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I can think of many other examples, but now I sound obnoxious.
me too No blonde roots here tho
I think that guys are very attracted to me bc of my personality and sense of humor. I am weird and say bizarre shit, and am very down to earth, extremely sweet and kind. My personality is disarming and non-intimidating, in other words.
I went to the doctor recently, and the dr was just gazing into my eyes and giving me the "I want to eat you" look. Today I went in a coffee shop and was talking to some guy in line and the guys behind the counter and I said something bizarre, and they all laughed and when I left the shop, the guys were all staring at me through the window as I passed by the window and walked out.
My clients keep saying that if they were 25 yrs younger, they would seal the deal with me. And my single regular client told me straight up yesterday that he is in love with me.
I can think of many other examples, but now I sound obnoxious.
I don't know what my question is, but I guess I'm just saying that ones personality makes people fall in love. Do you agree?
...but when a woman has obviously gone out of her way to LOOK good, as a client or a civvie, I for one feel a bit of a social obligation to give her some sign of appreciation and that can include licking my lips and gazing into her innocent but enigmatic eyes. If you dress down, maybe your "personality" would draw a more palsy response from the guys at the watering holes and from your clients as well. Of course, your doctor probably will still want to eat you.
That's a little nuts, but what the hell? Why not!? As you said, the hobby is often about perception and illusion. When someone goes way up in rates, it could draw some in or push some away. I may test this idea for shits and giggles 
It's easy for the truly lonely (even if they're surrounded by people in their lives) to 'fall in love' with a woman who pays attention to them, even if they're paid to do so. Not to burst your bubble but men often fall in love with waitresses too
... the key is to figure out what it is before it's too late. As for single civie guys, they're looking for the same thing guys here are looking for, just without the envelope. In fact, the only guys not looking for that are either dead or watching the Super Bowl at that moment. I have no doubt you're an attractive woman with a great personality, but for most guys you describe if you don't look through them like they're not there, you're already ahead of 90% of the women in your category
I'd love to hear more of your obnoxious stories. No seriously, I would.
I really enjoy most of what you post - even when you bust my balls. Lol
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I think that guys are very attracted to me bc of my personality and sense of humor. I am weird and say bizarre shit, and am very down to earth, extremely sweet and kind. My personality is disarming and non-intimidating, in other words.
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Married two and a half decades ago. Feels like more. 
Cock-kneed? Like how well hung I am? Well that part is true.