.the avg size dick is 5.5 inches. Mine is 7. Not exactly porn star size but larger than the norm. My take is that they were sincere.

So I can't tell if you were looking for an excuse to start a "I have a big dick" thread. (I'm being cheeky.)
But seriously, it is the 21st century, and it should be generally understood that large penis size does not correlate to race. Also, I can't imagine the average provider not having varying sizes of condoms readily available.

Do they like a big dick or not?  Most don't some do.  Depends on how their pussy is built.  Like everything else in this game, there's no single right answer.

So, how do you compare amongst your compatriots? From the ladies I've seen, I've heard a disproportionate amount of stories about micro penises. It makes sense that the unfortunately endowed would frequent providers, which may skew their view of the penile population (much like viewing porn has skewed your expectation in the opposite direction).

but not that it's "huge."  And it's not... a little bigger than average. The compliments have been more about hardness than size.  

But then I take any compliments from providers with a grain of salt unless I've received similar compliments from women I haven't given an envelope of Benjamins to.  

If you've never had a lady refuse anal, then you're probably not significantly thicker than average.   Perhaps longer than average, and/or maybe your cock just looks really good.  (Yes, some are more appealing than others.)

The "oh gee, I don't know if I have any Magnums with me!" routine is sometimes just that: a routine.  An act.  The same as saying, "wow, you're really hung!" but a little more subtle.  

Personally, it's rare for me to tell someone this even if he is packing a pony-dick.  If a guy asks if he's big or average, I'm honest.  If he's significantly smaller than average I simply say that size really does not matter; there are far more important things like good kissing and oral skills!    
(There really is no polite way tell a guy that he needs narrower/smaller condoms for safety reasons, unfortunately.)

Long ago, I did a few 2-girl sessions with a provider who I quickly learned ALWAYS told guys that they had a big cock.  
As soon as it was in view, and hard, she'd make a really phony surprised face and in a bad porno-acting way say, "Oh.  You are BIIIIIIIG."  And make a show of attempting to get her mouth around it, acting worried that he'd hurt her, blah blah blah.  It was very difficult for me to not laugh.  

 I asked her about it and she just shrugged it off, "oh they all wanna think they have huge dicks".... ummmm, ok.  :eyeroll:

 
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Don't compare yourself to guys in porn! haha, it's all fairy tales over there. But seriously, take it as a compliment! Or if you're looking for anal..maybe a complaint

I've not had a lot of experience yet so I cannot definitely say if guys respond better or stay the same upon hearing that line. I'll have to give it a shot and see how it goes! Though, I do like authenticity so I'll probably save that line for guys I genuinely feel are in possession of a large package.

And just echoing what someone had said, it's 2015! We all know penis size and race have no substantial correlation.

He'll be clean and ready for that massive tool you have.

Please write a review too...just leave out the "we fell into each others arms like long lost lovers".

Thanks.

Sadly, compliments to penis size are quite common and is standard even for those who promise a GFE experience. Its become such a cliche. I was even watching porn with a provider once and she said that mine was bigger than the guy on the screen. I wish the ladies knew how annoying it is, especially when you are the kind of person that spends no time thinking about it to begin with.

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iI won't lie, when I see a huge penis first thing on my mind is how am I going to DT this and since i rip so easily I get a bit nervous  However, it's a good thing if someone tells you that.

I've had providers give me fake moans and fake compliments.  You can usually tell if they are insincere.  That being said, between honest girlfriends and my wife (who was with several people before we hooked up) my dick is average to slightly thicker than average.  I get the job done with no complaints and have been told (sincerely) that I use it better than most.  (Lots of practice with tons of different women throught my life perhaps? They say practice makes perfect, especially if you can take and utilize criticism and/or instruction properly)  Thats enough for me.  It doesn't make sense to compare yourself against other guy's anatomy because, in the end, there's nothing you can really do about it short of surgery, which probably might cause more problems than it solves.  Some guys will believe anything a woman tells them, others take it with a grain of salt and try to discern truth from advertising.  Me, I know what I have and don't need to compare.

if you are larger than the stated length or girth of average reported by numerous surveys (and I don't mean some negligible amount) then you can probably take it as a compliment. Unless they are always seeing guys with micro penises I ain't buying it. These ladies have seen numerous cocks from micro to tree trunks.  However for all of us average to below average guys I think it's quite insulting when the lady says this. We know it's statistically not true so it's an obvious lie and how would that bring us closer? I've actually had several providers I've been with numerous times tell me how "big" my dick is. C'mon gimme a break! The first time I'll ignore it but after that if I see them again I will stop in the middle of what we are doing and politely tell them that lets be honest there is no aspect of my dick that's big so you don't have to worry about trying to stroke my ego anymore.

I get the same compliments from both civvie women and providers.

one time mid session which was less than stellar she blurts out, "oh my, you're hung like a black man!" If nothing else a guy knows how he stacks up. Me, I'm a tad, just a tad over the norm, in no way shape or form hung like a porn star. This obviously gratuitous remark from a lackluster session caused me to immediately go limp. Made up an excuse about bad chemistry and left with 50% of the time on the clock left.

Does it really matter? There are two options: Option 1: She is telling the truth. Congrats feel good about yourself, be happy!! Option 2: She is lieing to make you feel good about yourself. Congrats you picked a good provider that wants to make you not only feel good physically, but wants you feel good about yourself and have great session. Feel good about yourself and be happy! Either way your over thinking it.

Googling yields:
- average length 5.2 inch
- average girth 4.6 inch

So if you are 5.1, you tell her she is bullshitting , if 5.3 or over,  you say thank yo

I give credit where credit is due

I don't ever say that to a guy unless I mean it.  And I always mean it as a compliment!  Guess it just depends on the lady.

Coming from me it would be an observation but if too big for me...we would either part company or resort to things other than PV sex...that would be your choice. I purposely do not carry condoms to fit large peni. No point as it is not going in there....lol

I think that generally, you have nothing to worry about. I always have my bases covered when it comes to...size. It's only a complaint if she says it is for one reason or another.

Cheers!