal. I ask what her feeling are about a guy jerking off for her. Luckily in my experiences like this she smiles and says, "please do. You know IT better than I do...." She gets into it herself too.
So it all depends on a vast number of variables.
D.
I am shy and not a good conversationalists so I am usually gone within 45 minutes
of my 1 hr. Depending on my day, sometimes 20. LOL
I can get off twice in a 1 hour session, and I sorta kinda expect to.
I've had a lady get me off 3 times in 1 hour, the flow of the date took us to that point.
I also had a 3 hour date that I only got off once, although I was disappointed that she didn't ensure that I got a second pop, I did have a great time with an amazing woman. After reflecting on the date, I recognized the stalling techniques.
While I agree the connection during the down time is a large part of the experience, I felt like I should have gotten at least 2 pops, I could have easily done 4 pops in 3 hours. I take partial blame as I could have interrupted the conversation with a suggestion to get physical again.
From my experience, 2 pops for a 1 hour date and 1 - 2 more pops for 2 or 3 hour dates, if I can achieve those numbers and I can.
In my experience, I have encountered roughly three levels/tiers of service when it comes to "SOG per hour" policies, and the distinctions between them are partially a function of price range.
1) "One and done." These providers will give you only one cup in a one hour session. I don't know how they would extrapolate that policy to longer sessions, because I would knowingly never waste my time and money on such a meager level of service. Most of them will at least honor the full hour of time and provide some other kind of service after you pop (cuddling, massage, etc.), but some of them will give you the signal to leave after your one and only pop, regardless of how much time you have left.
2) Two pops per hour. This seems to be standard among providers who charge up to or less than $300hr in my major metropolitan area. In fact, some of these providers seem to equate "1 hour session" with "two pops" and will give you the cue to prepare to leave after your second pop, even if you still have a significant amount of time left on the clock. I have only encountered one $350 per hour provider who had a two pops per hour limit, which I have found to be unusual in that price range (and, IMHO, totally unacceptable at such a high rate).
3) Unlimited pops per hour. They will give you as many pops as you want and can manage. These providers usually start at $300-$350 per hour in my major metropolitan area. The only exception to that price floor that I have ever encountered is a $200 per hour BBW provider who gives three BBBJCIM pops per hour - her rates are probably lower because she is a BBW.
I am still relatively young, so 2 or 3 pops per hour is normal for me. I would normally consider only one pop per hour a disappointment and would never knowingly book a session with a "one and done" provider. Two pops per hour is my typical rate, especially if both rounds are CFS or CCBJ. I can usually do three per hour if at least one of those three rounds is BBBJ. I never do sessions longer than 1 hour, so I do not know how my rate would extrapolate into a longer session.
My personal record in a 1 hour session is four pops - all of them were BBBJ pops from a provider with a powerful oral fixation who must have been sucking my cock for 45-50 minutes of the whole hour and charged $300 per hour. I have also had two or three other providers in the $350-$400 per hour range try unsuccessfully for a fourth pop in a 1 hour session.