Good morning TER readers,
I told you guys I was new at this. lol. I woke up this morning sat down with my cup of coffee and thought I would make a few comments on some of the comments that were posted on my "much deceased" topic to both gentleman and providers...but apparently it was considered a "fishing ad"??
I have read a few other post and I guess me personally, because I am such an optimistic, positive person can't understand why people aren't more positive...regardless of any situation. But I guess when you do or say something positive and it's chopped down that only leaves for negativity. I blog on social media ... hardly ever, because people are so negative and I'm sure TER will not be any different. I didn't step into the adult entertainment industry for negativity of any kind. I stepped into the game to help fund my college... because like so many other women I have worked 2 jobs and gone to school full time and that leaves no time for family (and family comes first) always. But I guess it's ok tho right? the sun will still shine and I will keep it moving. So now I'm going to drink another cup of coffee and take my run on the beach. Enjoy your day everyone xoxo,
Brandi
positive and drama free than see a 10/10 who is surrounded by negativity. That's just me, though.
I told you guys I was new at this. lol. I woke up this morning sat down with my cup of coffee and thought I would make a few comments on some of the comments that were posted on my "much deceased" topic to both gentleman and providers...but apparently it was considered a "fishing ad"??
Ok so I didn't think that thanking anyone was promoting yourself, but apparently it is.
I have read a few other post and I guess me personally, because I am such an optimistic, positive person can't understand why people aren't more positive...regardless of any situation. But I guess when you do or say something positive and it's chopped down that only leaves for negativity.
I blog on social media ... hardly ever, because people are so negative and I'm sure TER will not be any different. I didn't step into the adult entertainment industry for negativity of any kind. I stepped into the game to help fund my college... because like so many other women I have worked 2 jobs and gone to school full time and that leaves no time for family (and family comes first) always.
But I guess it's ok tho right? the sun will still shine and I will keep it moving. So now I'm going to drink another cup of coffee and take my run on the beach. Enjoy your day everyone
xoxo,
Brandi
Yes, exactly.... and I would hope everyone feels like that. Personally I would see an 8/8 who is positive and drama free as well... Fortunately I'm with me everyday and I am a 10/10 and I'm both positive and drama free. That's just me though. Hey do you know any 8/8's that would see me? lol
Perfect Brandi. Nicely said. Thats why you should be a 12 or higher, and yes your positive attitude is both refreshing and sexy. It is one of those rarities I see both in the corporate world or even in this industry. Never change who you are. Hope to see you soon.
Good morning beautiful,
No matter who you are or where you are there will be people who want to "bring you down". They may literally have an axe to grind for some reason known only to them or they may have an innate need to just "gripe".
I could go into a lot of psychological thoughts but they aren't worth it. So go on. Have your cup of coffee, enjoy the run on a beautiful beach, free your mind from the negativity with the smell of saltwater, and I'll put that image of you running on the beach in my head to help get me through the day while traveling once again.
I can't wait to celebrate your happiness with you once I make it back into town
You have people who are jealous of your success and will do the most to upset you with little things like posting under an alias or reporting your posts.
Enjoy the run gorgeous.
And I love coffee and running on the beach
Do your thing, Beautiful!
xoxo
I don't see what the problem was to responding to that thread. You didn't start the thread.
Sorry that happened pretty lady.
xoxo,
Steph
No Step the post titled "Gentlemen & Providers". lol.
But it's fine. It's cool. I just starting posting anyway, and not too much bothers me anyway. But when I see or feel like positive things are chopped down it's upsetting, and besides I woke up, couldn't find it and hadn't yet drunk my coffee. So I was a like "what is this ..ish and why would they take it down?"
Prior to me writing that I had tried to post it but since I had never posted anything, I didn't realize they originally wouldn't post it because I kept putting my email in it. Hell, I didn't know...I mean if you look at the bottom when posting, there is a place for your URL. So I thought I had to put in my website. I tried like 4 separate times and finally contacted them asking why I couldn't post. Then they told me why. I mean it's not in the rules or at least I didn't see it anyway. They told me that was an ad. So I removed my email out of the little slot and resent it and waited for approval.
Now I feel like if someone is approving things prior to being posted, ok, I get it. I'm fine with that. But they approved it and then took it away stating it was sort of a "fishing ad". I looked for that in their rules and couldn't find it anywhere. So I realize I'm new, lol but whatever. Still don't know what I was fishing for. I was just thanking everyone. But again its cool.
Now if someone reported it as something bad, again its cool....its not that serious. lol
Just keep on being yourself and you will be just fine.
Btw, all you have to do is look up & you will see who had your
Thread removed. Watch your back with this one, she is sly
& crafty. Witch comes to mind.
That's a complete lie. And I don't know who did. Feel free to write TER and ask.
SMH, idiot.
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Don't sweat it all Ma'am. Being new is exciting but there also exists the opportunity for the more seasoned members to show their claws. It's a huge waste of time to get into a pissin' contest with those who have no patience for mistakes. Time is better spent without the hassle.
Actually I thought it was a really sweet and polite way to convey your appreciation and there was absolutely nothing wrong with it. But the dung flingers will always look for a target and since you are so pretty and popular you just made top of the target list. Just keep walking past the monkey exhibit and wear your plastic raincoat so that the dung washes off easy. If you're lucky they will miss and hit themselves in the face. It's been known to happen.
At times there are posts that are CLEARLY "threADs" that are allowed to stay up, and other times posts that aren't nearly as blatant get taken down. I have no idea whether it is because people report the posts that are eventually removed, or if the admins are just that inconsistent. Or maybe a combination of the two.
Nonetheless, welcome and enjoy yourself.
Don't worry too much about it. They are REALLY obvious about their jealousy and its sad. Just ignore them. Life goes on for the rest of us, and they will be still be sitting behind their keyboard bitter and catty, worrying about everyone else but themselves. If some people put more energy into their own business they wouldn't have the time or reasons to bother other people!
You rock Gabby, see ya later! 
You can please some of the people all of the time, all of the people some of the time but you cannot please all of the people all of the time.
TER boards are an epitome of this. So, don’t worry do your thing and don’t respond to dimwit posts
Never mud wrestle a pig, you both get muddy and the pig likes it. So how far do you run? More a walker and and bicyclist here.
Not to mention the pig will squeal on you every time!
Heck, I just wish your 10/10 positivity lived in Asheville...uh, no I guess I don't 'cause then I would always be broke because you are totally irresistible.