Personally, I don't see the point of a CBJ at all.
A BBBJ is great with the right provider, but if I had to choose, I'd pick a great kisser who is very responsive to DATY over BBBJ 3 times out of 4.
Quick question to the SD hobbyists, I was perusing the local SD talent and came across a young lady who gets reasonably high scores without offering a BJ of any kind, covered or not. Supposedly her rates will be going up, can someone explain to me why someone would attend such a session? For those of you that are married isn't this act the one thing your SO won't do? I feel like oral is a very integral part of this experience. The communities thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
I forgot to add that said provider was not a FBSM provider but is full service.
Personally, I don't see the point of a CBJ at all.
A BBBJ is great with the right provider, but if I had to choose, I'd pick a great kisser who is very responsive to DATY over BBBJ 3 times out of 4.
Rates are what they are. I'd guess she has a steady clientele and figures she can weed out those who don't fit her current business model. Wish her well and move on if she's not to your liking. There are plenty of options
For me, GFE begins and ends with great DFK, transitioning to BBBJ and DATY. A CBJ can only be a mood-killer. I would not consider a provider without BBBJ, DATY or DFK on her menu. I saw a girl once that was no DFK. The booker asked me if I liked her and I said yes but I would not repeat because no DFK. He called me a week later and said she will put it on the menu for me. After that, I became a regular and continued to see her for about a year until she moved back East.
What's on your "must have" menu is different than this providers clients. Some guys like Greek others don't. Some like to DFK , others don't. Impossible to figure out what makes guys tick. As far this providers rates going up, what difference does it make, you obviously won't be seeing her.
and started to read her reviews but did not read all of them.
Her first reviewer has not submitted another review since October 2015; that was his first one. It reads like a PR piece.
The other reviews I read were by experienced reviewers.
My thoughts:
1) She is very attractive; her seven reviewers gave her 9's and 10's for appearance. Some guys can afford to pay for good-looking young ladies even though their menus are limited.
2) Her statement that her 300 rate is increasing due to "high demand" may be "puffing" since she has only seven reviews since October.
Stay tuned to see how frequently she gets reviews at whatever her new "high-demand" rate is.
are interested in seeing her is to PM a couple of the reviewers and see if anybody got BBBJ. Maybe its on the menu once you are there if she feels comfortable. I have known a few that did not offer BBBJ to uncircumcised guys, so they wanted to check your package first before committing. They tell their customers not to put BBBJ in their reviews because its discretionary.
provider profiles are not always accurate and YMMV?
deftly read between the lines. . . . . . forcing me to elaborate. LOL
It is not politically correct to exclude a certain class of people, in my example, the uncircumcised, so many times there are discretionary services (including instances of DFK, DATY, BBFS, CIM, etc), that are not on the profile and not in the reviews, because the provider wants to make those decisions on a case by case basis. Obviously, if a guy shows up with putrid breath from gum disease, DFK and DATY may not be offered. Likewise, an uncircumcised guy who has not cleaned out the dick cheese from under his foreskin, may not get BBBJ when it is available to other men who are circumcised. Its all discretionary at the will of the provider. That's why you always show up freshly showered with every little crack and crevice cleaned.
some of us are a little slow sometimes.
Also good to know I should be washing away the smegma before requesting a BJ. I was apparently under the false impression that dousing myself with Axe was enough.
bring some crackers to go with the dick cheese.
But one that I would think would get few replies. When I receive off the menu or not listed services on the profile, I prefer to keep those activities between the provider and myself. I don't share those activities with anyone. I'm pretty sure the providers think those activities are between the two of us, and not to be shared.
I should have been more clear. I was only suggesting it with respect to the question of BBBJ, which is a pretty common activity. It would not be a good strategy for off-profile activities that are much more intimate. I agree with you that many things that happen between a provider and a unique customer should not be shared with others without the providers permission.