and that's nothing compared to a buddy of mine who did 56 in a one week fuck fest. of course he was in his thirties at the time and my personal best was done in my late forties. It was the year that Vince Young led the Longhorns to victory over USC whenever that was. Maybe I was in my mid forties as this was close to ten years ago. The game has significance because I won enough on the game to pay for my entire ten day vacation/fuckfest.
So I've only had a few encounters but I realize I can usually only go for one pop which surprises me. I'm in my late 20s, but I've noticed that I can get it up again but just can't get another orgasm. I've only done hour long sessions though but some have still run a little longer.
Is this normal for my age as I figured it was something that usually happened to people higher in age. And secondly other than booking more time any advice on how to recover faster? If it's normal or more time is needed, do you think two hours is the way to go? I enjoy the conversation and the experience too other than just orgasms (provided the provider is good) but I feel like if I'm going to go with more time I want to make sure I get another pop out of the deal.
How is your overall health?
Do you smoke or drink to excess?
Are you eating healthily as opposed to eating fast food?
What is your daily water intake? It should be at least one quart and preferably two per day. Good hydration is essential to good sexual functioning.
If you are OK with the above, I think being checked out by a urologist is a good idea. Also two hours is the minimum time I like to spend with a gal.
I hope you find good answers
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Do you smoke or drink to excess?
Are you eating healthily as opposed to eating fast food?
What is your daily water intake? It should be at least one quart and preferably two per day. Good hydration is essential to good sexual functioning.
If you are OK with the above, I think being checked out by a urologist is a good idea. Also two hours is the minimum time I like to spend with a gal.
I hope you find good answers.
I have always needed a rather long recovery period between pops most of the time, even when I was your age.
Since your issue is getting a second pop, not getting up for a second round, my only advice is to do what us old dudes do. Make sure you are well hydrated, and try skin on skin contact, either a BBBJ or HJ will often times create the extra friction you need to cum again.
Other than that, if cumming a second time is really that important to you, try 90 minute or 2 hour sessions. After a few more times you will figure out for yourself how long you need to get your second pop.
On the bright side, even a "One and done" guy like me has had a LOT of days where I have seen 4 or more different women on the same day, I used to just space them four or five hours apart and I was a happy camper. So it's whatever works for you.
I am overall pretty healthy. I exercise regularly, get plenty of sleep, don't smoke or drink, diet could be better though. I drink almost only water.
I think if I rolled for the two hour session I'd definitely be able to get another out. I might try to go pure HJ/BJ next time as usually I still go for just standard sex again after. My thing about the two hour thing is that I feel I'd have to go for less encounters or go broke.
Four different sessions? Dude that sounds like a full work day haha! I should try that one day though of my life. This hobby really makes me wish I one day hit the lottery.
and that's nothing compared to a buddy of mine who did 56 in a one week fuck fest. of course he was in his thirties at the time and my personal best was done in my late forties. It was the year that Vince Young led the Longhorns to victory over USC whenever that was. Maybe I was in my mid forties as this was close to ten years ago. The game has significance because I won enough on the game to pay for my entire ten day vacation/fuckfest.
Go for a double ... they are one of life's hidden pleasures.
four different women in one day, over a thousand for your lifetime, I'm encroaching 100 and damn proud of that. I've got a good 25 years left, at least I have a target, if I don't get there I'll have lots of fun trying
Sometimes it's just being with a great provider. Fucking still feels good, but if you're a "one and done" person just tell her so she's not killing herself trying to get that 2nd pop out of you.
This is where the reviews are really BS IMO. Guys claiming to "pound" for an hour and get 4 "cups" I'd like to bitch slap the guy who started that phrase ... I'd wish the "cup" phrase, and those who use it, would just go away and I'm not a lite cummer by any means, but a "cup" ... let's get real! I'm just waiting for the "pint" to make its ugly debut. It can't be long ...
There have been times where I called "uncle" after a provider got me really, really good and I needed time to pull the bed sheets out of my ass. Be happy with one and the rest is just "feel good" time. As the saying goes ... it's all gravy.
Agree with you.... Just enjoy time and the woman you are with. Don't set a goal and take things as they come. I enjoy those times much more than when someone walks in my room and gets right down to business. Generally won't see those types again. Personal preference I know. I'm sure some guys prefer to get things done and be on their way though.
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Still trying to figure out if I'm a one and done guy within an hour, hopefully not though. I still enjoy the whole experience though. I never looked at the "cup" phrase like that before haha.
Also I'd like to add in terms of cumming early, it's weird I feel like I'm in pretty good control of when it happens the first time. I can hold it for a while or let it go fairly quick, just the second time can't get it to go.
I'm a few years older than you and can usually get 3 pops in 90 minutes (with a bare minimum of 2 every so often). Full disclosure I'm fairly quick on the trigger so I usually have ample time to recover between rounds.
I'd highly recommend opting for a minimum of 90 min instead of 60 min. The session is much less rushed so you get to enjoy nice pillow talk and also have enough time to work on that 2nd pop. Makes the overall experience better so much better.
I am a one big orgasm guy and the thought of going more than once causes me zero theoretical anxiety. I finish and I just want beer and food.
I prefer one "good", big orgasm than two mediocre ones
It's funny how much I think about my "second pop" until I get my first, and then beer and food sounds just fine to me.
You say you're late 20's and in good shape, et al.
There are so many young hot women looking to fuck your brains out who don't charge anything. I can't tell you how great it is to fuck those women and just have them thank me for cumming all over them.
Get off your ass and find some self-esteem. The losers who pay for it are just old and decrepit. Don't be that loser.
I thought your GF was a $1000/hr hooker? Dude make up that feeble mind because you are confusing those of us who are paying attention to who says what on here ... get your BS straight ya fucking loser.
My mistake ... she's 5K, and a millionaire, you're such a fucktard, here's one of your old posts ... ever get that shopping spree she promised you?
"Now that my hooker GF is opening up to me about her finances, I was really surprised when she told me that last year she made almost $ 1 million dollars. I guess I shouldn't really be surprised as she is gorgeous and was very expensive to rent. She usually charged about $ 5000 for her time and companionship.
I guess that most of the women here make a lot more than most ordinary women. I guess that's why so many of them buy expensive stuff. My new GF told me she's thinking of taking me on a shopping spree. I told her that I'd like to look at cars or electronic stuff.
Why do some guys feel compelled to tip their hooker then? I'll bet that the hooker he's seeing makes a lot more than the trick she is charging. "
There are so many young hot women looking to fuck your brains out who don't charge anything. I can't tell you how great it is to fuck those women and just have them thank me for cumming all over them.
Get off your ass and find some self-esteem. The losers who pay for it are just old and decrepit. Don't be that loser.
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I'm 66 and I always do two hours but it has nothing to do with the number of "pops".
I also am young and also have trouble getting off!
1. Exercise everyday for Cardio
2. Check up with your doctor
3. Stop jacking off for a week or two before going to the provider
4. Have longer sessions
5. Drink more water
6. Think more positive thoughts, avoid any depressing ones or any depressants
7. Make sure you are warm enough before and during the session
8. Try a variety of providers and acts
9. Eat healthy carbs and less bad fats
10. If she allows, flirt with the provider and get to know her before the session
What the fuck does cardio have to do with ejaculating
Everyone should have regular checkups
You are seriously recommending a grown man go without sex for a week or two at a time, please GFY
We've already suggested longer sessions
Stick your psycho babble where the sun doesn't shit
I don't have enough time to go through the rest of your list, suffice to say 'it's ridiculous'
You don't need to go into training to have a normal sex life, especially in your 20's.
I am creeping up on the 60 year mark, I drink like a fish, can't imagine going more than a couple of days without sex and my sex life is just fine. You are seriously over thinking this. It's one thing when fishbro starts in with his magic herbs and elixirs, but he's an old man, even older than me. There is no reason for a young man in his twenties to be spouting this foolishness.
Not everyone is like you.
When I was in my teens, I used to run marathons and daily I would jog for miles. On days where I did not jog the pent up energy went to my balls. Some days I was getting off 15-20 times. Athletes have insanely huge sex drives, which makes perfect sense from an evolution perspective.
In my highschool years and college I drank a shot of whiskey a day before heading to class in order to deal with the monotony. As a result of not exercising due to studying more and drinking a shot of whiskey every day for mental health my sex drive weakened to around 2 pops a day, sometimes 4. Mind you that even though I did not exercise as much I still maintained the muscle mass on my legs from all the road cycling and jogging which require a big amount of blood to function. It is possible to train muscle but not cardio.
So when I am with a provider and I stand up to do the BBBJCIMTC I instinctively flex my quads and the blood flows from richard to my legs and before you know it it is flat again. Also my (big) head is quite big taking up even more blood. All that whiskey built up a small belly of fat. Fat takes up water and blood as well.
Its a no brainer that abstinence makes you horny as hell. If I go one day without a pop I wake the next day having had a near wet dream
To paraphrase Barry Goldwater: (Anyone remember him?):
Extremism in the pursuit of vice, is no vice.
GG: Lay off the grouchy pills already
I can just here a certain fucking fucker losing his shit over such a ridiculous statement.
I understand your preoccupation with juju berries, pineapples and all the other stuff you have been promoting here over the last decade or so, but when a guy in his twenties goes from the extreme of claiming to nut 15-20 times a day to suggesting another 20 something go as long as 2 weeks without relief, I call BULLSHIT.
and just why do people here assume that all guys are jacking off for weeks in between paid sessions for sex? I don't jack off but maybe once every several months, but I do try to have sex as close to everyday as possible. Going without sex for more than two or three days does make me grouchy, I can only imagine what a grouch I would be if I ever had to go two weeks without sex. THAT is one of the dumbest pieces of advice I have ever heard, and is pure blasphemy posted on a fuck board like TER.
In fact I used to take a shot of same before a date to steady my nerves a bit, and in fact counseled someone recently to do the same as their nerves were jumpy.
As for going two weeks without any nooky, I hope and pray I never have to face such an ordeal
a certain fucking fucker would have been very concerned about you after reading a bit of what you had to say earlier.
Two weeks with out nooky? Heaven forbid.