Well, on the bright side, at least she doesn't make anyone wait more than 4 hours (yet) . Otherwise those who rely on a little blue pill would have to take a second dose. Lol
I recently set an appointment with a woman. She responded with the hotel information and I arrived at our scheduled time. Texted that I was "here" she then texted "needed one minute then she would text the room number when ready". She has a few reviews some really good and some ok so I took a chance. All reviews said she is always late but be patient. I waited and texted her 10 min later saying I'm here waiting for the room number. I texted only as she requested and waited patiently but I never received the room number. I waited 1.5 hours based on a review that said wait and it will be worth it, well she basically "No Showed" at her own hotel. If a hobbyist did this we would be "barred" or more. TER doesn't publish no shows for ladies which is a little unfair. My reviews of ladies are accurate and always on the favorable side because I really appreciate what the ladies do for us hobbyist. Obviously I'm not going to ever see her after this, but I would have appreciated a simple text explanation or a simple no thank you.
How do you ladies feel about this?
Should a hobbyist be able to write a review for "No Shows" with ladies?
Who was she? Texting you that she needed only a minute and then not showing or responding was outright mean and intolerable. Save someone else the hassle by ID'ing her here.
If she was on P411 you could report her which is just what I recently did with a lady that kept me waiting an hour until I have to leave because I had to be somewhere. If a lady pulls stuff like that enough on P411 and guys report it, the lady will be removed. But it does need to be a pattern of bad behavior, not just a rare bad day.
Same shit happened to me. I waited in the lobby for 2 hours one night...same thing...because I read in her reviews that this happens and that she's worth the hassle. I got a million excuses from her about why this happened but it all smelled like BS to me...she even tried to shift the blame to me. WTF!!!??
I haven't posted about it before because I didn't want to create a shitstorm of negativity that would just blowback on me...the newbie...but whatever.
Sassypantsoff is the woman in this case
name didn't tip you off that there might be some problems with her? Lol
I have heard reports of low-end providers (mostly off of BP) telling you to wait, and then sneaking down to the lobby and taking a look at you, and if you're not appealing to them, they no-show. Just a possibility, or could be something else.
I doubt if she saw me, I stayed in my car out of the way and watched for any one around for my own safety. Also I am nice looking and fit.
Good to know...she was on my radar.
Because I have a 15 minute rule. I consider it very rude to keep an appointment waiting longer than 15 minutes without any notification, so leading you on for 1.5 hours is insane. I have seen SP advertise, but never was tempted to take the plunge I hope your post gives her motivation to get her act together.
Good Post...
I hope she does as well, but I think this is a pattern and not easily broken. Her reviews indicate this is her pattern. I should have known better.
I would never disrespect or be rude to a provider as I really do appreciate the ladies. Respect goes both ways and her actions were disrespectful.
It is shocking what some guys put up with!! Today, there is a review of Miss. SP and the guy says he waited up to 1.5 hours after their appointed time!! Now I know the vast majority of us would walk away, but I don't get this small group of men that, seemingly, enjoy getting crapped on.
A RL girlfriend can treat u like shit, why take it from a this lady??!!
I know the vast majority of the ladies that post here wouldn't pull this type of crap. Hopefully a red flag is raised for SP and anyone else that treats unsuspecting men like garbage..
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Yes, indeed there are! Lots of men. One needs only a quick look at the Dom & Fetish section of BP (for example) to realize that. There's even a fetish called financial domination where I presume one is forced to spend money on the provider whether they like it or not. It also has an added convenience of being 100% legal. How cool is that!! :
Sometimes is easier to wait than do the whole process over again another day or find a list minute substitute. The "last minute" option always seems to wind up bada. I'm not sure if waiting 1.5 hrs is worse...
For a married man, getting away for some playtime can be difficult. A lot of planning may be required in advance. Once all the time and work is done and he gets to the location, he is anticipating a good time and a release. Maybe he had to drive a long way. We all know it is not at all uncommon to arrive at the appointed time and be asked to wait a few more minutes. In the past I had wondered if that is standard operating procedure among providers. So, with all the planning, time, distance, anticipation etc. a lot of guys with limited play opportunities will wait.
Well, on the bright side, at least she doesn't make anyone wait more than 4 hours (yet) . Otherwise those who rely on a little blue pill would have to take a second dose. Lol
.... the one with the pussy makes the rules. While that may sound harsh to some, it is so true. A few years ago I drove an hour to meet a lady, arrived on time and followed all the rules. She said she needed more time to get ready. I waited and waited and waited. I had no back up so it was either that or drive an hour back. After an hour I drove back with blue balls and a bad attitude.
Several hours later the woman texted me and said she was sorry but something had come up. I phoned her back and was surprised she answered. I gave her hell and a lecture on professionalism and asked why she told me she needed a few minutes if she wasn't even there. I was surprised she stayed on the phone all that time. She finally said "Fuck You, asshole!" and hung up. I just laughed and surprisingly, that helped me feel a lot better.
Just to be clear, the lady was not GK. She's a class act.
The ones with the pussy may make the rules
, but it's the ones with the wallet that make the final decision. That is if they are deciding with the right head, of course.
People only have power over you when YOU GIVE THEM THAT POWER.
Pussy or not that is true - and the customer always chooses who will be and who will not be successful - by how they spend their money.
Many providers here are building a brand and how successful they are oftentimes is only revealed after they get a little older and their pussy's become a little less appealing on their own.
Indeed. The one with the pussy makes the rules...but the money stayed in my pocket.
I realize that my remark probably sounded very insensitive. However, I am all for empowerment, even when it comes to providing. It's just that saying "pussy makes the rules" is so stupid I just had to say something. And the reason I think so is because in this business very, very few lucky women get to make the rules, for the rest the rules are already there....
Basically two people need to do what they agree to. If one doesn't they should make it up to the other. Or just get over it. For ladies a guy flaking can mess with your schedule and life but hey, what are you really out other than time? Yes, maybe another date but regulars won't do that so be sure to prioritize your time when in doubt or request a deposit. Guys, again, what are you really out? Again, time. It's upsetting, emotional sometimes and even a waste of an excuse or whatever for the time you would be gone - BUT you may have also dodged a bullet if that's how she treats you on a first date. You kind of only get one chance to make a 1st impression (well with this, one online then one in person - so in a way two).
Hopefully when these things happen people can be adults and talk it out or email.
This is supposed to be fun people! 
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And my "she who has the pussy makes the rules" is mainly meaning her choices of services, clients, location etc etc (and so long as she isn't saying "fuck you" after she was in the wrong, LOL).
I had a bad beginning with a provider due to a cancelled first and second appointments. I was quite pissed. But then she emailed me and we talked it out. Now, I am so glad we did. Guys, re-read Goldie's post and you will see her "The one with the pussy makes the rules" statements are more about her, and others, choices. Nothing really negative about that if you take it in context.
Hobby On!
This expression has the connotation that somehow pussy is more powerful than the dick and I think they need each other equally to survive. And if that's not it, then it's just a very vulgar and crude way to refer to a woman. It's obvious that independent providers get to make their own rules and choices, just like all independent business people. More power to them!
Pussy is much more powerful than a dick. True, they need each other the same to survive but, for our purposes here, pussy is much more powerful. Us guys are the ones seeking it out, we pay to get it, and if the lady cancels we go somewhere else or take matters into our own hands. Yes, pussy is very powerful. Hahaha!
I have never heard men talk like this, ladies. Pedicures?? The power pussy has over these guys?? sheesh... Keeping it real, I never heard discussions like these with men I know personally. I guess I am not of this world..
BTW.. I think GK's point was that women choose their partners. That's it. It's not a power struggle. It's not red states, blue states! There isn't a leftist pussy caucus. But if there ever is, I want to join!!
Have a great day.
i read on another board somewhere... i will beg for pussy, and i will pay for pussy, but i will never beg to pay for pussy!
Maybe she gets off on making her dates wait and accepting the challenge of making them forget the frustration. A particular form of domination/erotic humiliation? Virtually every review tells the same story: Waited 1+ hours but it was worth it...
If she was my type, and knowing now what I know, I'd probably just bring a good book
Better yet just come 1.5 hours later. And you will be right on time! lol
especially when i first started hobbying. more than once i've shown up to a hotel and waited for a call or a text from someone i had gotten plenty of calls or texts from earlier in the day...
bitches be crazy. also, bitches who f*k for money be crazier than most.
one thing i hate about the lopsided nature of this endeavor is that when the ladies don't want any emotional attachment they cry "it's just business!" but when you expect them to adhere to smart business tactics they're all "oh i just don't feel like it" or not even giving an excuse.
i agree with you, ter should have a section for no shows.
a few months ago i had a woman cancel a date to my face when we met in her parking garage. for no given reason. a top reviewed lady!! i don't know any other buisness that would, when i show up with money in my hand for a transaction, say "no, i changed my mind."
my advice: name names. who did it that to you?
also, don't wait more than a half an hour before splitting. and have a back up phone number of some previous girls ready if something falls through.