Sorry they censored it. My reaction: Schadenfreude.
Not fucking one month back into the hobby I book with a high end provider
who fucking looks like a girl that I have a gym-crush at my club.
Smoking HOT!!!!
Yes, Lexa, I work out and am amazing at DATY but I digress!
She shows up and OMFG It's HER!!!!!
Well, now what?
She recognizes me, probably due to my hot body and presumably amazing DATY skills and I ask if she would like to proceed? Date is amazing but now what do I do when I see her at the gym?
Your thoughts if any
Can't have a stinky cooch...can we?
Your thoughts, if any (Conan has reminded me that the comma needs to be in there)
who fucking looks like a girl that I have a gym-crush at my club.
Smoking HOT!!!!
Yes, Lexa, I work out and am amazing at DATY but I digress!
She shows up and OMFG It's HER!!!!!
Well, now what?
She recognizes me, probably due to my hot body and presumably amazing DATY skills and I ask if she would like to proceed? Date is amazing but now what do I do when I see her at the gym?
Your thoughts if any?
Just go with the flow. You both know so won't hurt to chat with her at the gym.
That depends. I'd let her take the lead. If she didn't "chat" with him before there is no reason to assume that it's OK to start chatting now because too much can go wrong. A look can be confused with a leer. Comments can be taken the wrong way. It's too easy to end up in the trick bag on this one.
I stand corrected, live and learn and if not sure listen to the veterans here. Now I've seen other points of view, I agree with saying nothing.
many times it has been said that when a john sees a hooker in public, an almost imperceptible nod or better yet nothing. You do not know who is around her, and she does not know who you are with.
Please be discreet and do not encroach on her personal time.
Plus I think OP is BS
And then say "remember me?" Feel free to remind her that you rented her in the past, but you'll do her for "free" the next time because you could tell she really digs you.
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You leave her alone, this is her gym time, and IF she wants to say hi, she will.
Believe me I had a gym stalker client who I dumped a few months ago because the fool did not understand that I wanted nothing to do with him other than when he [aid for my time. So, if you want to keep seeing her, my advice, for what it is worth is to let her alone at the gym and contact her when you want an appointment. Or she may not ever see you again.
Sorry they censored it. My reaction: Schadenfreude.
Talking is a classic tip off. Agents know and will pass it on. Throw them off by giving her a reverse peace sign, this worked for Putin in his early days.
have her play with your balls while you vault her during your floor exercises..
The slightest "nod" or nothing at all is best for client / provider encounters outside of the hobby setting. It can be really hot, having a secret... but any overt action could blow things up. Even too long a gaze, can be misinterpretted. If you see her again, you can laugh about it behind closed doors.
Definitely took advantage of the situ with a rather hot office/blackmail roleplay scenario...The aftermath was simply a smile and nod when crossing paths!
So I guess my advice is enjoy the dirty little secret. ;-
Your asking the wrong person. Ask the provider herself how she wants to handle the gym thing. Is that so hard? Some will be fine with you walking up and saying hi, others not so much.
Now here us the important part regardless of what she says, honor it. Outside of the time paid for she owes you nothing, not even an acknowledgement, respect that. Some ladies walk a very tight rope keeping her hobby life and real life separate and can't afford them to cross. While others are fully out and will have zero issue having a client say hi. Ether way respect her choice, if not you are a creep and a stalker. And don't pressure her or get you panties in a bind if she chooses not to acknowledge you. Some just can't risk it, and some just want to keep work and non work separate, respect it
you've written almost full sentences so your trolling skills are slipping?
But he still hasn't found the comma key.
Kidding of course, you do nada/nothing and keep your twitching tonque in your mouth when you see her.
To avoid her. You need to keep your gym activity separate from your hobby activity.
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If I was you, I'd find a new gym.
Keeping this side of our lives separate is very important
I don't think he knew it was the same girl until she showed up to his door. So that was an honest mistake. Of course now he has to deal with it. He has option. The best approach would be to ignore her. If he keeps booking her, eventually they will become friendlier at the gym once she warms up to him. That's my best guess.
Her friendliness might eventually be misinterpreted by him as she likes me, she really likes me and then shit will hit the fan.
I guess it would work if she set clear boundaries as in kept reminding him she is not wanting to date anyone and that he needs to keep his interaction with her minimal etc.
I think he is a wannbe author for Harlequin Novels or he is just telling us about his latest wet dream.
Thank you
50 = 5
You guys really have a short memory,
It sounds like every one of you actually believes this happened. If Bob Sugar had posted this, how many of you would have believed it? Well Asscalade is a MUCH bigger troll than even the rich and powerful Bob Sugar.
but let's keep playing along just for a second. The obvious answer is ask her when she is in hooker mode (ie, when you are paying for her time) how she feels about being friendly when in her "real" life. If it were me and I really did have a "gym crush" on a woman, I would have already chatted her up a long time ago and this would not even be an issue.
There are a few women at the gym I go to that I consider quite doable, I have had at least a few short conversations with every one of them. I haven't actually hit on any of them, but there is one cute Asian girl who looks to be early thirties who is quite friendly in return. hmmmm, you never know. and yes I know most women don't want to be hit on when they are trying to work out, I am just a friendly guy and have spoken to half the guys at one time or another as well.
Now come on folks, don't you feel just a little bit foolish taking a troll like Asscalade at his word?
It sounds like every one of you actually believes this happened. If Bob Sugar had posted this, how many of you would have believed it? Well Asscalade is a MUCH bigger troll than even the rich and powerful Bob Sugar.
but let's keep playing along just for a second. The obvious answer is ask her when she is in hooker mode (ie, when you are paying for her time) how she feels about being friendly when in her "real" life. If it were me and I really did have a "gym crush" on a woman, I would have already chatted her up a long time ago and this would not even be an issue.
There are a few women at the gym I go to that I consider quite doable, I have had at least a few short conversations with every one of them. I haven't actually hit on any of them, but there is one cute Asian girl who looks to be early thirties who is quite friendly in return. hmmmm, you never know. and yes I know most women don't want to be hit on when they are trying to work out, I am just a friendly guy and have spoken to half the guys at one time or another as well.
Now come on folks, don't you feel just a little bit foolish taking a troll like Asscalade at his word?
When talking about trolls, The conversaiton is not complete without of course Asscalade, but you have to include bbfs4ever, and bigguy30. now that is a threesome.
Thank you
50=
What ever happened to fatguy? He's been quiet since Sasha nailed him on the TS Board looking for something different.
I remember the gym I use to go to had that leg spreading machine directly in front of, and facing, the exercise bikes. I'd peddle past my 30 minutes when a hot girl got on, but I remember this old guy would jump on sometimes and I'd have to finish early. Nothing like seeing some dude's balls hanging out of his shorts to ruin a workout.
It is alright to do push ups but it not okay to push up. If you follow that, the hobbyist should be okay.
I guess it would work if she set clear boundaries as in kept reminding him she is not wanting to date anyone and that he needs to keep his interaction with her minimal etc.
I have few friends that happens to be sex workers that I happen to meet though this hobby. It works because out side of the time I pay for it is 100% platonic. If they wasn't it wouldn't work for me. If I wasn't it likely wouldn't work for them. It isn't something look for but friendship can happen, but everyone setting clear boundaries is vital.
Right! Sounds like a stalker nazi to me.
through your screening process? In the OP's case, I can see where the provider didn't know his name from the gym. Yes, there are many hot women at the gym I go to as well and I don't know any of their names.
But, the provider who had her ex-boss knock on her door as a client? Wow! [Unless she wanted to bed him]
And how many guys here go apeshit when they do?
Most providers are more than satisfied with P411, date-check, provider references, etc. Do you think those type of references will pull up a, "Caution, he's your ex-boss!!" Message?
But, the provider who had her ex-boss knock on her door as a client? Wow! [Unless she wanted to bed him]
hopefully he was married because she is asking for trouble with him knowing if he wasn't.
People just can't keep their mouth shut. i know someone who had to "retire" because of a similar situation.
And use a burner phone and a web based email. If his real name was given she would have figured it out during screening.
Why are so many Johns so paranoid? I just use my real first name, and if she's a repeat for me, the trust will build and she'll find out other things about me. I have nothing to hide (unless you're LE).
I I was a lady I wouldn't be alone with a guy that wouldn't give his full name. I just wouldn't.
I think you should go buy a nice ring, some flowers, stalk her and meet her at the door of the gym. Take a knee, confess your Love, hand her the ring and flowers and propose.
make sure you point out all you have in common...
I.E. You like to buy pussy and she likes to sell it, you both like to stay in shape and have even chosen the same exact facility to do so.
I truly believe this is a match made by the creator.
Good Luck
Oh wait, I bet you're being sarcastic now.
Am I right?
As always Mr. Fisher, you have seen straight through me.
Respect the lady you are referring to, respect the indelible line, respect this wonderful life which we enjoy. Have fun when you are with a lady, but remember you are renting a block of time, and when that time is over, it's over, plain and simple.
I've never been so fortunate to see a provider that I've seen, outside of a session, walking around in real life. But I did pass by a well known, well reviewed provider in a hotel lobby once. The key to that is I passed her by, our paths crossed, she noticed me looking at her, and she smiled. I'm not sure if the smile was a realization that I knew who she was, or if she was smiling because she gets looked at by men all the time, being that she's so hot. Bottom line is, I didn't confront her, draw undue attention to her, I looked, smiled and kept walking.
Perhaps you can show this woman exactly how mature you are, and not have any unecessary contact with her while you are at a public setting such as your gym, I suspect you'll be well rewarded by her during your next session. This life is fantasy, a wonderful fantasy, but fantasy none the less.
sure do and the guy she was with said to her lets get out of here. 
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The most recent was just a few days ago in the grocery store, we literally almost walked right into each other. We stopped, chatted for a few minutes and then went our separate ways.
and before anyone gives me shit for not ignoring her, I used to date one of her best friends, have been to her house and have been calling her by her real name for quite some time now, so there was none of the awkwardness that would have come from bumping into a hooker who I only knew by having a session with.
doing the right thing? I see no reason to add whatever just because he did what is expected and left her alone.
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I agree the right thing is to leave her alone. As you said earlier we are not assured that she isn't with family, friends or others that don't know of this part of her life and visa versa
I would just ignore her. very easy to do at a gym.
There's nothing better to top off a workout than a session right after the gym
Do not get caught in an idea that because you coincide outside of the hobby there is some sort of relationship, there is not, so act like you have been there, smile politely and keep cool, no flirting; unless she initiates bu pay attention that you are not misrepresenting it