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I am so sorry you guys if I am beating a dead horse....

 
I have always been on the fence about getting a breast augmentation. When I gain weight, my boobs fill out, but are still pretty small. And, now that I have lost weight again- it is like they are non existent. But, I posted a "poll" on my twitter if you guys' prefer natural or big fake, and every one said natural. Of course, I am planning on telling the doc that I want them as natural as possible, and I definitely don't want to go up for a DDD or something, just a nice full C cup. But, its a big surgery, it isn't cheap, and I am deathly afraid that they will make me look worse off than I started. So, I'm leaning like 80% sure that I'm going to get it done, but can any ladies who have them weigh in, and guys weigh in on your preference?  

I know that most guys say they don't like them hard as a rock, and I am going to stress stress stress that I want them to be natural as possible and a full C, so if there is any other insight that any of you can help me with, I'd much appreciate it. I am so scared of going into surgery in the first place, and haven't ever had any type of surgery. Still have my tonsils, still have my appendix all that. So, I am just really nervous. I'm doing all the research that I can, and I am looking into different doctors, but any feedback would be wonderfully appreciated, ladies and gents.  

All the negative comments and mean comments, can you please keep them to yourself. I am being serious, and I just want to get a bit of input from the community, so those of you who always have to say something mean, please just don't say anything. THANK YOU.

what do YOU truly want.

make a list of pros and cons for YOU.

this is your life, your body. you have to live with it. we entertain others in every aspect of our lives for incriminates of time. you fall asleep and wake up with your body every day.
xo

Sorry, don't mean to be a grammar Nazi, but that needed to be addressed...

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I think that needed to be addressed too.  

Posted By: jelloman42
Sorry, don't mean to be a grammar Nazi, but that needed to be addressed...

...and I really can't argue with it.

7:00 tonight...

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Also Alyssa Marie is a smart woman and you will see that the longer your on this site.
You may not agree with everything she says but give her a break.

Posted By: jelloman42
...and I really can't argue with it.  
   
 7:00 tonight...

That happens to me all the time, so I've come to forgive them when they happen.

Recently in a business email someone tried to write:  I intend to apportion the remaining funds...., and it came out: I intend to abortion the remaining funds...

If you want some chuckles, Google autocorrect errors and you'll find hours of them

your fingers will automatically type a word that you have heard more, too.

not necessarily your preferred word, especially in that business email you mentioned!

we are a computer nation and sometimes the keyboard wins!
xo

you think i dont know the difference between those two words?
this is a message board and i type on a macbook that sometimes decides which word it wants to type.
the actuality is that i obviously spelled increments wrong and it thought i wanted to type incriminates.

the later doesn't even make sense in that sentence. its not like its a "your, you're" and i picked the wrong one. even if i did, again, who gives a shit.

I'm sure there are 2907527 other cooler things on your to do list today. why ignore them any longer?
xo


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...I didn't mean to offend...

I'll just go enjoy this nice cup of GoFuckYourself you served me...

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You are not drinking alone dude.  She has served up plenty of those drinks.   :-D

stating a fact.

i kinda wish that the ladies would post sans alias. i really think it would help attract the men that you want to see and keep the others ones far away. many say that it must hurt my business, but i totally disagree. in my situation it has improved the men that i see. i rarely deal with men that i dont click with anymore. i deal with fun loving lovers of football, dogs and life.

:)
xx

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Here's to fun loving lovers of football, dogs and life.  Three cheers!!!

sincere or not, lol..
just no need to pick apart posts, especially ones that are non trollish. ;)

enjoy your saturday. dont choke on that drink. :

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Boy you were really tough on that guy! And I kind of liked it! Very sexy seeing a lady stand up to all the needless BS that flies across this board. Be well and keep fighting the good fight.

...and it's your body image.

Speaking strictly for myself I just like boobs. I never judge based on size or shape, just on whether they're where they belong. But if you feel some level of discontent you should make yourself happy.

The success of any surgery is based mainly on the surgeon and his ability to deliver exactly what the patient wants and needs. Choose wisely.

You are an incredibly beautiful person already. You shouldn't worry so much.

I am a natural guy, but you need to be comfortable within your own body. So if that means implants, so be it. Just remember the immortal words of Frank Zappa, "Anything more than a mouthful is wasted!"  
If I may add, it is what's between a woman's ears that makes her beautiful and sexy!

it's about you and you're gonna have to live w your decision. If you have any doubts you shouldn't do it IMHO

You have to make yourself happy, but there are men such as myself that don't care what size boobs a woman has as long as they are real.

She is my fav becuz of her connection with me, her performance, etc not becuz of her boobs, although she does have nice nipples, LOL..  Surgery is serious, be safe.

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Posted By: Jamie.Solo
I am so sorry you guys if I am beating a dead horse....  
   
   
 I have always been on the fence about getting a breast augmentation. When I gain weight, my boobs fill out, but are still pretty small. And, now that I have lost weight again- it is like they are non existent. But, I posted a "poll" on my twitter if you guys' prefer natural or big fake, and every one said natural. Of course, I am planning on telling the doc that I want them as natural as possible, and I definitely don't want to go up for a DDD or something, just a nice full C cup. But, its a big surgery, it isn't cheap, and I am deathly afraid that they will make me look worse off than I started. So, I'm leaning like 80% sure that I'm going to get it done, but can any ladies who have them weigh in, and guys weigh in on your preference?  
   
 I know that most guys say they don't like them hard as a rock, and I am going to stress stress stress that I want them to be natural as possible and a full C, so if there is any other insight that any of you can help me with, I'd much appreciate it. I am so scared of going into surgery in the first place, and haven't ever had any type of surgery. Still have my tonsils, still have my appendix all that. So, I am just really nervous. I'm doing all the research that I can, and I am looking into different doctors, but any feedback would be wonderfully appreciated, ladies and gents.  
   
 All the negative comments and mean comments, can you please keep them to yourself. I am being serious, and I just want to get a bit of input from the community, so those of you who always have to say something mean, please just don't say anything. THANK YOU.

If you decide to do it, see if the doc will insert a couple of squeaky toys.

To squeeze your boobs and produce squeaks would combine my childish infatuation with boobs and rubber duckies.

Ahh ... shear bliss.

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In your pictures, your body type appears more on the slender side, as in your hips are not too big in relation to your upper body.  Your body proportions are aesthetically pleasing to my eyes.  Being a red head also makes your total look more unique.  

You could try this out too, assuming you haven't already.  Buy a bra that is in the size you are thinking about enhancing to.  Fill the bra the rest of the way and put a long t-shirt over.  Then look in the mirror in different positions and see if you like the way a bigger cup size looks on you.

I hope you are happy with whatever decision you make.

Jamie ,

Here is my take on the matter,
As guys are obsessed with their cock size and it's never big enough women obsess over their Brest size.  

If you scroll down on the board , very recently guys were discussing the cock size etc.
Women jumped in and vast majority like 99% of them said they don't care about the size  
that much ,but lot of them say they prefer more of an average size cause the large  cocks  
can cause discomfort or pain. And guys I am not trying to knock big cocks ( I wish I had one ;)  here so please don't be mad at me, please bare with me I'm just trying to make a point.   Anyway now , maybe those ladies were just being nice to the guys with smaller packers , after-all some of these men maybe and are their clients. But this ,we as guys will never know .

But What I can tell you is from my experience with two x wives that had Breast Augmentation
done. Both of them did that to make themselves feel better about themselves .  
And both said to me they are doing this for me , but I kept on telling them I could care less  
about bigger boobs . To me I don't car I like small boobs , Big boobs any boobs  
as long as I can suck on em .  

I think I am speaking for lots of men out there that boob size is really over hyped especially  
by women . Women tend to think that men expect big boobs like men think women want big dicks .

As far as the surgery goes , If you choose to do it , Relax , think of other millions of women who get this done every year  these doctors for most part are well trained and know what they are doing , you will be ok .

As far as pain , from what I have seen with my wives , It was a little pain for the  first week  
and uncomfortable for few more after that but then its no problem . You need to ware special supports for a while , but believe me you will be ok .  

Last advise , try to get silicone implants not the saline implants if possible
Silicone I think feels for more natural and saline feels like a balloon filled with water when you touch.

The only problem you may have , unless they changed some regulations ,
years ago when my first wife got hers done doctor told her that she can not  
have silicone implants unless she has saline implants first for at least couple of years.
If this is still the case , and you want silicone , you may have to get them done abroad.

My second wife did hers in Poland and  they did very nice job and she is happy with her results.
Many of the ladies that I see from Asia ( Korea & Thailand mainly ) had them done there and ohh boy they have done great job on them as well .  The only question is will you feel comfortable in going  
abroad .

Anyway , sorry for this lengthy letter I hope you find it somewhat helpful  with your decision  
and good luck.. Which ever choice you make is going to be your choice and the  
right choice for now.  

xoxo  

CIao Bambin

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And it is true. No matter how routine there is always some risk in any surgery.

Of course it is up to you but I must say
 your ta-ta's are looking good the way they are Yep they look real good to me.

 
 Thank you  
2015 = 28

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Being sexy and smart and talented aside, let's now focus  on the question you posed. Here is my opinion

I am a breast man, big and natural and firm.  But those are rare outside of an under 25 lady who hasn't had weight fluctuations and children. (And queue someone telling me they are 45 and their DDs are still firm... Good for you, you are a rarity)  What ruins a nice pair of breasts for me is droopage and if they are small and droop then it's just a shame. I would prefer a nice ass or a firm pair of A's over large droopy breasts. So if your weight has fluctuated my guess is you probably have some droopage, it's just life. So a well done set of implants can help fix that and give you the look you seem to be going after.  

However if your weight fluctuates often, that too will impact their look. What goes in looking great at weight x may not look so good at weight x+10 or x-10. Perhaps some other ladies here can chime in.  

Lastly do a ton of research on surgeons and look at their before/after pictures and try to get some that have a few after +9 months.  

Good luck.

Firstly by "ME" I mean you.
We have never met , but from your pics & reviews you are obviously a gorgeous lady with a solid fan base.
Breast augmentation as a business decision really does not seem  necessary.  
I suspect you will continue to stay as busy as you wish.

The opinions and preferences of others , especially the lower end of our species [ men ] should not be a factor. Surveys on the matter , btw, should be disregarded as they tend to be inaccurate.  They always tilt toward the natural look but yet most of the top Providers in the country seem to have enhancements. And for that matter most of the top and legendary porn stars have had augmentations.  

But the only issue here is what do you want? If it is something you desire...if it will make you feel good about yourself...if it is just something you have been wanting to do for yourself...then ignore the pathetic pleas of the "no...no...no" boys and go for it.

Of course the key is to be as selective to whom you trust this procedure as you would when accepting an appt request. Do your research. Find the best no matter the cost. There was a top Provider in the DC area a few years ago that had spectacular breast. There were board exchanges debating if they were real or not. The vast majority were convinced she was naturally busty. She wasn't. But she paid a little more and had a legendary surgeon.  

Augmentation isn't only about size . It's also about shape. I've seen some 31Bs go to pretty hot 33Cs.
And it's not necessarily forever. One of my faves who was a 34EE had a reduction procedure back to a 34B shortly after she retired. Mainly because she tired of guys oogling her all the time and as a petite lady she feared potential back problems.
 IMHO the only reason for you to do something like this is if it is for the only person that really counts....Jamie Solo. So it is good and it says a lot about you that you are really putting some thought into this decision.

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Do not make a decision based on the number of responses you get or what a man prefers . It is your body, be confident about your decision and yourself and if that's what you want go for it!

It took me eight months to make a decision and find the doctor I felt comfortable with and I understand it's scary as hell and an emotional roller coaster, but I was ready to do it!.. You'll be fine,  just find the right doctor but don't focus on cost and do not go with cheap doctors for sure!!  Do a lot of research , read doctors reviews, BA boards etc…Take into consideration the time it will take you to recover because you will need to rest and do not work for at least 3 months.  Also, you will need to have a friend to help you before  and after the surgery. I would recommend my doctor, but I see you are in the Chicago area. I am sure someone will recommend their doctor there :). Feel free to contact me if you have any questions  I'll be happy to help! :)

Good luck and have a great weekend!

xoxo
Bianca

I suppose I've been in the same boat as you, Jamie. I've often wondered if I should get implants as I am naturally a B cup with teardrop shaped breasts. I've been bullied about it from local hobbyists, saying that I can afford plastic so I should get it done. Of course, I've never seen these gentleman for an appointment and their only goal is to try to intimidate me and bruise my self esteem.  

Most of my clients tell me every time they see me not to get implants, haha. It's becoming more and more rare for a woman under 30 to have natural breasts. Are my breasts perfect? Nope. But they jiggle and they are squeezeable and they are just right for me. So I decided that I don't care what anyone else thinks, they are mine and I am happy with them.  

Now if you do decide to get implants, there are many things to consider. How well do you scar? I've only seen one or two ladies in real life that had implants that didn't have pretty significant scarring. Choosing a size that is right for your body is also important. If you don't have enough skin to stretch over the implants, then they will look unnatural. Also keep in mind that implants will calcify over time so you'll have to get revisions of the implants during the course of your lifetime. The added weight can also lead to back pain. Those are all things that came to mind when I was considering getting implants.

Good luck with whatever your decision may be! :)

to be natural and I think you have a smoking hot body, including boobs ,without making any modifications.  That being said, you should do whatever you feel is right. Like others have said, your body, your decision. Whatever you decide, you will still be the same awesome person that you already are, maybe just with bigger boobs!,

Really, our tastes are so varied that it is not worth taking us into account.   If you leave them as they are, there are guys who will love them.  IF you change them, there will be guys who will love them.   I would say look deep down and decide if it is something that would make YOU happier and take it from there to see if it is worth there.

BTW, I will not lie,  if I see a pair of big boobs I turn into a boob :)  However, even in the  hobby,   the reality is that the tits are nowhere near the most important thing I care about.

I just checked out the photos on your website. You are a beautiful girl with perfect breasts. I would not want to see you change a single thing.

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It is the nipples...I don't care if you're an A or DD as long as you have great nipples.  
 

Posted By: Jamie.Solo
I am so sorry you guys if I am beating a dead horse....  
   
   
 I have always been on the fence about getting a breast augmentation. When I gain weight, my boobs fill out, but are still pretty small. And, now that I have lost weight again- it is like they are non existent. But, I posted a "poll" on my twitter if you guys' prefer natural or big fake, and every one said natural. Of course, I am planning on telling the doc that I want them as natural as possible, and I definitely don't want to go up for a DDD or something, just a nice full C cup. But, its a big surgery, it isn't cheap, and I am deathly afraid that they will make me look worse off than I started. So, I'm leaning like 80% sure that I'm going to get it done, but can any ladies who have them weigh in, and guys weigh in on your preference?  
   
 I know that most guys say they don't like them hard as a rock, and I am going to stress stress stress that I want them to be natural as possible and a full C, so if there is any other insight that any of you can help me with, I'd much appreciate it. I am so scared of going into surgery in the first place, and haven't ever had any type of surgery. Still have my tonsils, still have my appendix all that. So, I am just really nervous. I'm doing all the research that I can, and I am looking into different doctors, but any feedback would be wonderfully appreciated, ladies and gents.  
   
 All the negative comments and mean comments, can you please keep them to yourself. I am being serious, and I just want to get a bit of input from the community, so those of you who always have to say something mean, please just don't say anything. THANK YOU.

The most sexy attribute a woman can possess is CONFIDENCE.  If getting some surgical assistance can help you achieve that, without sacrificing long term health, go for it.

If the decision is to move forward, start with lots of research; be able to clearly articulate what you want; interview several surgeons in person, narrow the surgeon candidate list down, and interview again before you make a final choice; don't be cheap; prepare yourself mentally and financially for recovery; arrange for a very good friend or dependable family to provide aftercare and support.

God bless!

TONY

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I got a boob job for my ex; for him, it was necessary to keep our marriage going  -- and no, I can see the guys thinking I must have been flat & droopy -- but I was a very full & nicely shaped B cup -- the plastic surgeon even commented that I could expect beautiful results since I was starting off with a great shape. It was one of the stupidest things I've done in my life. If you do something like that for yourself, you will love it, but if you do it for a guy/clients, you'll resent them for it, even if you think you won't.  You don't ever want to look in the mirror and think your boobies are just for the boys.  Instead, you want to be able to look in the mirror and think what a great rack you have, whether you choose to remain normal sized or get implants.

Having a well-done boob job is probably a slight asset in the hobby, despite all the protestations of loving natural.  With mine, I didn't go too large (to my ex's disappointment) & got silicone (which are widely available now - in the early 2000s it used to only be available through MDs participating in clinical trials).  Once the healing was complete, they felt natural unless you knew where to squeeze; after I wised up, ditched the ex, & dated again, some guys thought they were natural.  However, even if it's an asset, it's probably only a *very minor* asset, and there are plenty of men who will see you with natural breasts and love them.  

Harder, unnatural boobs are from large implants compared to your body frame or overfilled saline implants, so this problem is easily avoided. Rock-hard breasts are usually from encapsulation, which can happen at any time to your implants, even years out, and is not really predictable or preventable (there are proposed reasons as to why it happens but they are untested); the only official way to correct encapsulation is to have another surgery. Silicone has a lower rate of encapsulation, but there are never any guarantees, so if you choose to get implants, set aside a repair fund.  

Another risk of implants is loss of nipple sensitivity. This did happen temporarily to me but thank goodness that came back.  For some ladies, the loss is permanent. If you love having your nipples played with, it's another thing to think about.  

Hope you are able to make the best decision for yourself!  If you really want them for you, then you will probably love them, assuming you don't run into complications, but don't just do it for what the men want.

!. Are you doing it for the men you see/will see, in other words a work choice?

2. Are you doing it for purely personal reasons...YOU want them to make you feel good?

If the answer is for work, then rightfully take into consideration what the men have to say.
If it is for YOU, I have no idea why you even posted here

Some men who are losing their hair or even THINK they are losing their hair opt for hair transplants, drugs (rogaine), comb-overs (Trump that!), toupees and other measures.  How many times have you seen obvious, terrible toupees on a guy?  Often, probably, and he even knows it's a terrible rug, but IT MAKES HIM FEEL BETTER ABOUT HIMSELF.  

That's how I think about most boob jobs.  (Major exceptions are the circus style extremists like Minka. Ecch.)  They are unnecessary in most cases but it can make a woman feel better about herself.  

JS, you are already a very attractive young women.  I love your look.  I love natural!  To me, size is not important.  In my opinion, you don't need to add anything.  You don't need to do it for us.  Make your decision based on what you want to do for YOU.

Whatever you choose, good luck

I can honestly say that size doesn't matter to me. When I'm attracted to a woman her breasts become one more part of her that I want to explore. Do large breasts catch my eye?  Definitely. Are they a necessity?  Nope.  Personally I find that when I'm watching a video I like watching large natural breasts. Large implants can look like rocks flipping in skin sometimes, or you can see ripples. It looks unnatural and it's not my preference. For some people it is their preference though.  

Now from a providers perspective I've definitely considered what a boob job might do for business, but for me at this time it's not worth it. This is a personal decision that each of us makes and for many women the surgery goes well and they're happy with the results. I think in the end you have to weigh the risks versus the rewards and see where you come out.  

Also if you decide to do it I would definitely pick your doctor carefully. Look at the before and after pictures for a woman who's your age and body type.

Men are attracted to so many different things. You won't be ruining anything business wise by getting them done, I don't think. Just a little tweak in marketing will be worth it.

No matter what you do, confidence in you is ultimately what is attractive and important. Hence, why doing things like this is best if you want it. Just don't go the discount route. Really spend the money and get some recommendations

Many years ago I bought my then SO a pair of breasts. We did our research and found a great surgeon. He gave us advise on what would work best with what she already had. He also made sure that we understood we needed to follow his post surgery instructions to the tee. Specifically properly massaging them so that the tissue did not adhere to the implant. That is the number one cause of "rock hard" fakies. By the time we split up years later her "fake" boobs, while still very firm and pleasant to the touch, where sagging just like real titties. The moral is don't go overboard on size and follow the post-op instructions. You and your clients will enjoy the new you for years to come. Best of luck. My only regret is the lack of visitation rights to see my twins!!!lol

Let me first say that it is your body, so if you're going to do it, do it for you and not anyone else.

Now to answer your question.  I just browsed your gallery and you are a very pretty lady, but yes your chest is on the small side for my tastes.  I agree that a C cup would be perfect for you.  As far as real vs fake, I don't care so long as they look and feel nice and are not "hard as a rock".  I may be able to tell the difference but I don't mind it at all.  Mother nature doesn't bless everyone and you have to play the hand you are dealt.  In fact, there is something extremely sexy about a lady who cares enough about her sexual attractiveness that she went through something like this, and I appreciate that.

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I believe that if a lady does not care about his own decision is outside of them in the end as you say some are blessed by nature and others seeking to improve positive, as long as they feel comfortable

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Mother nature doesn't bless everyone and you have to play the hand you are dealt.
I think that JS has been blessed by nature!  If we're talking about blessings in the "looks" department, she's darn pretty just the way she is!

 
Now you've got me thinking of a couple of mainstream actresses who were "overblessed" and had to have breast reduction surgeries.   One of them played a child star Moon-something character years ago.  The other one is very recent, also started acting as a young teen but over-developed to the point of physical / medical discomfort

You have a beautiful face and a lovely elegant body.  I would very much prefer you as you are not with enhanced breasts

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Now - if it's just something you want to do - go for it.  It's a free country - enjoy your money how you like.  The guys do - no reason you shouldn't.

On the other hand if this is simply a business matter,  then you consider need to consider it as an investment.  There's a cost, risk/benefit.

Cost - How much money a first class boob job is going to cost.   How long are you NOT going to be working during your recovery.   Yeah - they say you can get back to normal in a few days - BUT "they" also say no heavy lifting for six weeks as well.  And you are in a physical business - so normal for you may not be exactly what "they" have in mind... and having your new boobs mauled three days after surgery might be rather painful...   I really doubt that the post op recommendations were mean for sex workers...  An SO should be able to make allowances while making love - a customer having sex - not so much....

This really is not something you get done by the low bidder.  Think about how many BJs that works out to - over and above what you are currently doing.   Think about the money you could have put into an IRA or a reasonably safe investment against the day when you are no longer working.

Risk/Benefit -  Is the boob job going to attract enough extra customers to be worth it - and - you are going to also have to put in the additional work as well.  Do you really believe that you can get an extra hundred an hour for your time?    And there is always the risk that you won't be able to get a higher rate or more customers.  There is always a risk in any surgery - though with this one, it's pretty small.  But it's still something to plug into the equation...

My guess - lots of girls out there with boob jobs (and some monster natural boobs) and I personally haven't seen a huge difference in rates as it relates to boob size.  On the other hand - if you are a stripper it will probably be worth it.  

Just thinking about it as a business proposition, IF I were an investor in Jamie Solo, inc, I would encourage management to pursue other options to increase profit.  This seems a bit risky.

But like I wrote earlier - if this is just something you want to do - go for it.  I don't make my decisions rationally either - just the business ones..

I wish I can put "Just Plain Huge" on everyone. But in the end, it's the "do what's best for you" blah,blah.

most of your pictures don't give a good view of your breasts.  but the last one on the bottom right is very nice.  Now if you are saying they aren't always like that, perhaps you might want implants...  but don't overdo.  Sure guys are dumb & love huge ones...  but really proportional is more appropriate.  A couple of my favs are Bs.   It's hard to say from pictures...  but a B+ or C- might be quite enough.   Proportional.  
Do not forget that it's not "one & done"...  that implants need raintance & replacements (I've heard 10 years).  I've not a medical professional.

No matter what you get, they will suit some and not others. i think you know that. Your selection of the Doc. is important. You know that too. Hard, Huge ,Hanging is a trun off for many guys. Don't worry about the smart asses. Please yourself.

are famous for showcasing in their windows.

The stuff is great for the eyes, but it wouldn't be the same if you put them in your mouth

some of those I bought while living there- some fried rice, udon soup, and sushi. Once I had a potluck party at my house and put the rice out in an appropriate bowl. All night people kept trying to serve themselves the rice, and when they couldn't get the spoon to go in it, they'd look around nervously and move on to the next item on the buffet table. It made me giggle all night. They look very real.

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are famous for showcasing in their windows.  
   
 The stuff is great for the eyes, but it wouldn't be the same if you put them in your mouth.  
   
 

process when deciding to get mine done. I was always a negative A cup- just nipples on a flat chest. I'd wanted boobs since I was 12 and all my friends were growing their own, and nothing was growing on my chest. I went back and forth about them for years once I reached adulthood, and one day I went shopping for a dress to attend my boyfriend's cousin's Bat Mitzvah. The dress was gorgeous and everything fit except the breast part, and the saleslady told me to take it downstairs to the seamstress. The seamstress didn't speak English, but when I tried it on, she pinned and pulled and worked the dress, and finally ran in the back and brought out padded bits to put in the dress. That was the turning point for me. I made the decision right then and there that I would get boobs.  

I researched very thoroughly and decided on a doctor and a technique. I was a stripper at the time (had been for 7 years at that point), and had a lot of real-life before and afters to see. I made the decision based on a doctor who consistently did great work on ladies I knew (you may wish to go to strip clubs to see for yourself), and got them done. I knew from my research (both at the library - this was before the internet- and in the clubs I worked at) that as I had literally nothing on my chest I would need submuscular implants or I would have the teacups-glued-to-the-chest look. The muscle would cover the line of the bag and give a more natural appearance. And even though at the time I was convinced I'd never want children, I also wanted to leave that option open, and submuscular was the least likely to affect breast feeding should I have chosen to do that some day. I also chose saline as they were considered the safest option at the time. I had wanted a B cup because one of the ladies I worked with had them, and they looked really good, but many ladies and my doctor convinced me that I should go one cup size bigger than I thought I wanted, and so I chose a full C. My hips are pretty wide, so the C cup matched my figure much better.

I've been absolutely thrilled with my boobs and have never looked back (except at photos-lol!). My body has changed significantly since I got them, and now they look much more natural than they did before, but I never had a guy refuse to sleep with me when they were new, either. And it certainly helped when I was stripping. ;)  

I think boobs are like make-up: Men will say they prefer a natural look, but will risk whiplash to lay eyes upon the first one who walks by with boobs and makeup. lol!!



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the muscle (subglandular) is that if you have larger boobs- i.e., more skin- you stand the chance of getting the ball-in-sock look on your chest after gravity takes it's toll.

I find the responses to this post to be quite insightful and tasteful.  And as Jamie mentioned in her last paragraph, that often doesn't occur in these parts.

As many others have stated, your decision should not be based on what men might say.  It's what makes you feel good about yourself.

But since you asked, I see so many pics of providers who have had tit jobs that look so fake that I find them unappealing (just like those posted by Softly Sarah).  Yes, I prefer natural breasts, but with all the thought you have obviously given this, I'm confident that you would arrange for the surgery to give you a natural look and feel.

One other consideration.  If you think you might want to have children someday, please realize that it is almost impossible to be able to breastfeed post-operatively.  The milk ducts are commonly cut and I've even seen where the nipples have been moved.  And the surgeon leaves the women with the impression that they will be able to successfully breastfeed.  I've seen a few who have been successful, but it's a very low percentage (less than 5%).

Jamie, I wish you well regardless of what is your ultimate decision.

Is about equal on the top & bottom...  Height & weight certainly enter into it...  your build...  an image on a flat sceen is hard to get an honest view.   I can't really give a proper opinion...  but you can in a mirror.  But I think that a little less can be more.  There are many "starlets" who have had them reduced in a later revision.  My opinion is a bit less can be nicer in the long run.

or skinny women than those that are fuller/normal. e.g. Tori Spelling

 I suppose finding the right surgeon is the most important factor.

I think you have the right body type for it.

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