.. when your client is giving you daty?
1. Run your hands through his hair or hold his head (hot)
2. Elsewhere, eg hands by your side, hold the head board.
I suppose rubbing one's own breasts is something for porn stars only
I have only had a few civvies do 1.
Bahaha true.. Read the paper while drinking my morning coffee 
lol but in all seriousness grabbing head board of playing with my nipples...
Most of the time, I have had a provider caress my head, hair etc.
However, I have had a few of them caress their breasts, tweek their nipples, and so forth.
I have one in particular, with whom I seen over a period of over a year, who loved what I did, and how I did it, and We would take turns, caressing her breasts, ( she had Great natural 38 dd breasts ) stroking her legs, fingering her clit during the act, and then eventually, after 20 minutes to a half hour, she would have one O or many O's depending on how into it that she got.
Then, I have had a few, who grabbed my head, pull my hair, and grind into my face, and scream
things at me, while attempting to rip my ears off my head! and I got very concerned about if the
occupants of the room next door, or the occupants of the house next door, were going to call the LE, out of concern that a female was in distress ! LOL
And I'm definitely not a porn star! 
Steph xoxo
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3 (or 5). Playing with breasts
6. Lending a hand to my partner's oral ministrations at the Y
7. If the mood strikes, butt fingers.
I've heard that having arms restrained during DATY can be a turn on, so sometimes I do that by holding her wrists down on the bed if her arms are already alongside her body. Otherwise it's a mixed bag of hands on my head, etc. The other day a provider used her hands along with verbal instructions to guide my tongue to EXACTLY where she wanted it.
This might be a good place to ask the ladies: IS it a turn on to have your arms held during DATY... or maybe it would turn you off? I've never had any objection, but I've never asked, "Did you like having your arms restrained?"
I agree with hands held down. It is a huge turn on. Sometimes doing too many things with the hands is distracting. Doing nothing allows me to focus on what u r doing and the sensations u r creating.
she might cup her breasts or play with her nipples... if I have my hands on her legs or hips or supporting her butt, her hands might find mine. I don't recall a lady touching my head. She guides me by how she moves her hips (which is why I am supporting her butt, so she can)
friend's head closer into me there. I love this. Between 'gasms, I alternate between stroking his hair and face.
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I like how that sounds Sarah.
1. Run your hands through his hair or hold his head (hot)
2. Elsewhere, eg hands by your side, hold the head board.
I suppose rubbing one's own breasts is something for porn stars only
I have only had a few civvies do 1.
1. A lady who at the time was my ATF and she would sit only face and use her hands to massage my penis or use a small anal vibrator or anal beads on me
2. A lady who would sit on my face and use a vibrator while I DATY so she would have a wet and violent climax
3. A lady who would hold my head and move it and push it as she got more and more excited so i was always where she it was best for her
4.A domme who liked ny hands restrained behind my back and controlled my head and slapped me as she got more and more excited.
5. A sub lady who like to be restrained and spread eagled while I DATY and used an anal vibrator on her. She was therefore able to do nothing with her hands except strain against her straps
Hmm u have some good suggestions. I will have to add some to my bag of tricks.
Check FB, make a to do list for later, write a shopping list just to name a few. LOL.
I also use my hands to hold my legs as well.Who said that was only for porn stars?
I do that at times and I am certainly not a porn star.
I'm european and living for over 15 years in US and never ceases to amaze me that evertyhing here is predetermined and has a set of directions rather than let it be instinctive, common sense, logical, or not an issue, whatever happened to spontaneity and randomness?