This is a huge subject for most men ,
I'd like to hear from my fellow men ,
especially the ones who had it done .
- would you recommend it ?
- pros and cons
- would you do it again ?
Ladies
What do you think on this subject ?
PS. I bet this will generate huge views ;
and no plans to. Never had any complaints and I'm not that big - maybe a bit bigger than average if you believe the published numbers on that.
You've described yourself as average sized and from your reviews you don't seem to have any problems having a great time with providers. Have you seen the other dick size threads here where being too big can be a problem for some providers?
So my question to you is: why would you even think about surgery on your dick, since there's always the risk of complications and being big isn't as great an asset as it may seem to be?
Very good answer 
I thought this would be a great subject to talk about
and see where it takes us
Lets see what others have to sa
Wouldn't even consider it, especially at my age. My understanding is that the technology is just not really there yet, and that most results are not good. This procedure is much more problematic than breast augmentation - and in the early days of boob jobs, there were lots of bad results.
Obviously when the technology gets to where there are primarily optimal results, dick jobs will quickly outpace boob jobs. jmo.
Sure, back in adolescence I thought bigger was better, but I've heard plenty of sad tales of sex the big dicks missed out on because they couldn't fit/it was painful for her/she could only take part of the dick/she could only do it slow and gentle and not for long. Nowadays I'm thankful that my thoroughly average-sized dick has not prevented me from having every kind of sex I like.
And hell no am I taking the chance of loss of sensitivity or some other medical error from surgery. Unless it's a matter of life and death, I'm not letting a knife get anywhere near my junk!
It is a huge deal breaker here and in civvie life. Drop your pants and a trunk falls out, I am out.
I've definitely thought about it but was always too scared to do so. However after recently watching the cockumentary Private Dicks - one of the gentlemen in it had surgery and the results were quite impressive. I am definitely on the small side so would be nice to have BCD in the hopes I can satisfy the woman but also it would just give that extra boost of confidence knowing I'm not hung like an 8-yr old. Lastly even though I am in my late 30s I have performance issues like an 80 year old (even with all the Meds my Dr has prescribed) so I dont really care about the risks involved.
...you most likely already do satisfy the ladies you are with, with what you have. Incidentally, the majority of women come from direct clitoral stimulation and not just PV sex, so if you have a good mouth and tongue and can take direction and take notice of body language, you are already gold in many women's eyes.
The big dick is really about you and how you feel and of course the the few women who want that.
And do very much enjoy DATY. But I would think that most ladies would still like to enjoy actual intercourse. It's like if all a guy got was BJs, sure it would be good (though I don't enjoy them) but he would still like to have sex.
With a dick too big, not so much.
I will tell you a secret, the most sensitive part of a ladies private is on the outside of it. That organ is the clitorus. Many woman can only orgasm though that organ is the clitorus. With proper positioning even the smallest and thinnest dick can stimulate it.
Now you are going to say but that doesn't help with vaginal orgasms and the infamous and mysterious "G" spot orgam. Well in some women that may be a issue given vaginas comes in all sizes. Size can rarely be an issue here with larger vaginal openings. But as humans have mastered tools and have invented the perfect tools for the job, sex toys. They come is all kinds of shapes and sizes even larger than any dick. Please note proper positioning can often do the same job, and many women just can't get there that way.
Be creative and you can please any woman willing to give you the chance. Toys, fingers, tongue, and positioning coupled the will, creativity, and willingness to listen and learn and even with the smallest dick you can get her her's. Millions of lesbians have figured this out.
And one last thing, you should glad your not large. Vaginal holes come in all sizes, some large and some tiny. Large units will not be comfortable and may be painful for ladies with small and/or shallow opening. It can be impossible for these ladies with smaller holes to take an oversized cock, but most any woman can take a extra small one. Just ask London Rayne about that. Plus as a smaller man down there you are more likely to be invited to a trip to the islands if you get my meaning
So be proud of your unit. It can do the job. Smaller doesn't necessarily mean less able. It means fun sized if you let it.
And here I thought the "subject" was a little smaller.
But a horse cock is the wrong answer accordilng to many women.
I remember having a conversation with a girlfriend once who said she loves big cock. While a decent girth is nice, huge cock holds no special attraction for me. Then she said "I think I have a big vagina". I had never heard this sentence utter ever before and never since. So, I asked her why she thought that. She replied that no one had ever told her it was tight. Since then I've wondered if size queens have loose pussies.
I know nothing about this surgery. But I do know to ask about possible side effects of ANY surgery, especally elective surgery. A nicked nerve that can leave you large but with no sensation, a scar that doesn't heal to the level of your satisfaction ... ASK FIRST.
My personal non-medical recommendation is very general: if it's a purely elective procedure, don't do it. It's not worth the risks.
Anyone remember Deep Throat with Linda Lovelace? The dialog at the end is something like:
LL: But (boyfriend; Wilber?). I can only enjoy sex with someone who has nine inches.
BF: Good news! Dr. Young called.
LL: What did he say?
BF: He said can REMOVE 3 inches!!
LL and BF embrace and "happy music" closing: "Deep throat, deeper than deep, deep throa-oat." ... Fade to credits
Just a bit shy of 4 inches. It isn't very wide ether. Plus I have ED from nerve damage from a life saving necessary surgery. But I still can please my partners when they are open experimentation even when it doesn't work that well.
Size is not needed to please your partner. Ask any lesibain. Don't risk your junk because it is not the biggest. In my opinion that is just stupid.
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If a guy told me (as I tried to wrangle with a fore-arm sized cobra) that he'd had enlargement surgery, I'd think three things: 1) This a**hole knows zip zero about womens' bodies, 2) He must be REALLY superficial and/or insecure, and 3) He is a bigger tool than his tool!
I definitely prefer normal-size, or even small cocks. Big ones are very painful for me
until I had some nerve damage & gained weight.
But I can still get an erection... if I could not get an erection even with drug assistance, I'd consider an implant. I would consider weight loss surgery. Not not penis enlargement on a functional unit. There are horror stories of surguries gone wrong & guys wishing they'd left well enough alone. If it still works & you have sensation... size does not matter much.
So there's mixed answers... yes or no depending on your circumstances.
I could live without screwing altogether just as long as a man loves to eat pussy.
I can understand feeling perhaps your missing something in the giving end but believe me most women don't care at all about size. What get's me off with intercourse is the grinding of pelvic to pelvic. That little man in the boat pops right our to meet you and will be very attentive to your moves. The penis has no contact at all. I am somewhat shallow so a big cock can't get me off and is to uncomfortable for me to grind on.
Any surgery has risks and infection is a big one. Think very hard about this procedure before doing it.
Kisses Haley
Kisses Haley
I've yet to meet a provider who didn't prefer the mutual pleasures of oral sex to being pumped hard. Which is fine by me.
could care less if she ever got fucked again...but oh man, oral is the bomb. A good tongue and mouth....unfriggenbelievable.
for some women.
I had a date recently with a provider I've seen many times. She's a self-described "hard cummer" meaning she doesn't come easily, especially from clitoral stimulation alone. i've always used a very light touch with my tongue with her. She told me that she tells a lot of guys to stop going down on her, as they use so much tongue (plus stubble plus teeth) that it hurts
Haley -
Whenever I run across a response from you anywhere on TER, I always pay attention as I know you will have something very important, interesting, and often profound to say.
I prefer oral over insertion myself when the lady is good at providing oral and seems to enjoy doing it. Her mouth and lips are like a super pussy. You are that kind of provider Haley. I wish you were closer but then I would be broke all the time.
As for the woman, I could almost live on pussy and just tease that man in the boat all day if the lady is responsive.
If she is not responsive, and doesn't desire to provide direction to fix the issue, why bother? Just move on to another lady when the urge comes around again.
Fuzzytoy