Like most people, I have a personal life I need to balance with the hobby. I prefer a notice of a day or 2. Sometimes I book up a week to 3 weeks out so the sooner the notice the better. I will accommodate a short notice however, I very seldom am able.
I have a schedule that won't allow me to schedule with any certainty beyond a day or two. I also don't like to wait for sex. It's the opposite of why I like escorts. That is why I use agencies. But it seems the majority of TER types make far out plans. How often do these dates actually go through and what % fall victim to the contingency of existence?
but like you I rarely book more than a day in advance and quite frankly most of my dates are booked "hours" in advance, not days.
I still see more indies than agencies, but as you undoubtedly already know, it's nice to have an agency or two to fallback on when trying to make an appointment for "right now".
The city I am located in is a big convention city during certain parts of the year.
Majority of the guys I see are visitors for business or on vacation.
Alot of guys book a week to months in advance.At times the day or time needs to be changed but most of the gents who book that far ahead go through with their appts.
I find the ones who want same day or day before while I have had some success with these type of appts.
In my experience I find these type of appts sometimes fall short on going through.
Perhaps the guy has contacted more than one lady for an appt time or maybe the boss calls and there is business meetings or friends who are in town.
Just my .02
And in the case of traveling gals, maybe months in advance.
I get four hours and sometimes four weeks and both are welcome depending on circumstance. The only hiccup is that screening can take anywhere from 12 hours to 3 days (with pre screened friends this isn't an issue). In addition, I find men that opt for "R U free in an hour???" are either A.) not good planners or B.) do not value their time or mine and I have little interest in either.
My advice to a gentleman with a hectic schedule such as yours is that once you find a lady that piques your interest, make her aware of the tentative nature of your schedule, but ask to get screening out of the way now so that when you do get that sudden urge you won't have to worry about that and she'll be more likely to accept your last minute appointment.
Good luck!
And I have canceled exactly once do to my son getting sick. It was last second so I rebooked the date and paid an extra 50% for wasting her time.
Now the ladies don't have near the same track record. They tend to cancel about 10% of the time. So about a 90% of the dates happen.
Me too. A week (or three) is typical.
As much as I'd love to book same day or next, it just isn't possible for me.
To date I have never cancelled a firm date. And like scoed, my providers are running about a 90% completion
...I've never cancelled and in 6 years I've had 3 ladies cancel. Each was with enough time to reschedule. Oddly the cancellations were within about 4 days of each other. I figured somebody was trying to tell me something so I said to myself just forget it and waited a few weeks before setting up another session.
Locally a day or two usually - unless it is with an agency.
Out of town usually a week as most providers know their schedule then.
I've cancelled once due to a wicked cold.
Had one not show up thinking they'd emailed me about it. Very apologetic; future will tell if she makes up for it.
Last minute bookings would be nice, but mentally it feels like an imposition on the ladies. But that's my problem and something I need to overcome. Same day sure would nice when I'm in town and can bite some time out of the clock.
How many times or % are No show No cal? I suspect that not many clients are willing to admit that. From talks with more than a few providers clients frequently make an appointment and that is the last the girl hears from him. OK, so brand me as a Mangina but I tend to believe them.
Is usually my time span. In the winter I travel often for business and have cancelled once in awhile due to coming down with a cold.
Do you have P411? Use that and the TER reviews to decide what girls you want to see. I only use Web pages for pictures since I'm tired of reading about the 3 Ivy League degrees , 55 countries they've visited and how ultra exclusive they are.
I contact in the morning for a same day or next day appointment. Sometimes I'll accept an appointment 2 days in advance. I always have several girls to contact in case the first one is dragging her feet. In my area, most will clear me with P411 OKs.
It's been my experience that if you book more than 48 hrs in advance something will come up for one or both and the appointment will never come off. The idea that these girls are booked up solid for weeks is silly. On appointments made more than 48 hrs in advance their cancellation rate is probably 50% or more
I have done same day appointments with a few hours notice, and have had them pre book as far as 6 months in advance. In almost 3 years I have had to cancel one appointment (personal emergency) and I have had very few cancel on me. Depends on the girl and the guy. I use the TER messenger (it's on right now!) and if I can get the screening done quickly I can be to you within less than 2 hours.
Like most people, I have a personal life I need to balance with the hobby. I prefer a notice of a day or 2. Sometimes I book up a week to 3 weeks out so the sooner the notice the better. I will accommodate a short notice however, I very seldom am able.
Since I prefer a decent amount of time but do not require multiple days notice. So anywhere from 1/2 days to a month. Depends on if the individual is a new friend, a newbie, or even visiting. About 99% of my dates follow through. Believe it or not.. The one percent are usually the same day or 1 day bookings.
I always schedule the day I plan to visit. The only time I make future plans is with porn stars.