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Re: L'Extasia at Cap D' Agde France - outstanding
Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 397 reads
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That sounds amazing. I want to see my significant other with another woman to be honest with you. However I weary about places in NYC I haven't heard good things and went to one to check it out and it was bad. I flirt with the sex camps they have though and workshops. They usually take place in NC. That I'm intrigued about

Has anybody every been to a swingers club?

for starting the most threads in the shortest time?

GaGambler482 reads

and somebody has to knock me off the top of TER's "biggest blabbermouth" list.

It's a beautiful day, I think I will take a few hours off from running my mouth here and go play a round of golf and maybe go get laid. I expect at least a dozen new threads when I get back.

My provider date and I decided to try out some place down in Florida one night.  Cost us each $100 to get in.

No free drinks, bad food, and we got to watch a few gals dancing with each other topless.  After an hour or so we looked at each other and said, let's go home and fuck.

Which we did

Yeah, I wanted to take someone special to one But I don't think so after reading and looking up. I can't perform with 10 guys at the sametime and this particular person won't allow it so maybe I'l pass. Thank you for the feedback :D

Bill_Brasky465 reads

While I've never been to a NYC swing club I know there are several and a few of the NY crowd have been to them.  Not saying you can't get some good opinions here as well.

The best swinger club in the world. I have never seen anything like it.

In the summer Cap D'Agde is a nudist city of 30,000 plus. On the grounds there are around six different swinger clubs based on your interests. Couples, gay, bi, S&M and gangbang are some of them.

Off the property is L'Extasia. Its hard to put into words. We so out kicked our coverage that night. Europeans are so much more liberated when it comes to sex.

Closer to home is Desire in Cancun. It is an erotic resort, couples only, and lots of hooking up goes on. We have made some great friends as well as lots of outstanding sex.

One interesting thing about swinging. The ladies control everything. The stereotype of the guy pushing his wife into it is very rare. My wife wanted to try another woman. The single woman looking to hook up with a couple is known as a Unicorn. Supposedly they exist but no one can find them. Hookers were out, she has her limits and we ended up meeting a couple. They introduced us to other couples and Desire. Never looked back.

Posted By: Bill_Brasky
While I've never been to a NYC swing club I know there are several and a few of the NY crowd have been to them.  Not saying you can't get some good opinions here as well.

That sounds amazing. I want to see my significant other with another woman to be honest with you. However I weary about places in NYC I haven't heard good things and went to one to check it out and it was bad. I flirt with the sex camps they have though and workshops. They usually take place in NC. That I'm intrigued about

There are so many in NYC but none of are really worth the hype, it's more to watch here than actually participating if that makes sense.

Dfusethesituation417 reads

I've been to one a few times, it was unreal and awesome at the same time.  A bit nervous the first time, but after that I went back and had a good time.

I hear good things and bad I guess it depends on the state :)

I've never been to a swingers club in NYC before. The first time I went was when I moved from New York to New Orleans. I've had really wonderful experiences, but my experiences have varied. My first time going to a swingers club was on a Sunday night. It was super slow and not really eventful. But I appreciated that it was't overwhelming. However, the next time I went, it was on New Year's Eve, and the same club was packed with over well over a hundred people. It was a blast!

That sounds fun!!! New years eve! Must have been a great party

Even clubs within the same area can be very different from one another, and it isn't always obvious just from looking at a club's website.  Some are more alternative than others, while some are more for soft-swing, and others just tend to draw better looking crowds.  So do your homework to be sure you're not walking into a mostly AARP-member, BDSM crowd.... not that there's anything wrong with that!  ;-)

Join a swinger site or two and start there.  Lots of helpful folks who will give you information about any club or party you're considering.

Be warned: the swinger community, just like the rest of society, can be very judgmental regarding escorts.  If you get involved in the "lifestyle" and start making friends, it probably won't take long for you to be outed because a LOT of swingers (especially the single guys) browse escort sites.  Then the rumor mill will take over and everyone will know.

So if you do decide that the swinging scene is for you, honesty is probably your best bet.  But be prepared to get rejected because of that.  

And yes, it's usually the women who are worse about it than the men, but not always.  One couple I knew, and eventually told, went that way.  She was totally cool with it, but he didn't want anything to do with me after that.
So she and I just had some fun girl/girl time without him!  ;-)

Good luck!!!!

 
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Thank you sweetie, I wanted to invite my significant other to see him with other girls. Maybe I should get us a provider but it would awkward for me can you imagine lol what would I say

So is almost every couple that gets into swinging.  It's very hard to find, to the point where SFs in the lifestyle are often referred to as unicorns.  

And they have a serious reputation for being completely bat-shit-crazy.  I've personally witnessed some major SF drama at clubs twice.  It was entertaining, though lol.  

Think you can find the female half of a couple who'll play solo?   It's possible but again, EVERYONE is looking for it.  

 
Oh... and whether you get into it as a couple or as a SF yourself does not matter one bit; my previous advice is still the same and every bit as relevant.  Clubs will vary so it's best to find out all you can prior to attending, and people are still hypocritical prigs whether you're half of a couple or not.  :-)    

 
Good luck in your lifestyle adventures!!

 
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Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
Has anybody every been to a swingers club?

instead of a swing club your better off hooking up with people you know. Get a group together.  more people are into it than you think but nobody talks about it. swing clubs are full of skanky unattractive people who want to fuck anything and everything for free. don't do it

I wouldn't do it for work purposes or get laid. I wouldn't want to participate at all.

then why ask

Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
I wouldn't do it for work purposes or get laid. I wouldn't want to participate at all.

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