I know some providers who really seem to enjoy giving BJs. They try to prolong the ecstasy (and agony, but wonderful agony), maybe switching to HJ for awhile then returning to BJ, and often with a finger you-know-where. The last provider I saw was a master at this kind of tease & denial; she was clearly having lots of fun toying with me, and guiding me to a big CIM finish.
I have noticed a correlation between whether a provider is in a rush on BJs to their overall QoS. The less rushed, the higher the overall QoS.Dumb question from a late-comer-in-life to the hobby:
How long is "too long" for a BJ?
I just read a review that stated the lady went at it for a full ten minutes, and I recall reading about BJ's lasting even 15 minutes. Me, I get uncomfortable and embarrassed if it (a climax) hasn't happened within 2-3 minutes, and so I ask the lady to move on to something else.
As a result, I've NEVER climaxed with a BJ. My wife doesn't believe in doing such a "dirty" thing, and in the hobby, I am too self-conscious to let it go on for more than 2-3 minutes.
So...any thoughts (esp. from the ladies)?
Thanks.
og
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But if I go by feeling I think 6 - 10 minutes is average, no? (Who knows I may have a wacky internal clock!)
Anyway if you'd like to finish via a BJ a good provider will understand your need to take time. Maybe search for girls with reviews praising their BJ skills!
Good luck my friend
There's no reason at all to be embarrassed. The next provider you see, tell her you want her to suck it, and you don't want her to stop until you explode in her mouth and she's got every last drop.
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As long as you both are into it, unless you feel you may cum and not sure you can get hard again for fs.
"Couldn't you just do this all day long?" I think she was enjoying it.... and it showed. I certainly could have done it all day long with her! As for an actual average time.... never really timed it but I would guess average is around 7-10 minutes. Possibly 15 at the most every now and then. Don't worry about it. Just enjoy the ride!!!
I had to check your reviews because I had a provider say the same thing to me. Recently, I had a great provider who did bbbj almost the entire session (1 hr) She was unstoppable! She called for her ride at the end, and I thought we were finished, but she said, "we have 10 minutes." and pushed me back on the bed into a 69. It was almost too much ... I'm kidding of course. Some providers can suck dick for a very long time, while other can only go 5 minutes and that's it. Relax and enjoy it. Start telling providers that you have never came during oral, BUT want to try it. One of them (or more) will accept the challenge. Relax and enjoy it. Try a double. There is nothing like looking down at two ladies going down on you at the same time! Some guys like having the boys (their balls)stimulated during a bbbj, while others "blast off" with some prostate massage during bbbj. You will find out what works for you if you keep an open mind and keep on searching. Enjoy the quest.
way with me. Couldn't keep her lips off my guy & she's VERY good at it!
Sure you do ... you reviewed her.
That reply was to fleric69's post, "Couldn't you just do this all day long?"
my kinda lady
I see. I hate TER sometimes. She is a hot,little, Russian tho.
Hot, little and high energy, yes absolutely. My hobby life would not have been complete without seeing her, and I'll see her again. Yeah, top shelf that's for certain.
Get in line... lol
I think she has held seminar's on the correct BJ technique. Or at least she has been told she should.
Love you ElleVegas!
I wouldn't be self conscious about it.Just enjoy it....anywhere from 5 to 25 can be normal depending on the person...
How long is "too long" for a BJ?
I just read a review that stated the lady went at it for a full ten minutes, and I recall reading about BJ's lasting even 15 minutes. Me, I get uncomfortable and embarrassed if it (a climax) hasn't happened within 2-3 minutes, and so I ask the lady to move on to something else.
As a result, I've NEVER climaxed with a BJ. My wife doesn't believe in doing such a "dirty" thing, and in the hobby, I am too self-conscious to let it go on for more than 2-3 minutes.
So...any thoughts (esp. from the ladies)?
Thanks.
og
-- Modified on 11/9/2015 6:50:07 PM
I know some providers who really seem to enjoy giving BJs. They try to prolong the ecstasy (and agony, but wonderful agony), maybe switching to HJ for awhile then returning to BJ, and often with a finger you-know-where. The last provider I saw was a master at this kind of tease & denial; she was clearly having lots of fun toying with me, and guiding me to a big CIM finish.
I have noticed a correlation between whether a provider is in a rush on BJs to their overall QoS. The less rushed, the higher the overall QoS.
...but I don't want to! My solution is to have her lick, suck and generally make a huge fuss over my entire pubic area, especially the space btwn my balls and ass. As long as my dick is not in her mouth I will not cum and meanwhile I am in heaven. Not every one does this and not every one who does it does it well. I have had good success though.
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I have no issue reaching climax from BJ's, and a BBBJCIM is my most favorite way to climax, aside from the other way which one would never enjoy with with a provider (or woman he is not in a relationship with).
I love savoring the feeling and not coming too quick. I love it sitting down, standing up, lying on my back, lying on my side, basically all the positions listed on the sexinfo101 website. There is an issue with having the woman go at it for a long time (fatigue and such), so I will never let anyone do it for more than 10 minutes (if that) without a break. I like threesomes because you can divide the labour and enjoy a longer BJ in an ethical fashion, but unfortunately the provider I have been seeing a lot of lately is not up for it.
Anything under 20-30 minutes is completely reasonable, in my book...
Back in the day, the combination of coke/vitamin V resulted in some epic-length blowjobs. I'm not sure how long the longest was, except that it lasted until 6AM. I know I got paid for 6 hours.
ED and obesity/bad circulation also result in some multihour blow jobs. The longest I've experienced probably lasting 2-2.5 hours.
It's nice of the guy to allow us a breather, but that doesn't always happen.
What's too long? That depends on the position I'm in. For instance, if I'm in pushup position, holding myself up with one arm and giving a combination hand/bj with the other arm...that starts to get tiring after 20 minutes. After a while, I have to switch arms every 5-10 minutes. If I'm kneeling between his legs, I can last longer as I don't have to hold myself up.
Feedback can help a lot. It's frustrating for us to be constantly working, and not really know if the guy is just spacing out, or is on his way to getting aroused (with ED, it's hard to tell). If you tell us what's working, and what you're feeling, we can feel that our energy is placed toward making you happy.
but my longest was right in that 2-2.5 hours range.
It was a New Years Day, which of course followed New Years Eve spent in Costa Rica several years ago. I spent the evening with this young tica which involved multiple bottles of Tequila and Champagne, we got completely schnockered and I have no recollection if we even had sex that night. What I do remember was finally prying our eyes open around noon and her (in spite of what must have been a giant hangover for her as well) going to town on my dick. It had to have been the best blow of my entire life and life a trooper she barely came up for air until she finally made me cum over two hours later. I really couldn't believe a woman could suck dick that long after the evening we had the night before. Damn I miss that chic
I've been with a few providers who pretty much didn't take it out of their mouth for the date
I do like blowjobs
Receiving right? (sorry, but I just had to LOL)
Your session is a fantasy to you. If you want a blow job for an hour why should that embarrass you? If you come in 10 seconds why would that embarrass you? If I may be blunt .... f*ck that you time sweetie, that's what you want then go for it, okay so you cum in within the first 2mins so...you most likely have a 58mins to cum again. Let loose this is your fantasy....just saying. Digo yo....yo ne se de otra hente. 
A dingo ate my baby what?
She could go at forever. She said she just loved to suck dick.
I miss her.
As I get older, it takes longer to cum. The time it took nearly 30 minutes, I was also holding her iPhone, doing a video of her giving me a BJ (which she let me keep. Wonderful girl). If I hadn't been distracted by taking the video, it wouldn't have taken that long.
The shortest time lately was about 2 minutes. She said she liked being FF'ed, so I did. My legs were shaking so hard I could barely stand.
I once had a provider tell me 5 minutes was all she needed to make me cum. I laughed at her. Five minutes later she was the one laughing ...
The shortest time lately was about 2 minutes. She said she liked being FF'ed, so I did. My legs were shaking so hard I could barely stand.
If it's a BJ only session, for me it's about 30-35 minutes.
For Full Service, BJ is about 15-20 minutes.
My experience is I can't handle more than about 10 minutes before I just get too sensitive. Of course, the technique also has a lot to do with that; the rougher the BJ, the quicker I get too sensitive. I'm one of those guys that never comes with a BJ, for me it's just a prelude to the main event. Don't get me wrong, I still love it!
But I prefer it as foreplay to FS, usually.
Haydn wrote beautiful 7 minute symphonies, Beethoven's ran up to an hour, time is not the question, quality and enjoyment (and perhaps the gal's stamina) are the issues.
So the answer is: What works for both of you.
I see some gals who will only go a few minutes, but they make up for it other places. One gal loves giving long hard blow jobs that edge me and we'll go for 30 minutes, and I'd go longer if time and her stamina allowed it
The hooker will go until she can't. Be decent and give her feedback. That is how I do it. Guys with small dicks get way more out of me.