You one smart women. Far too few do that.
I posted this on my local board as well.
I just had a p411 verified client with Oks email me for a same day appointment, which I accepted. I was getting ready to go and meet him. When I asked for his room number he wouldn't give it to me. He said that he wasn't comfortable giving out the room number, that we would meet downstairs and go up to his room. I have met clients several times downstairs because of hotel security in Vegas. I have never had someone say they aren't comfortable with me knowing the room number. When I told him that I would need the room number before I arrived at his hotel, he cancelled the appointment. This is really suspicious to me. I would obviously see the room number anyways if I met him downstairs and went up with him. Ladies, have you ever had a client refuse to give you his room number? And would you still see him without knowing ahead of time what room he is in? And Gentlemen, have you ever had a problem letting the provider know your room number, and if so, why? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
He sounds a bit silly because you would see it when you go up with him, but I suppose this kind of senseless paranoia comes with the lifestyle.
If he had okays and didn't give off any weird vibes I'd have obliged his request and met him downstairs.
I am new though so I'm sure more experienced ladies can give better feedback!
although she hasn't been here posting even half that long.
She still has a long ways to go to even get on the 180 list, but I have faith she will be there well before even having two months here. With London Rayne MIA once again, it will be nice to have someone around to keep me in the number two position.
Hey! Guys are stupid.
Keep it simple so we can understand.
I've had a couple girls request to meet in the bar at their request without them knowing the room #. I've never requested that arrangement however.
Doesn't make sense to me. It's no different than the lady giving a client her location the night before or day of an appointment. You should have cancelled.
you're a BSU? Funny that.
I would guess he wanted to make sure it was really you before he has someone else at his door. maybe he has had some bait and switch done to him before. I could understand his reasoning
I never had an issue giving a room number to someone before they arrive. However, if I think about it I come up with the following:
1. He is checked in under a different name: Name and room number can be used to call the hotel switchboard and hence verify identity. You say however that he is p411 verified so that is not it.
2. He is worried about his safety: He could be worried you will show up with a bouncer or 'driver' who may take his money (not just the donation for the session, but any other cash he is keeping on hand for other fun activities).
3. He wants to check you out first: He wants to make sure you are his type, and may feel he cannot say no once you are at the room.
... but that was my very first time and I was super paranoid. Actually ended up driving to pick her up in the end. Turns out she was staying in the same hotel (it was a huge property and a long walk for her). Seems surprising since it was not his first go around but I can't blame anyone for being extra cautious from either end of the deal I guess. I think the best thing I've learned so far is to trust your gut.
You have multiple pages of reviews, what was he worried about?
I expect, and only once was I forced to meet in the lobby, (she had the room # already), that the room # is necessary for the providers safety. Why would I ever want someone coming to my place to have sex with me, not to feel totally comfortable with the transaction?
I totally agree with you that you shouldn't see him. Or if others decide to do so, before entering the room, I'd be texting the room # to a safe contact.
Guy's just a nut.
I just had a p411 verified client with Oks email me for a same day appointment, which I accepted. I was getting ready to go and meet him. When I asked for his room number he wouldn't give it to me. He said that he wasn't comfortable giving out the room number, that we would meet downstairs and go up to his room. I have met clients several times downstairs because of hotel security in Vegas. I have never had someone say they aren't comfortable with me knowing the room number. When I told him that I would need the room number before I arrived at his hotel, he cancelled the appointment. This is really suspicious to me. I would obviously see the room number anyways if I met him downstairs and went up with him. Ladies, have you ever had a client refuse to give you his room number? And would you still see him without knowing ahead of time what room he is in? And Gentlemen, have you ever had a problem letting the provider know your room number, and if so, why? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
Frankly I am at a loss to understand his thinking... Maybe he was preparing his "exit strategy" just in case you did not look like your pictures.
Personally, if I arrange for an outcall to my hotel, I am always ready to tell you my room #.
So do ladies usually provide you THEIR room number before you arrive for the appt? Doubt it. There's a good reason why. They don't want you coming back. Works both ways.
do we like tape the number on the door and the phones within the room and also blindfold you as you exit the room so you can't see the room number next door?
sorry, had to break my no posting on the gd for this one. it was just too dumb.
are you not posting on the gd board?
Actually, yes it does happen (not always) that I am given the room # when I text saying that I am on my way or am parking.
Not to argue but I read the OP to mean that she was at the hotel - perhaps I misread?
most gals won't give you their room number before you park or where they want you to be. I took it that she WASN'T at the hotel. She had called before she was ready. A gal would hang up on you or I if we called a few hours in advance and asked for the room number. I understand the security aspect of it from the gals standpoint. I also understand that there's not a need to give a gal my room number until she actually needs it. If she's in the parking lot, she can then text it to her friend/SO whatever. If he insists on coming down to get her without giving her the room number when she's parked, I'd probably pass too.
LWAM not posting is a godsend. Its always her way or the highway. Always the smartest broad on the board. Always.
I don't claim to always be right.
I don't claim it's my way or the highway.
I also don't always need the last word.
Many people have conversation and it goes back and forth and people get annoyed when they feel that they were being so cool then someone puts them in their place. That "I'll give you the last word" is an easy way to just say, "I feel defeated/have no more interest in this so I'm moving on but with *my* last work on *my* terms."
It's a super controlling thing to say and it's a thing most losers do.
The godsend is that I have excluded myself from the ter gd soap opera that I honestly don't care about and realized how much time I wasted getting involved. Now I have much more free time and a much healthier view with escorting in doing so. I was starting to wonder if all men on posted on here were low life's and it's easy to confuse the ones who aren't with the ones who are.
But, carry on with your internet world that means so much.
Remember: if my posting was so annoying to you, you could have easily ignored me. I have ignored many that I can't stand.. Leaving only the aliases that ter doesn't allow you to. 
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Not giving the room number would have spooked me big time.
Steph xoxo
he has crossed way over that line.
I have to take the hooker side of this discussion. Her need to know where she is going to be naked and alone with a strange man far outweighs any concerns he has about her maybe showing up 10 years older or 40 lbs heavier.
I can't imagine being a hooker and not knowing which room in a hotel with hundreds or even thousands of rooms I was going to be in to let someone know.
And this is why I hearts you. Logic. Pure, simple, and to the MUTHAfucking point.
I have to take the hooker side of this discussion. Her need to know where she is going to be naked and alone with a strange man far outweighs any concerns he has about her maybe showing up 10 years older or 40 lbs heavier.
I can't imagine being a hooker and not knowing which room in a hotel with hundreds or even thousands of rooms I was going to be in to let someone know.
Giving a provider my room number when she calls or texts from the parking lot of my hotel. Like someone else mentioned in Vegas it's common to meet in the casino since security may ask to see room keys/cards at the elevator
I just had a p411 verified client with Oks email me for a same day appointment, which I accepted. I was getting ready to go and meet him. When I asked for his room number he wouldn't give it to me. He said that he wasn't comfortable giving out the room number, that we would meet downstairs and go up to his room. I have met clients several times downstairs because of hotel security in Vegas. I have never had someone say they aren't comfortable with me knowing the room number. When I told him that I would need the room number before I arrived at his hotel, he cancelled the appointment. This is really suspicious to me. I would obviously see the room number anyways if I met him downstairs and went up with him. Ladies, have you ever had a client refuse to give you his room number? And would you still see him without knowing ahead of time what room he is in? And Gentlemen, have you ever had a problem letting the provider know your room number, and if so, why? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
I only give out my room number once she contacts me from the parking lot. I've never had a lady refuse to see me because of this.
I just had a p411 verified client with Oks email me for a same day appointment, which I accepted. I was getting ready to go and meet him. When I asked for his room number he wouldn't give it to me. He said that he wasn't comfortable giving out the room number, that we would meet downstairs and go up to his room. I have met clients several times downstairs because of hotel security in Vegas. I have never had someone say they aren't comfortable with me knowing the room number. When I told him that I would need the room number before I arrived at his hotel, he cancelled the appointment. This is really suspicious to me. I would obviously see the room number anyways if I met him downstairs and went up with him. Ladies, have you ever had a client refuse to give you his room number? And would you still see him without knowing ahead of time what room he is in? And Gentlemen, have you ever had a problem letting the provider know your room number, and if so, why? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
...did it occur to you that had you gone, arrived in the hotel lobby, looked around and nobody was there? He could have been weird like that.
OR he could have been weird like not having a room, but wanted to get you alone and vulnerable for evil reasons.
Would you have gone off with him? Obviously not. Do you think others would? He could be dangerous despite the Okays.
And maybe he had hacked his roommate's computer, or found the P411 password.
That answer would be a big "No."
It was good to see a modicum of "Street" Smarts in the post by JuliasLittleSecret, where it is suggested that the room number must be known so the "Provider" can leave it with a Safety Contact.
Wow! Common Sense! Do tell! One of the reasons that hookers can make big coin is because what they do is dangerous. Did ya all notice that a Russian Media guy was just killed in the Dupont Circle Hotel in DC??? Wow! So Upscale! ....Any providers ever stay there???? Huh? Shot dead. If you get in the way of the wrong people in DC, you may never post again.
Any Providers ever stay in Mid Town West Area of NYC??? It may be more favoured by the Trans girls, rather than by GGs, but 3 were Shot and 1 is Dead about one and one half blocks from Penn Station within the last 2 days. The point is that lots more "players" carry heat...Esp in NYC.
Do Providers provide trusted Safety Contacts with the names of the hotels they will be staying in before they leave home??? In case something goes South???
Where do Providers stash their Cash, after being in the Dupont Circle hotel for a five days???? In their suitcases??? lol... How hard would it be for a Crim "John" to meet up with a hooker that has been in town for four days, slip a georgia (Ga.) good ole boy into some drink or wine shared, and grab the cash and dash?? ID is easy to work around...who would really bet $100 bucks on the so called Verification services?? Let alone your life? Ever been punched in the throat by surprise????? Ever been drugged?? Think you really know hand to hand combat??? Ever fight and beat someone armed with a knife, while you had none???
I hope all Providers, GG and Trans, watch the linked video...Thimk!
Regards to all, Stay SAFE, Be Lucky. "The Street" Thimk!
Are you talking about the former Putin aid who died a couple of days ago? The news reports that I found do not mention anything about shooting, obvious violence, or sex.
The Provider should tell the Client that she uses a safety contact & she must know the room number BEFORE going up. When she calls back, it's deleted. ANY guy should be able to understand her concern for her safety. If HE'S not OK with that then it's HIS PROBLEM.
This is a compromise... she's not getting the number before meeting but she IS getting it before being alone with him.
Perhaps he's concerned that a SO is setting him up? If he takes someone he things is a provider to his room, he's a SO could still bust him...
Especially with someone who has several pages of reviews. Not at all.