Don't get too cheesy but just enough to break the ice without sounding like a total douche. One of the best experiences I ever had in hobby land after the customary greeting hug and kiss I said something like " you mind pinching me or something this is too good to be true must be a dream" that got the chit chat going and some laughs before all hell broke loose, in a good way.
A sense of humor will get you far
In the civilian world, when I meet a woman I'm interested in getting to know, as the conversation progresses I'll probably ask her where she's from, what she does for a living, was she ever married, does she have kids, where she went to school, etc., all the normal things that help to create a 3-dimensional person in my mind.
But with a new provider, it strikes me that a lot of these subjects are off limits, or at least might be. I've had a provider or two hesitate before answering "Are you originally from NC?"
My question, then, is what subjects are okay for breaking the ice, and which are too intrusive to ask a provider I'm meeting for the first time?
Hey AD,
Thats never been a problem for me, after all they're just beautiful ladies, normal people like you and I, nothing different....well maybe being the best girlfriend you ever met in your life but aside that...
them the same as you would a civie and they will decide for themselves if they want to answer your questions or not. Just remember that their answers may not always be the truth, so just enjoy the moment and have fun.
I always try a gentlemanly compliment on their appearance first, nothing slutty. Then based on their accent, try to guess where they are originally from. Or if they have something unusual in the room, ask them about that. The conversation will flow quickly and smoothly. The ladies will see to that. It's not at all a problem. Just be a gentleman and everything will be wonderful.
If we feel that we don't want to reply, we will politely do so.. Just keep the conversation simple, dynamic and entertaining..gentlemen ask me about my school, my nationality, my goals, my interests, I am happy to respond.
Similarly, I don't ask anything intrusive, just the necessary info to get to know you better..
Don't get too cheesy but just enough to break the ice without sounding like a total douche. One of the best experiences I ever had in hobby land after the customary greeting hug and kiss I said something like " you mind pinching me or something this is too good to be true must be a dream" that got the chit chat going and some laughs before all hell broke loose, in a good way.
A sense of humor will get you far
Such as: pop culture (TV, movies, books, music), current events, something funny/weird that happened recently, her clothes/style (compliments only), yourself, travel (aspirational and where you've been). That's just to break the ice. If you want to segue to the main event, you switch to sexy topics, such as asking her opinion on interesting sex articles/surveys you've read, or questions you may have about sex.
1) I feel safe with you, I don't think the cops will find me in here.
2) Are those implants, how much did they cost?
3)Do you take it in the a _ _?
4) Do you mind if I shoot up?
5) Is bareback good with you? etc etc etc... LOL
I hope these examples are as off the wall with everyone else???
Gentlemen just be yourself and get comfortable with the provider and before you know it you'll feel like old high school pals if your with the right woman. Integrity goes a long way, most people can tell a B.S.'er or someone that is full of themselves a mile away. Just let your hair down and have fun, that's the whole idea here gents