or not!
Here's the scenario: a provider receives two requests at exactly the same time, for dates at exactly the same day and time. She's seen both clients before so she knows they both check all the basic boxes: clean, safe, arrive on time with correct donation, leave on time with no hassle... in other words she has no problem seeing either of them again. They have tight schedules and she's traveling to a city she rarely visits, so she can see only one of them.
But... one client is sizzling hot - a 10/10 at least if clients were reviewed. Perfect face/body, as the provider defines perfection. Amazing skills - kissing, oral, everything else. Extremely well groomed, from hair to feet, including attire. (Unless this provider prefers someone with rough edges.) Beyond that, his/her personality is a 10 also - exactly what this provider hopes for in a play date. And if the provider has a favorite foreign accent, he/she's got that, too. 
The other client is a 5/5 - on a good day. Just really... meh. But... he/she always tips 25%. The 10/10 client brings the correct donation, nothing more.
Who gets the date?
And if it's Mr./Ms. Hottie... how much of a tip would it take to switch to Mr./Ms. Meh?
Posted By: Alan_Nimm
or not!
Here's the scenario: a provider receives two requests at exactly the same time, for dates at exactly the same day and time. She's seen both clients before so she knows they both check all the basic boxes: clean, safe, arrive on time with correct donation, leave on time with no hassle... in other words she has no problem seeing either of them again. They have tight schedules and she's traveling to a city she rarely visits, so she can see only one of them.
But... one client is sizzling hot - a 10/10 at least if clients were reviewed. Perfect face/body, as the provider defines perfection. Amazing skills - kissing, oral, everything else. Extremely well groomed, from hair to feet, including attire. (Unless this provider prefers someone with rough edges.) Beyond that, his/her personality is a 10 also - exactly what this provider hopes for in a play date. And if the provider has a favorite foreign accent, he/she's got that, too.
The other client is a 5/5 - on a good day. Just really... meh. But... he/she always tips 25%. The 10/10 client brings the correct donation, nothing more.
Who gets the date?
And if it's Mr./Ms. Hottie... how much of a tip would it take to switch to Mr./Ms. Meh?
I agree CASH is king no strings attached business..... See how many escorts would hang out without money..
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How long has it been since I've seen a client with whom I clicked so well? (Because looks really don't matter to me; it's all about chemistry in my book!) Where our personalities not only meshed but we truly had a sizzling hot time in bed?
If it's been weeks and weeks of "meh" clients.... yeah, I'll take the guy who knocks my socks off. 
If, on the other hand, I recently had just such a perfect encounter, then I'll probably go by the email/text time-stamp. Who actually sent the request first? If they were received at the exact same minute, I will literally toss a coin. The tipping does not factor in at all, as I've learned to NEVER count on that. Clients can & do decrease or cease their tipping at any time, without notice.
A little overshare: if I'm feeling lonely due to lots of touring, or otherwise vulnerable (one of my dogs died, kids not coming home for the holidays, favorite hairspray was discontinued lol, etc) then I'll absolutely pick the "meh" client.
I don't want to risk blurring the lines.
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Important observation—at the extreme, how many providers have pulled no-shows when the more desired one came along (Be it for money or pleasure of the company). Although, no-shows may usually occur with first-time meetings, it is still never a good way to do business.
Yet, since these are repeat customers, then it goes to the integrity of pecking order; first requests come first when there is a response from the provider to an agreed upon meeting. (Note: No one would know who sent the request first if there is no response from the provider, so that discretion is left up to her.)
Otherwise, if the first one was originally contacted, then gets canceled (last minute) to the desired client, then that first customer may not ever come back. If that canceled customer is worth keeping and you absolutely want to see the second that came along (It’s not a perfect world), offer a discount to the first at a future date. (It’s just an idea and many businesses operate to compensate for agreed goods or services not promised or delivered on time.) Certainly, on the flip-side, it has been discussed here on the board that providers get extra compensation when a client cancels last minute.
Overall, it will come down to how each provider values her clients.
If, on the other hand, I recently had just such a perfect encounter, then I'll probably go by the email/text time-stamp. Who actually sent the request first?
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25% isn't really that much, unless we're talking about a longer date. Tips are pretty rare in general so I probably wouldn't miss it.
I agree. People think that we don't wanna have fun as much as them 😊️.
When you take everything else away from the OP's question, it comes down to this simple question based on an average upscale providers rates. Would you take $400 for a fun date that can barely be considered work, or is an extra hundred bucks important enough to you to choose a date that can not be considered anything but work?
The same thing could be asked of people in many jobs. I often have multiple prospects for the same deal, and sometimes more than one says yes, and while I normally take the best offer because I am as mercenary as the next guy, but occasionally I take slightly less money simply because I like working with one person better than the other. I might not have sex for money, but that doesn't mean I am not a whore, but being a whore doesn't mean it's all about the money all the time. People with jobs can't pick and choose what they do each day, I would think one of the beauties of being a hooker (aside from fucking old fat guys of course) is having the freedom to pick and choose what and who you do each day.
Posted By: GaGambler
I might not have sex for money, but that doesn't mean I am not a whore.....
I think we should put that on a T-Shirt. Or maybe a hat? Coffee mug? IDK. But that's a really good one. :-P
But it gets even better:
Posted By: GaGambler
.........being a whore doesn't mean it's all about the money all the time.
Now THAT is one I'm gonna have to needlepoint onto a pillow for myself. And put it on the bed prior to each date. LMAO!
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I used to say that "hookers" are some of my favorite people, maybe it's not just hookers, but all types of whores that I like? lol
Any hooker posting saying she's going to take hot or personality over cash is either full of shit of will be one of those working in this business well being her useful lifetime. The years in the hobby can creep up in the blink of an eye. Make a boat load of cash and get out with some dignity left in you!
Posted By: GaGambler
When you take everything else away from the OP's question, it comes down to this simple question based on an average upscale providers rates. Would you take $400 for a fun date that can barely be considered work, or is an extra hundred bucks important enough to you to choose a date that can not be considered anything but work?
The same thing could be asked of people in many jobs. I often have multiple prospects for the same deal, and sometimes more than one says yes, and while I normally take the best offer because I am as mercenary as the next guy, but occasionally I take slightly less money simply because I like working with one person better than the other. I might not have sex for money, but that doesn't mean I am not a whore, but being a whore doesn't mean it's all about the money all the time. People with jobs can't pick and choose what they do each day, I would think one of the beauties of being a hooker (aside from fucking old fat guys of course) is having the freedom to pick and choose what and who you do each day.
Honestly whoever I click with best and enjoy more I probably would go with.of course there is other factors into play too.If both clients weren't a fantastic time particularly I would go with the high tipper over good looks no doubt.
Posted By: Alan_Nimm
or not!
Here's the scenario: a provider receives two requests at exactly the same time, for dates at exactly the same day and time. She's seen both clients before so she knows they both check all the basic boxes: clean, safe, arrive on time with correct donation, leave on time with no hassle... in other words she has no problem seeing either of them again. They have tight schedules and she's traveling to a city she rarely visits, so she can see only one of them.
But... one client is sizzling hot - a 10/10 at least if clients were reviewed. Perfect face/body, as the provider defines perfection. Amazing skills - kissing, oral, everything else. Extremely well groomed, from hair to feet, including attire. (Unless this provider prefers someone with rough edges.) Beyond that, his/her personality is a 10 also - exactly what this provider hopes for in a play date. And if the provider has a favorite foreign accent, he/she's got that, too.
The other client is a 5/5 - on a good day. Just really... meh. But... he/she always tips 25%. The 10/10 client brings the correct donation, nothing more.
Who gets the date?
And if it's Mr./Ms. Hottie... how much of a tip would it take to switch to Mr./Ms. Meh?
So the true question as you state is what premium would the 5/5 have to pay to bump the 10/10?
I also don't rank looks as top priority, but for this scenario, one is comparing a 10 chemistry & personality vs a 5 experience, so definitely the 10. The 10 in looks is only icing on the cake. While I personally consider the $ very important for boundary purposes, it isn't all about the $
You meant 5/10 and 10/10
First and foremost, I'd go for the guy I get along with best, regardless of looks and even money. True story.
Back when I still grandfathered people in, I'd take the old geezer regular (less pay) over the stud muffin simply because we got on better and I felt we were both benefiting from the relationship. You can call bullshit but I don't fib on my snatch, its all about chemistry for me.
they aren't mathematical formulas here. I meant Appearance Score / Performance Score, ala TER parlance. Since this is TER and not a math textbook.
However, when I ran the scenario through my head - replacing Mr. Hot with a client I really like and Mr. Meh with one who's so-so - I realized that I was wrong. I'd definitely see Mr. Hot.
That answer stays the same even if I need a bit of extra money. A tip is never guaranteed and I'd hate to turn down Mr. Hot for $100-300 that might never materialize
If the 'tip' we are talking about is in excess of $400-500, then maybe Mr. Meh would start to look a little bit better. If it's $1k or over, I'd definitely see Mr. Meh.
The more "attractive" the meh one gets. I guess in this case, beauty is int the size of the envelop.
it is just me since i like average joe looking guys much better than overgroomed metrosexuals that try too hard and act like provider should be paying them...they are also more work and want to go a few times during the session to prove they are better than average joe....
Posted By: Alan_Nimm
or not!
Here's the scenario: a provider receives two requests at exactly the same time, for dates at exactly the same day and time. She's seen both clients before so she knows they both check all the basic boxes: clean, safe, arrive on time with correct donation, leave on time with no hassle... in other words she has no problem seeing either of them again. They have tight schedules and she's traveling to a city she rarely visits, so she can see only one of them.
But... one client is sizzling hot - a 10/10 at least if clients were reviewed. Perfect face/body, as the provider defines perfection. Amazing skills - kissing, oral, everything else. Extremely well groomed, from hair to feet, including attire. (Unless this provider prefers someone with rough edges.) Beyond that, his/her personality is a 10 also - exactly what this provider hopes for in a play date. And if the provider has a favorite foreign accent, he/she's got that, too.
The other client is a 5/5 - on a good day. Just really... meh. But... he/she always tips 25%. The 10/10 client brings the correct donation, nothing more.
Who gets the date?
And if it's Mr./Ms. Hottie... how much of a tip would it take to switch to Mr./Ms. Meh?
Why even bother when one can already guess what the answers will be like? since 99% of the ladies are in this profession for 3 purposes: 1) money 2) money 3) money it fgures that most of them would choose tip over the intangibles.
Which leaves the 1% who are in this profession for 1) money 2) money 3) fun & excitement to choose Mr. Hottie
And a special thanks to all those who answered my question while considering the entire (admittedly contrived) scenario, not just part of it.
Some of you may have understood that I posed this question as the flip side of the question that us "hobbyists" ask ourselves all the time: facing limited time and (for most of us) limited funds, whom do we choose to see - a 10/10, at a given rate, or someone who's not close to 10/10 but available at a much lower rate. I gravitate towards the less-than-10/10 providers. I've only given one provider a 10/10... and she's deserving of that. But what's even better is that she's a 10/10/10, where the third 10 is for her personal attributes other than appearance... intelligence, charm, kindness, sense of humor, playfulness etc. That's the "10" that's most important to me. I've had some wonderful dates with providers who are 6-9 in Appearance, 6-9 in Performance, but 10s in what lies beneath the skin.
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I've never been hung up on tips or upcharges..my main priority is enjoying what I do for a living. Ive been to college..I have a lot of real world experience. Nothing trumps being able to love what you do for a living. If I had the choice of choosing one client over another...a tip would not be the deciding factor. I will always choose the person who makes me blush!
So to paraphrase...
You are asking women if they prefer a "fantastic" guy (whatever her "fantastic" is) for 100% of donation or a "meh" guy for 125% of donation.
I think it would be a no-brainer. Mr. Fantastic.
Especially if they might go for Mr. Fantastic outside of P4P while Mr. Meh would not stand a chance.
- edited to correct the last line
-- Modified on 11/14/2015 10:01:12 AM
Its really a loaded question, as it all depends entirely upon the individual provider, what her end game is, ( make money ) but then again, where is she at emotionally on that day, and at that time ?
Maybe, she would not see the hot guy, because as a provider already commented in this thread, she does not want to blur the lines.
So it all boils down to the individual, who is making the decision, or choice upon who's request am
I going to honor at this moment ?
LOL Life is about choices, and crap shoots, and taking risks. You win some, and you loose some, but Nobody ever Wins with every chance or choice they make.
How is that for misdirection of topic ? LOL I gotta go get a life, cause I am way to deep here. LOL
And how about if the really hot guy has the feelers out and has a plan B and C ?
What if the provider in question, accepts the hot guy over the so so guy, but the hot guy decides
that the provider is only so so, and has another Hot provider waiting to take his money ? LOL
Weill it does happen ya know.
Posted By: Alan_Nimm
or not!
Here's the scenario: a provider receives two requests at exactly the same time, for dates at exactly the same day and time. She's seen both clients before so she knows they both check all the basic boxes: clean, safe, arrive on time with correct donation, leave on time with no hassle... in other words she has no problem seeing either of them again. They have tight schedules and she's traveling to a city she rarely visits, so she can see only one of them.
But... one client is sizzling hot - a 10/10 at least if clients were reviewed. Perfect face/body, as the provider defines perfection. Amazing skills - kissing, oral, everything else. Extremely well groomed, from hair to feet, including attire. (Unless this provider prefers someone with rough edges.) Beyond that, his/her personality is a 10 also - exactly what this provider hopes for in a play date. And if the provider has a favorite foreign accent, he/she's got that, too.
The other client is a 5/5 - on a good day. Just really... meh. But... he/she always tips 25%. The 10/10 client brings the correct donation, nothing more.
Who gets the date?
And if it's Mr./Ms. Hottie... how much of a tip would it take to switch to Mr./Ms. Meh?
