There's nothing you can do, or should try, unless asked. Plan B or C is your best option at this point...
Ok...so every now and then I click on my ATF's website to check out any new pics and changes to her calendar. I find that her website is GONE, her p411 is GONE and her TER profile is GONE! I panic...I text her and ask what's going on. She does respond that she is going through something right now and should be able to work through it over the next couple of weeks. Now, I get a text that she is still going to be available at our usual meeting place a couple hours away in a couple weeks. I schedule some time...I am still concerned.
My imagination runs wild at what would cause such an established and well reviewed provider to take everything down? Stalker? Family? or even worse LE? Now I've been seeing this lady, as much as I can, for the last 4 years and feel we have a connection but then if LE is involved I'm sure all bets are off.
What would you do?
p.s. I am only a basic member and can't read emails
What a useless post
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A quick search of his posts confirm that.
He must be a Ben Carson supporter.
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nope....she's better looking
As fun as doing this can be, maybe she just needs privacy right now. You may be one person out of only a handful of people that aren't emotionally draining. I would take it as a compliment.
My imagination runs wild at what would cause such an established and well reviewed provider to take everything down? Stalker? Family? or even worse LE? Now I've been seeing this lady, as much as I can, for the last 4 years and feel we have a connection but then if LE is involved I'm sure all bets are off.
What would you do?
p.s. I am only a basic member and can't read emails.
She obviously has some serious stuff going on that she needs to work on. Although I would be concerned that she's OK and that everything works out, ultimately it's none of my business. I would make myself available to her if she wanted to talk about anything, but I wouldn't contact her to question her or to be potentially intrusive.
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He needs to just chill out and put himself in a holding pattern with her.
Steph xoxo
And she needs to take down any kind of evidence pointing to her providing?
Or even better (not really) she has a stalker or crazy boyfriend, ex etc ?
Some people just need to take a break and get a breather, the fact that she responded to you is a good thing. Maybe she will fill you in when you meet
Exactly! There are some really sick stalkers out there in hobby land who get their jollies by scaring the shit out of providers. Who is she going to run to when he threatens her? She may not be sure that one of her clients is the nut job. Some ladies are so bothered by this crap that they quit and some ladies "carefully" go UTR. She will reach out to you when she thinks she can. Just give her some breathing room right now. Chances are it's a stalker or BF issue. You would have heard if it was LE driven. We are a small community and word travels fast.
I'd go see her and bring her a nice bottle of wine or something that she likes. It sounds like she could use a little kindness right now.
Or even better (not really) she has a stalker or crazy boyfriend, ex etc ?
Some people just need to take a break and get a breather, the fact that she responded to you is a good thing. Maybe she will fill you in when you meet.
Well, yeah...I think those are a couple things I mentioned....but LE just lept into my mind.
and I always sign my emails as the President of her International Stalkers Club. LOL
Or even better (not really) she has a stalker or crazy boyfriend, ex etc ?
Some people just need to take a break and get a breather, the fact that she responded to you is a good thing. Maybe she will fill you in when you meet.
I believe I may know who you are talking about. But out of respect for her privacy I will say nothing more than she is doing okay. If it is indeed the same girl.
There are so many other likely scenarios. My ATF took all her stuff down recently too, so I wonder were thinking of the person. My ATF had me call her though so she could explain the situation.
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She may have decided to retire. But has a few regular that she might continue seeing on a partime basis
I've had threats of being outed a couple times.
I once thought a nosy neighbor was onto me.
Another time, it was an ex-boyfriend. Each time, I immediately took down everything that I could, until I knew the coast was clear.
Well....based on some things she has shared with me over the past year or so, I think this may be right. Why can't people just mind their own business.
I once thought a nosy neighbor was onto me.
Another time, it was an ex-boyfriend. Each time, I immediately took down everything that I could, until I knew the coast was clear.
Take YOUR own advice and "mind your own business".
Some of you guys just can't let this shit go. I hope she's read this drivel and steers clear of you.
Or are you going to accelerate your involvement to "save her"?
I once thought a nosy neighbor was onto me.
Another time, it was an ex-boyfriend. Each time, I immediately took down everything that I could, until I knew the coast was clear.
Well Bob..please read my original question......basically I was asking from the guys if they would keep the appointment. That was all.
Some of you guys just can't let this shit go. I hope she's read this drivel and steers clear of you.
Or are you going to accelerate your involvement to "save her"?
I once thought a nosy neighbor was onto me.
Another time, it was an ex-boyfriend. Each time, I immediately took down everything that I could, until I knew the coast was clear.
She might have a boyfriend or a husband that found out what she does and she panicked.
Oh dear another guy who thinks working girls are robots and not normal human beings.
there are dozens of possible explanations (Only a handful of which are fraught with woe, fortunately.), and you may never find out the answer.
Welcome to the world of the hobby. We have to take the good with the bad.
So, what would I do? I'd get it out of my mind, and go find someone else to enjoy myself with.
And in fact, this I have done at least a half dozen times over the last 12 years or so
I've heard of other providers taking things down because someone recognised them.
You've heard correctly. I know a couple of them that were in this situation just recently. I trust them and I still see them.
There's nothing you can do, or should try, unless asked. Plan B or C is your best option at this point...