And keep in mind that she may drop her appointment with you if you push the pen-palling too much. Personally, I don't like getting a lot of pre-appointment correspondence from ladies I'm booking with and it's a bit of a turn off for me if she requests a bio of some sort. I just like, "lady, my references can confirm I'm cool; let's just talk when I get there."
As you can see from my reviews I've seen mostly agency ladies which you don't converse with til you meet. My first two indies I was able to chat with prior which is something I like although I realize not alot .Although my second lady which I saw twice, we texted each other from time to time to chat a bit. My question here is although I know the ladies are busy and I don't intrude on their time but it helps me if I'm able to message them through email to build a comfort level before meeting. Ladies, is this something you welcome or frown upon happening? Do you ladies get nervous when meeting a new client for the first time, I do so if Im able to message a few times with info on myself and questions I'm hopeful it will make myself and her more comfortable when we meet. As you can see from my reviews I got carried away at first and decided to slow down, this hobby can be very addicting to a newbie with all the beautiful women available.
And keep in mind that she may drop her appointment with you if you push the pen-palling too much. Personally, I don't like getting a lot of pre-appointment correspondence from ladies I'm booking with and it's a bit of a turn off for me if she requests a bio of some sort. I just like, "lady, my references can confirm I'm cool; let's just talk when I get there."
I don't mind a LITTLE bit of chat, but definitely not constantly and getting BUTTHURT because I don't respond immediately or pushing privacy boundaries will get you ignored quickly. I guess in short I don't really mind a small amount of chat, but be careful.
Thanks. Was just curious. That's why I asked here.
hi there
meeting a client for the first time is best kept it to min talk and get down to business ...
happy friday.
alley
It all depends on the caliber of lady your dealing with. Agency, and touring girls, probably not so much. Also you can sort of get a feel for how they are from reading their reviews. Some girls get 10s on here and every guy that reviews them it's like a repeat, others it seems to not go as scripted.
...and for the same reason you stated. I spend a good bit of time corresponding with gentlemen before I meet them, both to get to know them better and as a pseudo-screening method. This way, you've got lots to talk about when you meet and you have a sense of whether you two will get along well.
And I would say I'm more excited than nervous when I meet a new gentleman. I should say I vibrate with excitement lol.
That's how I look at it to, and the reason I asked the question, thanks naturalbeauty.
Unfortunately, a lot of back and forth before meeting is a big red flag that the guy is a time waster, and I don't have much time. If I see a man more than once or twice, it means I really, really like him. My regulars get a lot of attention because I actually have crushes on them, so I am pretty at their disposal online through mail.
I enjoy having a brief conversation as part of my screening process along with getting to know each other and "feel" each other out. I find it exciting and interesting getting to know a bit about each other ahead of time, understanding expectations, etc...
Cheers!